Can guys and girls be friends?

[felizitation]

Originally posted by felizitation My best "girl" friend (should notice the space char) is ugly. And I feel absolutely no attraction for her.
On the other side, when I presented real girlfriends to her (because she's my friend, ok ?), she was always showing some kind of jealeousy.
Now she has her life with her boyfriend, and we rather don't see eachother anymore.

I forgot to answer: as soon as there is some attraction, "real" friendship is rather impossible. But friendship (girl/boy) is always colored by feelings that obviously should not appear into, even with "male" (don't know how to express it) friends: jealousy, competition, covetousness... of different degrees.

[SALTnPEPA92]

Most of my friends that are guys are my borthers friends and they are like brothers to me, so ya it does work out

[jahannam]

Originally posted by SALTnPEPA92 Most of my friends that are guys are my borthers friends and they are like brothers to me, so ya it does work out

yeah I know. we all do favors to our "brothers"


did you NOT READ all the posts in this thread???
they're all stories about how close girl/guy "friendships" have NEVER worked out.
but you could deny all you want.
with that avatar, I don't think anyone takes you seriously.
oh wait except for DAN, of course, since he's your BROTHERLY friend.

[Anonymouse]

Originally posted by chille I have a lot of guy friends, who I have never been attracted to and I have never thought of having an affair with. So I think it is quite possible to have a friend of an opposite sex. But at he same time my boyfriend and I used to be really cool friends, we would chill together without even thinking about getting together and then just one night changed everything.
PS. We didnt have sex, we just danced and it changed it all.

Well, aren't you glad you had experienced that for giving you something to post about?

[sleuth]

friends? come onnnnnnnnnnn!!! ppl should be lovers....lol just kidding men are great friends better than women...
less drama...well, sometimes they pissing me off,when they think with theire lower head,otherwise they are fine.

[Anonymouse]

When guys and girls are friends it leads to 2 things:

1) Friends with privelages
2) Relationship

This is an inevitability.

[surferarmo]

Originally posted by Anonymouse When guys and girls are friends it leads to 2 things:

1) Friends with privelages
2) Relationship

This is an inevitability.

Ya. Something like this.

[SALTnPEPA92]

Originally posted by jahannam yeah I know. we all do favors to our "brothers"


did you NOT READ all the posts in this thread???
they're all stories about how close girl/guy "friendships" have NEVER worked out.
but you could deny all you want.
with that avatar, I don't think anyone takes you seriously.
oh wait except for DAN, of course, since he's your BROTHERLY friend.

Ya I understand that girl/guy "friendships" don't work out, but my brothers friends are very close with me as in "akperakan", and I don't do "favors" for anybody, I'm not like that. My avatar is the only thing I found so I just put it. I don't think avatar means much .. ~Tatev (p.s. no hard feelings)

[chille]

Originally posted by Anonymouse Well, aren't you glad you had experienced that for giving you something to post about?

Well, I think everyone does the same thing. Everyone has experience and then share it. I dunno why you seem to have problem with that?

[Anonymouse]

Originally posted by chille Well, I think everyone does the same thing. Everyone has experience and then share it. I dunno why you seem to have problem with that?

Lighten up will ya? It was a joke.