SYMPATHETHIC EAR!!! Girl problems, Guy problems, I'm Your Ear.

[Jenny]

Originally posted by Emil Jenny,

You would make a perfect canidate for the Dr. Phil show. Call them up.

Is your name by any chance Pasamonster?

[Emil]

Originally posted by Jenny Is your name by any chance Pasamonster?

Negative. But you can call me daddy.

[Jenny]

Originally posted by Emil Negative. But you can call me daddy.

Nah how about lonely old man replying to others' posts?

[sSsflamesSs]

Mr. Pasamonster,

Can you please, PLEASE tell Jenny to grow a brain?

Sincerely,
Flames

[Crimson Glow]

Originally posted by loseyourname All right, you were bordering on cool before. Now you're just gay.

What the???

[djp818]

Yes, hair on the head. What other hair could I have possibly been talking about?

This comming from an Armenian girl??? What other hair... LOL jk

[Jenny]

Dear Pasamonster

Some whacko ,who finds ditzy tomatoes interesting, got the idea that i don't have a brain. Can u please tell it that its percieving capacity doesn't permit such a judgment.

Thanks,
Jenny

[clubbin714]

Originally posted by ckBejug You met her a WEEK ago? She sounds you've known her forever and have been jerking her around all that time. Bad on you if you are jerking her around mr clubbin, but for goodness sake, some women need to have stronger spines. What's this crap she's saying? I think she should have just stopped right there before this came out: "If I didn't care Mike, I wouldn't get so angry...but I do care about you...you just hurt my feelings honey...call me or write back please...I'm sorry...." WHAT is she apologizing for?? If you're a jackass and she told you you're a jackass she should stop right there. But no, like all clingy silly women she has to go on and on and sound completely nuts to be this pissy over a guy she's know for a WEEK? and to top it off apologize. Oh man. Boy do I feel sorry for guys who have to deal with such women. Tell someone you like them and leave it at that. If they seem like they are just playing around, get over it. Honestly, does she think you're going to be receptive to that? I doubt she could have said anything to make you run away faster that you already want to, huh? Oh please like me Mike. Please? Sorry!

Shoot me.

No I was not jerking this girl around. I met her at a bar one night and we exchanged numbers. We talked a few times on the phone and online but that's about it.

Although I think some women need to devolope spines, some also need to figure out what they desire in men and go after it. I give her this much. She did have the guts to email me and tell me how she really felt and what she wanted.

[clubbin714]

Originally posted by ckBejug A vast majority of girls (and to tell you the truth, guys too) are silly, and clingy, and dumb. No offense to anyone of course. I'm a girl too, heck, even a silly girl sometimes, and to be quite honest I've been the dumb girl, but not to someone I've known a week, a month, even a few months, or for a few dates, etc. To someone I was with for more than a year. Not that that is a valid excuse to be dumb. Why do girls assume that just because they went out with a guy a few times he needs to go ahead and remove his balls and give them to her in a purse and just be her puppy now? They just get all pissy and pouty because the guy might possibly be dating someone else too (*shocking*). I hate people who assume there is more going on than there really is. They're just dating and assume that the guy can't (in fact, shouldn't) think, live, breathe without them. Unless I sit down and actually have that lets get serious conversation with a guy, there is no way I'm going to assume he has to, or even expect him to, date only me. What? Why?

People just need to breathe and relax a little. Stop being so dependent on others I think. It's like oooh ooh I got one, quick before he gets away! They might be taking the fish in the sea analogy too seriously maybe? That makes me soooo mad. It makes all girls look bad that a select few are like this. And guys do it too (don't think guys are the excpetion!). At least the one's I've known have done this whole being pouty thing that gets SO annoying! It seems some people are so ready to jump the gun and have someone, anyone, that they are willing to kill it from the start by moving too fast, getting to clingy and wanting too much. Why can't people just relax and have some fun. Whyyyyyyyyyyyy I ask you?



Ok, I'm done.

I agree with you here 100% I was in a relationship once where my g/f would check my incoming and outgoing calls on my cell phone daily. She would go through my drawers and my pockets. It became to suffocating so I had to end the relationship. I was young and foolish so it lasted longer then it should have, but she was all I had at that time. Now I only like to date and I let everyone know this right from the beginning.

[ckBejug]

Originally posted by clubbin714 I agree with you here 100% I was in a relationship once where my g/f would check my incoming and outgoing calls on my cell phone daily. She would go through my drawers and my pockets. It became to suffocating so I had to end the relationship. I was young and foolish so it lasted longer then it should have, but she was all I had at that time. Now I only like to date and I let everyone know this right from the beginning.

Ok, say you're in this 'dating' place right now and find out that one of the girls really likes you, and you like her back but you're not sure exactly how much yet. You just know that she makes you laugh and happy and that you really like spending time with her, a lot. What do you do if you don't want to hurt her feelings because you can't just drop the one or two other girls you're seeing, even if they are not exactly girls with whom you'd ever do anything more than just date....??