Should I let him know that I'm not intend on having sex so early?

[UrMistake]

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keneres midsumer im gortse che kesi esents hartsel tai

[midsummer]

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So now you'll never know if he was Mr. Right heh.

Oh well I hope he wasn't Mr. Right otherwise it would have been stupid to loose him so easily. :-) I know you are joking and I'm joking too

keneres midsumer im gortse che kesi esents hartsel tai

No problem UrMistake. I fell in love but it was a while ago. No, I'm not afraid of having sex nor am I afraid of introducing him to my family. Is it something life threatening? LOL! I just have to meet the right person to do so.

[Crimson Glow]

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You know....I never understood how people can be comfortable even sharing photos on the internet, let alone getting "e-intimate". It's hard enough to figure out people in person/face-to-face, let alone through a virtual media. And to escalate that to meeting that person, even if they sound like Prince Charming, or Mr. Right (or whatever unrealistic label is used for someone who meets the unrealistic requirements of the "ideal" partner), is just sheer lunacy IMO.

[MrHyeSev]

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Some people find it easier on th enet then face 2 face, & + its the anticipation.

[midsummer]

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You know....I never understood how people can be comfortable even sharing photos on the internet, let alone getting "e-intimate". It's hard enough to figure out people in person/face-to-face, let alone through a virtual media. And to escalate that to meeting that person, even if they sound like Prince Charming, or Mr. Right (or whatever unrealistic label is used for someone who meets the unrealistic requirements of the "ideal" partner), is just sheer lunacy IMO.

Well, I don't have much experience in online dating but personally I don't think it's a sheer lunacy to meet with people one got to know online. They are the same people that you could have met somewhere else. Honest people will be honest also online and other way around. Yes, it's true that it's very hard to figure out people in person and it's been in this way from the very first day of human creation.(Be it in person or online) Of course there are many lairs out there on online dating sites who pretend to be someone they are not but they will try to do the same also in person. I admit that it's easy to lie about their appearance/looks online since you don't see them but eventually you get to meet them in person. One of my best friends met her fiance over the internet and there are many people who met their soul mates online.

[Crimson Glow]

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Some people find it easier on th enet then face 2 face, & + its the anticipation.

Yes. They're called the leftover loosers and rejects no one else wants to meet. Finding someone half way decent on an online service is like finding a Muslim Armenian. I'm sure they're out there, but I wouldn't hold my breath.

Well, I don't have much experience in online dating but personally I don't think it's a sheer lunacy to meet with people one got to know online.

That's the point. You DON'T get to know them. You get to know their virtual projection of themselves. In many cases, it doesn't even have anything to do with honesty. I've noticed even honest friends of mine, or local car club members I've met, seem to take on a different personality online vs. how they are in person. We've already established that it's hard to ever fully know anyone, even in person. However, the variables, opportunities and likelihood of deception increases infinitely online. If you have any intuition and common sense, you can tell a lot about a person from observing the way they talk, dress, act/mannerisms, etc face to face. These things are not available to analyze through virtual interaction, or even over the phone. So granted, we are always at a disadvantage when getting to know someone, you're placing yourself in an added handicap by trying to do it over the internet, a place known to harbor perverts, pedophiles, and the hungry, lonely and desperate. And I don't know about you, but I wouldn't want to "eventually get to meet them in person".

As to the whole "true love", or "soul mate" concept, I won't get started on what a crock of man-made, self-diluted BS that is.

[MrHyeSev]

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Not really.

[ddd]

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You should definitely let the guy you're interested in know you have absolutely no intention of sleeping with him right away. If he's a decent guy who is interested in you, he'll stick around; if he had other expectations and had no intentions of getting to really know you, what you're about (something long term), then he'll go to the next girl. Very simple.

[MrHyeSev]

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ddd, I think she has already moved on.

[Anush]

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As to the whole "true love", or "soul mate" concept, I won't get started on what a crock of man-made, self-diluted BS that is.

Crimson I think you're my soul mate