Should I let him know that I'm not intend on having sex so early?

[yerazhishda]

Re: Should I let him know that I'm not intend on having sex so early?

As to the whole "true love", or "soul mate" concept, I won't get started on what a crock of man-made, self-diluted BS that is.

Someone got their heart broken...

[Haykakan]

Re: Should I let him know that I'm not intend on having sex so early?

I have friends who met on the net and are happily married now.They may be some of the exceptions but i wouldnt write off the internet for meeting people. Many people who were looking for their partner ended up making new friends insted of finding that special someone but that to is pretty cool i think.

[KanadaHye]

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Happily married??? Like the once great Armenian nation, a happy marriage is a relic. It's rare nowadays that two people actually converge at the same point in life and agree to follow the same path since everyone is chasing their own ambitions/dreams. It seems most people get married because society tells them its the thing to do. Married by 25, divorced by 35, heart attack by 50... it's the new American dream and everybody is living it.

But don't let that stop you from finding your "soulmate" and the "only one" for you

[Crimson Glow]

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Crimson I think you're my soul mate

What about that Andy fanboi of yours??

Someone got their heart broken...

Negative. I haven't been in a position to have my "heart broken". I've never bought into the silly behavior of trying to form relationships with people who you are not compatible with, and then stating things like "well you have to work at love". No.....no, you really don't. If you have to work at it, it's NOT love. It's you trying to pretend something is there with someone just because you have a few things in common, or share a few "tender moments" with each other. Somehow, people take such things as a foundation for conning themselves into thinking/feeling they're "falling in love". I've never partaken in that nonsense.

Happily married??? Like the once great Armenian nation, a happy marriage is a relic. It's rare nowadays that two people actually converge at the same point in life and agree to follow the same path since everyone is chasing their own ambitions/dreams. It seems most people get married because society tells them its the thing to do. Married by 25, divorced by 35, heart attack by 50... it's the new American dream and everybody is living it.

But don't let that stop you from finding your "soulmate" and the "only one" for you

Precisely. It's just another part of the many programs that make up the Matrix we're in. I'll elaborate on this a lot more in the "Matrix Philosophy" manifesto I'm writing.

[KanadaHye]

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Crimson Glow wrote:

Negative. I haven't been in a position to have my "heart broken". I've never bought into the silly behavior of trying to form relationships with people who you are not compatible with, and then stating things like "well you have to work at love". No.....no, you really don't. If you have to work at it, it's NOT love. It's you trying to pretend something is there with someone just because you have a few things in common, or share a few "tender moments" with each other. Somehow, people take such things as a foundation for conning themselves into thinking/feeling they're "falling in love". I've never partaken in that nonsense.

People are in love with the idea of being "in love". Love isn't a feeling... it's something you do. And most people aren't nearly mature enough to love when they get involved in "relationships". Just put me on a beach with bikini-clad women and I'm in love, lol.

[yerazhishda]

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Negative. I haven't been in a position to have my "heart broken". I've never bought into the silly behavior of trying to form relationships with people who you are not compatible with, and then stating things like "well you have to work at love". No.....no, you really don't. If you have to work at it, it's NOT love. It's you trying to pretend something is there with someone just because you have a few things in common, or share a few "tender moments" with each other. Somehow, people take such things as a foundation for conning themselves into thinking/feeling they're "falling in love". I've never partaken in that nonsense.

I agree. The modern, metropolitan concept of "love" has more to do more with self-delusion and posturing rather than a sense of real "connection" to the other person.

[Anush]

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What about that Andy fanboi of yours??

LMAO fanboi.. lol...

[KanadaHye]

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I agree. The modern, metropolitan concept of "love" has more to do more with self-delusion and posturing rather than a sense of real "connection" to the other person.

Metropolitan or Metrosexual??

[konachan]

Re: Should I let him know that I'm not intend on having sex so early?

No man expects to have sex with a woman unless he is absolutely sure that the girl is "easy".
I never had any expectations.
You just go through things, and time would show if you'd both end up in bed.

[mouradian]

Re: Should I let him know that I'm not intend on having sex so early?

Don't let him what he wants to do when it involves you without your ok.

But you must tell him IN AN extremely nice and polite way, making sure you are not hurting his ego