Feelings of Rejection

[ckBejug]

Originally posted by violette829 Ur not dumb....Imagine if he called u everyday after the breakup...LOL My ex still does.. We actually went to the movies last night together because we were both bored. It was so hard getting over him. But, I can tell u, it's possible to love again. I know I will..I dunno when, but I know I will. Honey, ur an awesome girl, and any guy who's with u next will realize it and won't break ur heart because he knows that he'll never be able to find anyone else like u. Don't worry...Hey, I have a cute brother

Uhm, ok how's this for proof that I am dumb.... I broke up with him because things just weren't working out, then, I kept talking to him EVERY DAY for the next few weeks and we both still said I love you and all that stuff... but he lived too far away for us to hang out and/or see eachother. I finally got the guts to tell him to stop calling me, and started seeing other people, when I found out by a strange coincidence that for the last four months my ex has had a gf. Some white girl also from his hometown. Strange, since I just broke up with him a month before and was still holding out hope that the three years we had counted for something and any day now he was going to show up and make everything better again. That leaves 3 months when he was with me and sleeping with the new girl. yay. I think I might havea sign on my forehead that says please date me and sleep with other girls. Needless to say, the new guy wont even talk to me anymore. You think he noticed I was a little TOO upset that the ex was cheating on me? Yeah. dumb


p.s. Hey violette, I have an older brother too.

Also, I edited my first post after you quoted it because I know love doesn't suck all the time, and I didn't mean to say I think I still love me ex....

[violette829]

Originally posted by ckBejug Uhm, ok how's this for proof that I am dumb.... I broke up with him because things just weren't working out, then, I kept talking to him EVERY DAY for the next few weeks and we both still said I love you and all that stuff... but he lived too far away for us to hang out and/or see eachother. I finally got the guts to tell him to stop calling me, I started seeing another guy who was from his hometown, two days later my ex came up in conversation and who else but the new guy to break it to me that for the last four months my ex has had a gf. Some white girl also from his hometown. Strange, since I just broke up with him a month before and was still holding out hope that the three years we had counted for something and any day now he was going to show up and make everything better again. That leaves 3 months when he was with me and sleeping with the new girl. yay. I think I might havea sign on my forehead that says please date me and sleep with other girls. Needless to say, the new guy wont even talk to me anymore. You think he noticed I was a little TOO upset that the ex was cheating on me? Yeah. dumb


p.s. Hey violette, I have an older brother too.
and I edited my first post after you quoted it. ooops.

HEYYY...Like I said, ur gonna find someone better..Think of what a lousy life u would have had if u were still "in the dark" about his life. So, yea u and me and our brothers should double date! How cute would that be?

[Arvestaked]

Nothing much upsets me more than infidelity. It is painful and makes you feel like you have no value.

I am sure everyone goes through the phase of questioning the possiblity of their finding true love. I am going through that phase but am also trying to convince myself that it is only a phase.

But, finding it is very important to me. I will never run away from the possibility. But I will make someone sign a contract that says, "I promise I will not cheat on you and give you the freedom to kill me and my other partner if I do."

[ckBejug]

Originally posted by Arvestaked
But, finding it is very important to me. I will never run away from the possibility. But I will make someone sign a contract that says, "I promise I will not cheat on you and give you the freedom to kill me and my other partner if I do."

Sounds good to me. Print me up one of those. lol. Some people make their partners fill out prenups, our will be a nocheat clause. lol

[ckBejug]

Originally posted by violette829 HEYYY...Like I said, ur gonna find someone better..Think of what a lousy life u would have had if u were still "in the dark" about his life. So, yea u and me and our brothers should double date! How cute would that be?

Double date with my brother. That would be interesting. he already tells me (ALMOST) everything that can be told so I guess it wouldn't be so different. I actually know a pair of twins who married a pair of twins. AND a brother and sister who married a brother and sister. It's adorable how cute they all are.

Let's see.... if you want to know how cute he is you'd have to ask my old college roomate and current best friend. She fell in love with him my freshman year. Oh maaan what a time that was. If you like tall guys though you'd be missing out. My brother is only like 5'7. But he's got enough charisma to fill up a room. My friend is 5'11 and she loved him so I guess sometimes height doesn't matter? Anyway i'm glad he's short, I don't think I want to know what it would have been like if he had been taller. I like having my friends like me for me, not my brother. lol. I just sold my brother online. lol.

[dstyle]

Can i bring my sister on to sell me lol

[Arvestaked]

Originally posted by ckBejug I am destined to be the cat lady, and I hate cats. It makes me so sad. Yeah, GREAT.

If you die in the house, they will eat you.

[TJ]

violette that was a touching story. loseyourname same goes to you man. i dont know about the girls, but to the guys. ... this coming from my infinite experiece..... no matter how much you love a girl there is gonna be a day that you are not going to love her anymore and shes just gonna be a regular girl. I dont even think love exists, its all lust, we are all animals and we think we have something special but its just our primitive ____(i forget that word for things that animals do naturally, like flying south). We are just told to be together with one girl and have a couple kids settle down but this isnt much different from birds that stay with one partner their entire lives and so do other animals. What you people call love xxxxs up a lot of people, my friend, a guy who i respected a lot and thought to be a though guy who wasnt a xxxxx,threatened to kill himself just because another friend of both of ours liked his girl and the girl was making passes at the other guy, this kid xxxxed up all his grades cutting class for this stupid xxxxx and xxxxed up a lot of his life. all for what? shes gonna xxxxing be gone in a year. just forget all this bull xxxx and go have fun emotionless relationships, get LOW! get LOW! get laid have fun live out your xxxxing life, no way im gonna be with one girl for my entire life thats just crazy, if i do get married its gonna be after 35 and im gonna marry a hot ass 20 year old and xxxx her everyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy night

[TJ]

by the way violette let me know the address of this old xxxxx and me and my crew will take care of her mangy ass

[violette829]

Originally posted by ckBejug Double date with my brother. That would be interesting. he already tells me (ALMOST) everything that can be told so I guess it wouldn't be so different. I actually know a pair of twins who married a pair of twins. AND a brother and sister who married a brother and sister. It's adorable how cute they all are.

Let's see.... if you want to know how cute he is you'd have to ask my old college roomate and current best friend. She fell in love with him my freshman year. Oh maaan what a time that was. If you like tall guys though you'd be missing out. My brother is only like 5'7. But he's got enough charisma to fill up a room. My friend is 5'11 and she loved him so I guess sometimes height doesn't matter? Anyway i'm glad he's short, I don't think I want to know what it would have been like if he had been taller. I like having my friends like me for me, not my brother. lol. I just sold my brother online. lol.

If ur brother has ur personality....then he's perfect...My brother's 6'1 195...well built....hmmm.i don't wanna sound Angelina Jolieish..but he's pretty hot. Just like his sister