Can guys and girls be friends?

[jahannam]

Originally posted by Hogg I was just saying having sex shouldn't change the status of a friendship.

huh?
wow
people ARE different...

[PASAMONSTER]

sure they can be friends, but sometimes you have to look beyond frienship and when that nigt is over back to being friends

its called friends with benefits.

[jahannam]

okay...
you guys just crossed some lines.
can you start THINKING before you post???
that's the whole point of this freakin thread.
can girls and guys be friends WITHOUT SEX???
otherwise the sentence "can girls and guys be friends?" would be nonsense.
hoggs and pasa. apparently you don't k now what "friends" means.
you know your buddies?? guys you hang out with, play ball and videogames and backgammon with???
those are called friends.
what this thread is suggesting is that, is it possible that a girl and a guy can be the type of friends I mentioned above without any sexual and/or romantic ties???
and the answer is NO, so deal with it.

P.S. and my favorite part is when she goes "ouh ouh , no maan we're not goin out ....he's my best friend"
dude just SHUSH.
aboosh people livin in full force denial.

[PASAMONSTER]

i wasn't talking about sex.

i was talking about when a girl gets hurt by her boyfriend or lover and she comes running to her guy friend and crys on his shoulder, thats more then a typical friendship.


i have friends that are girls, and i don't bang em. but sometimes they feel like more then friends like they're a part of you and you can't live without em.

[jahannam]

Originally posted by PASAMONSTER sure they can be friends, but sometimes you have to look beyond frienship and when that nigt is over back to being friends

its called friends with benefits.

THAT's what you said.
and I dunno about YOU, but to me, "when the night is over back to being friends" purely suggests sex.
nice try though

[PASAMONSTER]

well then i don't know where you're mind is

i had nights when i was awakened by a phone call at 3:30 am and went to pick up my girl friend (notice the space between)
and she cried the whole night, but in the morning i was just a friend again and she went back to get more xxxx to cry about.

[Hogg]

You find me a girl who wants to play/watch ball and video games and I won't even want sex from her. She still has to look good though.

[fstkhnan]

yeah I actually like having guy friends cuz there is less drama going on.....but then again, ecentually the guy starts wanting more from a girl, not just an innocent guy/girl friendship...so I think its tough!

[chille]

I have a lot of guy friends, who I have never been attracted to and I have never thought of having an affair with. So I think it is quite possible to have a friend of an opposite sex. But at he same time my boyfriend and I used to be really cool friends, we would chill together without even thinking about getting together and then just one night changed everything.
PS. We didnt have sex, we just danced and it changed it all.

[felizitation]

My best "girl" friend (should notice the space char) is ugly. And I feel absolutely no attraction for her.
On the other side, when I presented real girlfriends to her (because she's my friend, ok ?), she was always showing some kind of jealeousy.
Now she has her life with her boyfriend, and we rather don't see eachother anymore.