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  • #171
    Originally posted by Genuine_Stud
    Guys and girls can become friends, however, I'm sure that either the girl or the guy has thought of having sex with each other in their minds. No one can deny that. Even if you're trying really hard not to think about it, it just comes to your mind naturally.....because the curiosity of the possiblity of pleasure with that friend is there without having it pointed out.
    What I learned from this post was that 2+2=4.
    Achkerov kute.

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    • #172
      Originally posted by Genuine_Stud
      Guys and girls can become friends, however, I'm sure that either the girl or the guy has thought of having sex with each other in their minds. No one can deny that. Even if you're trying really hard not to think about it, it just comes to your mind naturally.....because the curiosity of the possiblity of pleasure with that friend is there without having it pointed out.

      haha ...that was funny...gives a whole new meaning to 'screwing your friends'

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      • #173
        Just because one of them ever thought about being romantically involved with the other person does not make them not friends.

        Males and females can be just friends. That's all there is to it.
        I see...

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        • #174
          Originally posted by SagGal
          Just because one of them ever thought about being romantically involved with the other person does not make them not friends.

          Males and females can be just friends. That's all there is to it.
          yeah but spending tooo much time with that person is bound to lead to stuff!! it's only natural! i mean spending lotts and lotts of time together, not your regular 'hangin out'...

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          • #175
            Originally posted by hyebruin
            yeah but spending tooo much time with that person is bound to lead to stuff!! it's only natural! i mean spending lotts and lotts of time together, not your regular 'hangin out'...
            If it does "...lead to stuff..." then they're not really friends and they are romantically involved. It's different. That's an "If."

            Can guys and girls be friends?
            Yes they can. It's a simple question.
            Last edited by SagGal; 08-24-2004, 12:39 AM.
            I see...

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            • #176
              Originally posted by hyebruin
              yeah but spending tooo much time with that person is bound to lead to stuff!! it's only natural! i mean spending lotts and lotts of time together, not your regular 'hangin out'...

              Here I stongly disagree. I'm living proof that spending too much time with that person is not bound to lead to stuff. It's totally possible for guys and girls to just be friends. Unless I'm totally deceived...

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              • #177
                Originally posted by thedebutante
                Here I stongly disagree. I'm living proof that spending too much time with that person is not bound to lead to stuff. It's totally possible for guys and girls to just be friends. Unless I'm totally deceived...
                Agreed. I have many female friends (and am not screwing any of them at the moment).... Seriously though....

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                • #178
                  I think guys and girls be friends without feeling any type of sexual attraction...I have a lot of guy friends that I hang out with a lot but I have no feelings whats so ever for them...I actually have a hard time being friends with a guy I'm interested in or am attracted to just b/c I think I'm going to say or do something stupid that'll push him away.

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                  • #179
                    I may have said this before,, i dont remember,, but, being sexually attracted to someone and, thinking someone is sexually attracted can be very different things.. lol..

                    Yes, boys and girls can be friends, 90% of my friends are female, infact so is my best friends, and some friends i spend a lot of time with, but still wont screw with them even if i had the chance..

                    Though, Genuine Stud, your right. you cant help that thaught that comes to your head, and if any guy denies that, they are lieing. But, YES YES YES you can be friends.
                    Infact, i would prefer to be friends with a girl before i feel romantically attracted to them, or, i rather be freinds before i say something, even if i am romantically attracted to them from the start. i guess you can call it "getting to know eachother" in a different way .. it can be very healthy..

                    i have little experiance in being involved with a girl before being friends, and currently, im not liking it.
                    How do you hurt a masochist?
                    -By leaving him alone.Forever.

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                    • #180
                      Originally posted by gevo
                      Though, Genuine Stud, your right. you cant help that thaught that comes to your head, and if any guy denies that, they are lieing. But, YES YES YES you can be friends.
                      Infact, i would prefer to be friends with a girl before i feel romantically attracted to them, or, i rather be freinds before i say something, even if i am romantically attracted to them from the start. i guess you can call it "getting to know eachother" in a different way .. it can be very healthy.
                      Gevo is the only smart one here. Great Job Gevo. He got what the point of my post was where everyone else took it a different way and went on a rant.

                      I wasn't saying you can't be friends if you're not involved with each other romantically or sexually.

                      I was merely saying that you can be friends without anything happening, but that thought of sex with each other is always going to be there even if it's not pointed out.

                      Here's a true example of what I mean. I have a friend that I've known for more than ten years. Me and her have been the best of friends without getting involved with each other romantically or sexually. It just naturally worked out that we became the best of friends. However, I can GUARANTEE you that the thought of her having sex with me has occured in her mind. At least if not her, I've thought of it. So either way that thought is bound to come up in your mind whether you like it or not.

                      That's all I'm trying to say. Guys and girls can become friends, but the thought of sex is inevitible. It always happens, and anyone that says otherwise is bullsh!tting.

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