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  • #21
    Everyone says that they'd prefer staying at home, going on a picnic, doing something other than the usual, but I bet majority of people end up with the usual "dinner and a movie" on their first dates. Am I right?

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    • #22
      Originally posted by Anonymouse I agree with Balinka.
      I think you mean "Bakinka," or were you not referring to me?
      Originally posted by Inna Everyone says that they'd prefer staying at home, going on a picnic, doing something other than the usual, but I bet majority of people end up with the usual "dinner and a movie" on their first dates. Am I right?
      I think the whole "dinner and a movie" thing is too played out. A lot of people still do that mostly on their first date because on the first date they are usually nervous and during the movie they can't talk to their date. They still enjoy that whole idea of being on a date and know that their date is right next to them. After the movie, I guess they can talk about the movie and their conversation will go from there. But if you have been dating for a while then why continue going to a movie and dinner? Too plain, is it not?
      I see...

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      • #23
        Originally posted by Inna Everyone says that they'd prefer staying at home, going on a picnic, doing something other than the usual, but I bet majority of people end up with the usual "dinner and a movie" on their first dates. Am I right?
        Even though I'm one of the stay-at-homers, I can't imagine telling a girl to just come over to watch a DVD or something if it's our first time getting together. I just think the girl would feel that I'm only trying to hit it if I want her to come over. Plus, even though girls say they enjoy staying at home, it's hard for me to believe. It's things like this that make me more comfortable asking a girl out that I've known for a while then just approaching someone, getting their number, and then calling 'em up to go on a date.

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        • #24
          Originally posted by Hogg Even though I'm one of the stay-at-homers, I can't imagine telling a girl to just come over to watch a DVD or something if it's our first time getting together. I just think the girl would feel that I'm only trying to hit it if I want her to come over. Plus, even though girls say they enjoy staying at home, it's hard for me to believe. It's things like this that make me more comfortable asking a girl out that I've known for a while then just approaching someone, getting their number, and then calling 'em up to go on a date.
          I agree if a guy asked me out by having me come over to watch a movie at his place on a first date, then my assumption automatically is his a loser, unless I really know the guy and have been friends with him before he had asked me out. But then again any guy that asks me out saying, "you wanna see a movie or something?" I turn him down, if his first date plans are boring like that, I can only imagine how boring it will get on the second date or third date, if it even comes to that.

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          • #25
            For me it doesn't matter, eventhough i agree with the "ananun" guy, its kind of boring going restaurants and eating and watching other couples doing the same, which is kinda lame. But I think every little date that u have it has its own little magic. As long u spend ur time with a nice-extreme-exciting-crazy and creative person.

            going at zoo with ur date is really good idea, specially for the most romanitc couples i would suggest to go and sit in the benches ahead of the elephants, its so smelly and at the same romantic that everything starts to stink couple of minutes later.

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            • #26
              I don't see anything appealing about the zoo.

              Bunch of ugly animals, especially the monkeys with hemroids.

              It stinks like hell, and I have a hard time holding my breath for much longer than 40 seconds.

              You can't eat anything cuz the stench of elephant xxxx is everywhere. It's hot, and it's boring.

              I hate animals.

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              • #27
                Don't diss zoos. Animals are great. I haven't been there in years but I don't remember the smell being unbearable.

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                • #28
                  U should go again to see the elephants!

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                  • #29
                    Originally posted by spiral I don't see anything appealing about the zoo.

                    Bunch of ugly animals, especially the monkeys with hemroids.

                    It stinks like hell, and I have a hard time holding my breath for much longer than 40 seconds.

                    You can't eat anything cuz the stench of elephant xxxx is everywhere. It's hot, and it's boring.

                    I hate animals.
                    Spiral's right, and don't be so quick to diss restauranting. It can be quite enjoyable if you know how to do it right. You don't want to go to the same old place each time. You should try a variety of settings, and a variety of cuisines, preferably things that you aren't always familiar with. Of course, it is far better to do this in New York than it is here - one of the things that sucks about being back in LA. But even in LA there are choice locations to hit, and many offer far more than simply food. The point, for me, isn't to be doing anything particularly unique or special. That's trying too hard, and I can do that on my own. If I'm with a date, I would rather just sit down in a nice place and be able to focus on her, talk to her, and be unique and special myself, instead of resorting to cheap gimmicks to get her to hang with me.

                    Besides, I've done enough wild things and I've witnessed girls doing enough wild things and I have the film to prove it. At this point, I'd rather be a little more low-key. We can get wild later in the night - if indeed it gets that far.

                    On a side note - a movie should never be a first date. Again, go someplace where you can talk. You aren't going to learn anything about a person sitting in the dark with her while giving all of your attention to a film screen.
                    Last edited by loseyourname; 03-25-2004, 05:21 PM.

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                    • #30
                      Spiral's always right.

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