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    Should I break up with him?

    I didn't get anything for my bf on valentine's day. He didn't call since. Do you think he got sad?
    "An angel runs
    Thru the sudden light
    Thru the room
    A ghost preceeds us
    A shadow follows us
    And each time we stop
    We fall"
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    Jenny I think he was out with another girl! I got my dushbag a chocolate kiss HAHA i spent 3 dollers on him and he spent maybe 300...oh damn now i feel bad.

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    • #3
      oh you reminded me of my last val.'s day! Seriously though I didn't get him anything coz I don't love him and I didn't want to give the wrong impression. Is it the right time to break it off?
      "An angel runs
      Thru the sudden light
      Thru the room
      A ghost preceeds us
      A shadow follows us
      And each time we stop
      We fall"

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      • #4
        Jeez, Jen. If you're concerned about stringing the guy along, chances are he already has some feelings for you. If they are not reciprocated, and you know they aren't going to be anytime soon, just let him down now. There's no point in building his hopes up further so that the let down is that much worse.

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        • #5
          Jenny, have a heart. Why waste his and your time? Break it off if you don't see any future. The longer you stay with him, the more you're going to hurt him when you actually break up. I thought that was simple logic - apparently not for everyone.

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          • #6
            I know what the logic is but I can't break it off, the words just won't come out. I don't wanna hurt him, I wouldn't forgive myself. Anyway can I write him a letter about it? It would be easier for me to express myself.
            "An angel runs
            Thru the sudden light
            Thru the room
            A ghost preceeds us
            A shadow follows us
            And each time we stop
            We fall"

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              Originally posted by Jenny I know what the logic is but I can't break it off, the words just won't come out. I don't wanna hurt him, I wouldn't forgive myself. Anyway can I write him a letter about it? It would be easier for me to express myself.
              Actually, a letter is oftentimes a better way to communicate, since you can collect your thoughts and no one will interrupt you. As far as hurting him, you'll hurt him much more if you procrastinate on breaking up with him (if you indeed intend to).

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              • #8
                I guess you're right. Ever heard of this song by Bon Jovi " Lie To Me"?
                "An angel runs
                Thru the sudden light
                Thru the room
                A ghost preceeds us
                A shadow follows us
                And each time we stop
                We fall"

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                • #9
                  Originally posted by Jenny I guess you're right. Ever heard of this song by Bon Jovi " Lie To Me"?
                  Nope, why? Honey don't lie to him, tell him the truth, lol.

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                  • #10
                    Do it on AIM. Nothing like getting dumped through an IM.

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