What is Love?

[hrai]

Re: What is Love?

Sorry for making this so long, hope you all got my point.

Waaaaay too long, got tired reading such a block........far too much rambling, have you ever been in love Saco ?

Hrai, what is True Love to you? How do you imagine True Love? How can love have nothing to do with lust? That's like separating heat from fire. I think you should be saying that LOVE should drive lust. Instead, it seems you are completely against lust which in many ways is not understandable. Like I said on countless occasions, love is a combination of almost every feeling you can think of, that's what makes it so special.

Love can't drive lust. I'm not against lust at all, indulged in my fair share of it, but love is the theme of this thread. Lust can be what a dog feels for another.

[Sako]

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Waaaaay too long, got tired reading such a block........far too much rambling, have you ever been in love Saco?

Yes, I have. Not for years and years but I've had my share of love. I haven't been in many really serious relationships because I've moved from one country to another on many occasions. Plus, my studies and everything got in the way as well. But my views on love have always been serious and deep since I was a kid. As I grew up, they never disappeared, they only grew stronger and more mature. I've never been the hair-pulling guy or a bully and I always valued the most important aspects of life more then anything else. Most girls respected me for that, not to be bragging or anything, and I had many friends throughout the years, no matter where I went, always trying my best to help them in any way I could, always respecting and appreciating them for who they were. Till today, I still talk to some of them on different occasions although they live so far away from me. Anyways, I wouldn't say I was rambling but my post was long, I won't hide that. I tried to be as clear as possible and if all of you understood me then it was all worth it. It takes me only a few minutes to get my thoughts and feelings into a post.

Love can't drive lust. I'm not against lust at all, indulged in my fair share of it, but love is the theme of this thread. Lust can be what a dog feels for another.

It seems you didn't understand what I said, Hrai, again. Simply put, lust alone is a dangerous feeling because you eventually become animalistic and it drags you deeper and deeper. It's like a drug. You've indulged in your fair share of lust and you will do so when you are in love, as well. How/Why? Because when lust comes in contact with love, it transforms into something else, something different, something beautiful, something with purpose. If it doesn't, it simply transforms and leads you to pointless sex which lasts for a very short period of time. This type of lust is what dogs worldwide experience. Love, which is COMPRISED of many different feelings, INCLUDING lust, is what we human beings CAN experience. Many people get lost in lust though, confusing it with love, which is wrong, and this isn't because of desire or anything else, this is because of the individual person.

Love is the theme of this thread, I agree, and it would be foolish to separate love from lust. Alone, lust is nothing much but when it comes in contact with love, it transforms into something else ........

[sad_eyes]

Re: What is Love?

Love is a test of one owns inner strength and compatibility combined with another's. It is an action by choice. Choosing to offer to another human being the qualities of care, respect, affection, compassion, trust, joy, forgiveness.

[iFemale]

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Wtf? We dont food that much! lol

Don't deny it brotha'



Love is playing Monopoly and letting the other person win. At least that's what I do.

Actually, no, wait...I just steal most of the money, then end up not passing go, not collecting $200, and end up in jail. Sighs

[Sako]

Re: What is Love?

Love is a test of one owns inner strength and compatibility combined with another's. It is an action by choice. Choosing to offer to another human being the qualities of care, respect, affection, compassion, trust, joy, forgiveness.

Well said.

[MrHyeSev]

Re: What is Love?

Everyone has a diffrent definiton of Love
so I don't think theres one specific answer.

For me, Love is when you would actually die for the person & you would do anything to make the person happy & comfortable.

[iFemale]

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Everyone has a diffrent definiton of Love
so I don't think theres one specific answer.

I've already mentioned this in the beginning.

[MrHyeSev]

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I know

I'm just adding my opinion.

[iFemale]

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I know

I'm just adding my opinion.

It's a fact.

[Sako]

Re: What is Love?

I know every person defines love differently. And why is that? Because love is comprised of so many feelings. In some couples this or that feeling is felt more then the other feelings. The emotional balance varies from one couple to another basically and that's why you could get so many definitions, which isn't a bad thing.