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Originally posted by ckBejug Ok, say you're in this 'dating' place right now and find out that one of the girls really likes you, and you like her back but you're not sure exactly how much yet. You just know that she makes you laugh and happy and that you really like spending time with her, a lot. What do you do if you don't want to hurt her feelings because you can't just drop the one or two other girls you're seeing, even if they are not exactly girls with whom you'd ever do anything more than just date....??
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I would keep dating the other girls but would keep the good one too. If she likes me enough and I tell her I like her, she may not care about the other girls. Not everybody is obsessively protective and jealous. I think it is very reasonable for me to feel unsure about relationships at my age and after I have been hurt but I also would not give up a potentially great thing. -
If this girl made me happy and did not try to change me or judge me like every other girl I know I would keep her. I would leave anyone else I was with on the spot. I would never let a good thing pass me by. Never. Would you?Originally posted by ckBejug Ok, say you're in this 'dating' place right now and find out that one of the girls really likes you, and you like her back but you're not sure exactly how much yet. You just know that she makes you laugh and happy and that you really like spending time with her, a lot. What do you do if you don't want to hurt her feelings because you can't just drop the one or two other girls you're seeing, even if they are not exactly girls with whom you'd ever do anything more than just date....??Comment
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What he said is good too.Comment
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Aha This thread is beautiful. Hey CK...you're like my twin. I swear I love you!!!! We need to go out honey! I hate these drama queen/bad excuse for a female females... I know this for a fact: If a woman has confidence and is sure of what she has and what she wants from a guy, then THERE SHOULD BE NO PROBLEM. If I am looking for a serious relationship, I am not going to go pick a guy up from a bar and cross my fingers, hoping it will work out. I mean, being a Virgo makes me a very logical thinker. Likewise, if I was looking to just date, then I would find guys like clubbin or someone else at a bar/club scene, and just merely have a good time with them. WHAT IS THE BIG DEAL? I don't understand why these women get so "clingy" (Ck) I don't want just any kind of relationship. In fact, I was talking about this to my mom and aunt last night. I was getting ready to go out on a date, and my mom asked me why I wouldn't just find a guy and settle down. PRECISELY MY POINT> Why would a perfectly self confidence/self sufficient woman want to SETTLE with anything? I'm not saying that I have to find the PERFECT man..but why can't I have some higher expectations for my future husband? I know when I get married, I intend to stay married to the same man....so why not have him be 'pefect' in my eyes? Anyway that was straying off topic.
I understand when men get frustrated, but I also feel bad for these women who need a man to take up whatever void they have in their lives.. I wish there was some way to empower them, make them stronger.....CK Let's start a STRONG WOMAN MARCH OF 2004
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Don't find a man that you can live with - find a man that you can't live without.Comment
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Originally posted by sSsflamesSs Don't find a man that you can live with - find a man that you can't live without.
Amen to that sista!Comment
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LET THE RALLY OF THE STRONG WILLED WOMEN BEGIN!!!!!
Dun Dun Dun Dunnnnnnnnnnnnn
I sure hope Dan joins us...(that was just mean)Comment
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Պասա Մոնստէր is out of town right now.
As of now i will be on a plane to Havasu and then to south America
Thank you
and have a wonderful 2 3 weeks without me
Love you all.Comment
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Interesting, where in South America?Comment
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Take care my friend. You will be missed. Hope you have a pleasant journey.Comment
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