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Is infidelity forgiveable?

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  • #11
    feliz, I hope you stay single for life.
    and I forbid you from using the word "love". so DON'T.
    Violette, infidelity sux. I would never forgive.

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    • #12
      Originally posted by jahannam feliz, I hope you stay single for life.
      and I forbid you from using the word "love". so DON'T.
      Violette, infidelity sux. I would never forgive.
      I have my state of mind, which is not yours. I have the same fears as anyone else, just doing some "cold" remarks

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      • #13
        I probably wouldn't... but it's easyer said then done, so ..

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        • #14
          Originally posted by felizitation Sometimes, when you have kids for instance, their are some responsabilities that make you think you should stay married.

          Marriage may proved to be like a prison.

          Marriage should NEVER feel like a prison. Like Arvest said, u get married when u know that person is the one u want to spend the rest of ur life with. If u ever feel trapped in a marriage, then there are some SERIOUS issues to deal with.

          Men usually say this, but they are much better off married than single...statistics have shown....

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          • #15
            Originally posted by violette829 Marriage should NEVER feel like a prison. Like Arvest said, u get married when u know that person is the one u want to spend the rest of ur life with. If u ever feel trapped in a marriage, then there are some SERIOUS issues to deal with.

            Men usually say this, but they are much better off married than single...statistics have shown....
            The fact is that you simply can't, when you're 20/25/30, what you will be 15/20 years after.
            Things are not sealed (this is why I loved Eyes Wide Shut) we can't never be sure of anything in this kind of business.
            That's why I'm saying such a thing, it's not I want particularly enter into men's statistics.

            Of course you get married when you're convinced, but would you stay on the same convictions ever ?

            By the way, I'm hijacking the purpose of the thread. I stop

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            • #16
              My wife threatened to cheat on me back on when I was still married. She never did, but I said it was fine as long as she did it with another woman, since I knew a woman would never be able to give her what I could and would pose no real threat to me. Oh well - that ended quickly anyway. Real mature marriage, huh?

              xxxx everything.

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              • #17
                Originally posted by loseyourname My wife threatened to cheat on me back on when I was still married. She never did, but I said it was fine as long as she did it with another woman, since I knew a woman would never be able to give her what I could and would pose no real threat to me. Oh well - that ended quickly anyway. Real mature marriage, huh?

                xxxx everything.

                still love her?

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                • #18
                  Originally posted by loseyourname My wife threatened to cheat on me back on when I was still married. She never did, but I said it was fine as long as she did it with another woman, since I knew a woman would never be able to give her what I could and would pose no real threat to me. Oh well - that ended quickly anyway. Real mature marriage, huh?

                  xxxx everything.
                  You sucked

                  (very witty remark isn't it ?)

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                  • #19
                    Originally posted by Artsakhtsi still love her?
                    Never did. We married very hastily, more out of a desire to do something we thought would be thrilling than out of love. Oh well; I am still friends with her, but can't imagine what I was thinking.

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                    • #20
                      If you forgive them the first time, they will most likely do it again.

                      I would NEVER forgive infidelity.

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