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  • #31
    I dunno, there was nothing else to say

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    • #32
      Laughing at the last words of Flame's post. lol
      I see...

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      • #33
        Originally posted by spiral
        I dunno, there was nothing else to say
        Ah, I see - posting for the sake of posting.

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        • #34
          Originally posted by SagGal
          Laughing at the last words of Flame's post. lol
          I try. Hehe, not really, I just got tired of cussing out the character limit in white font.

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          • #35
            i think if the person you are in a relationship with respects and trusts you, they shouldnt take away your freedoms , except the ' freedom with other woman / or men ' , other then that, i think you can have a pretty conent life.

            if your partner is extremly jealous or paranoid, then i would understand your 'fear' for losing freedom.

            but as far as doing everything else, i thinks its okay to have that freedom and having your partner being okay with it
            words are meaningless and forgettable...
            words are very unnecessary, they can only do harm.

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            • #36
              Originally posted by SagGal
              Why hate the whole idea of marriage? I don't see how marriage stops your freedom. What, the freedom to sleep around?
              A lot of guys always say that they never want to get married but once they fall in love (please don't go and argue what love is or what it's not) they leave all that behind.
              Another thing, if you never plan to be in a long term relationship or a commitment with someone, you better tell that person before you hurt them.
              Ok, I won't argue about love and its existence because the whole subject is just BLAH, and everybody pretends to know everything about it because they read things about it in fortune cookies.

              However (and dear feminists, don't get all estrogeny on me now), I just do not see anything worth (eventually) marrying in most girls my age. They all seem to lack priorities (except how they look and who wore what and who's a skank and so on) and usually, I can't stand a conversation that lasts more than 3 minutes. Just the thought of spending the rest of my life with something like that is utterly depressing.

              Now if the right woman came along, Asdvadz medz e. I'm not wise enough nor experienced enough to cross out something like marriage, but for now, it's not really tempting. A big plus of marriage is having a family and raising kids and watching them grow, and maybe even having someone whose committed to you for the rest of his/her life is a good thing.

              But let us not kid ourselves, freedom IS limited, and it's not necessarily about the freedom of sleeping around. Suppose your husband/wife is a dentist and has a clinic in Montreal (where you've been living for most of your life). You have an OK career, but get the opportunity to have your DREEEEEEAAAAAAAAAAM job....in Australia. What happens? A sacrifice will be made by someone at a certain point. But then again, maybe there will be somebody that will make that sacrifice worth it, but to say that there is no loss of freedom is untrue.

              Alright....kill me now.

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              • #37
                Originally posted by Baron Dants
                Ok, I won't argue about love and its existence because the whole subject is just BLAH, and everybody pretends to know everything about it because they read things about it in fortune cookies.

                However (and dear feminists, don't get all estrogeny on me now), I just do not see anything worth (eventually) marrying in most girls my age. They all seem to lack priorities (except how they look and who wore what and who's a skank and so on) and usually, I can't stand a conversation that lasts more than 3 minutes. Just the thought of spending the rest of my life with something like that is utterly depressing.

                Now if the right woman came along, Asdvadz medz e. I'm not wise enough nor experienced enough to cross out something like marriage, but for now, it's not really tempting. A big plus of marriage is having a family and raising kids and watching them grow, and maybe even having someone whose committed to you for the rest of his/her life is a good thing.

                But let us not kid ourselves, freedom IS limited, and it's not necessarily about the freedom of sleeping around. Suppose your husband/wife is a dentist and has a clinic in Montreal (where you've been living for most of your life). You have an OK career, but get the opportunity to have your DREEEEEEAAAAAAAAAAM job....in Australia. What happens? A sacrifice will be made by someone at a certain point. But then again, maybe there will be somebody that will make that sacrifice worth it, but to say that there is no loss of freedom is untrue.

                Alright....kill me now.
                hahaha...I cannot wait until you "fall in love" and meet that special someone....your whole idea on "love" will completely change I'm sure....I'm not saying I disagree with you, I actually agree with you, but I know and I've been told by others who have "fallen in love" that once it happens to me my perception of it will change

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                • #38
                  Kill you? Now why would anyone want to do that? hmmm.
                  Originally posted by Baron Dants
                  Ok, I won't argue about love and its existence because the whole subject is just BLAH, and everybody pretends to know everything about it because they read things about it in fortune cookies.

                  However (and dear feminists, don't get all estrogeny on me now), I just do not see anything worth (eventually) marrying in most girls my age. They all seem to lack priorities (except how they look and who wore what and who's a skank and so on) and usually, I can't stand a conversation that lasts more than 3 minutes. Just the thought of spending the rest of my life with something like that is utterly depressing.............
                  Now listen here wise guy. Don't go badmothing fortune cookies now. jk jk.
                  I hope you don't think that ALL girls you age are like that because that is an insult.
                  But anywho.....uhm.....are you planning or even considering getting married at 17? That would be a NO right? Of course you haven't seen any girls that are marriage material because you're only......what......17!!!!! Who in their right mind would be thinking about that or giving up on that "special someone" at 17? You haven't begun to really date yet and I am just basing this on the age.
                  Now if the right woman came along, Asdvadz medz e. I'm not wise enough nor experienced enough to cross out something like marriage, but for now, it's not really tempting. A big plus of marriage is having a family and raising kids and watching them grow, and maybe even having someone whose committed to you for the rest of his/her life is a good thing.
                  Now those are definitley words of someone who DOES wants to get married.
                  But let us not kid ourselves, freedom IS limited, and it's not necessarily about the freedom of sleeping around. Suppose your husband/wife is a dentist and has a clinic in Montreal (where you've been living for most of your life). You have an OK career, but get the opportunity to have your DREEEEEEAAAAAAAAAAM job....in Australia. What happens? A sacrifice will be made by someone at a certain point. But then again, maybe there will be somebody that will make that sacrifice worth it, but to say that there is no loss of freedom is untrue.
                  Well, this DREEEAAAAM job is definitely something that the couple will have to compromise on. Who said love is perfect. But I'm telling you, a lot of people who at their young age say that they would rather live the single life, sooner or later they feel what is called "love" and they prefer the married life or at least a commitment. Jelousy will get the best of them.
                  I see...

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                  • #39
                    Originally posted by SagGal
                    Kill you? Now why would anyone want to do that? hmmm.
                    Now listen here wise guy. Don't go badmothing fortune cookies now. jk jk.
                    I hope you don't think that ALL girls you age are like that because that is an insult. But anywho.....uhm.....are you planning or even considering getting married at 17? That would be a NO right? Of course you haven't seen any girls that are marriage material because you're only......what......17!!!!! Who in their right mind would be thinking about that or giving up on that "special someone" at 17? You haven't begun to really date yet and I am just basing this on the age.
                    I didn't say ALL, I said MOST. Good ole political correctness.
                    It's not about marriage material (what is marriage material anyways?). It's about, well, human material. At 17-18, as childish as we are, we are definitely not kids anymore. With CEGEP (Quebec pre-university) and university, people are already making life decisions, and MOST girls just went in Social because it had the least pre-requisites (I'm not dissing social science, I'm in it myself, but I'm in it because it was most related to my interests, and my future life). There just seems to be no concern about anything except the stupid banalities I mentioned in my post above. So it isn't about marriage material, it's about stupid girls.

                    Originally posted by SagGal
                    Now those are definitley words of someone who DOES wants to get married.
                    Well there are positives, of course. The family thing is a HUGE plus. But I'm just thinking that it will get sooo boring in the long run, and I'll be discussing about the drop in the price of apples at the supermarket, and how I managed to buy 8 artichokes for a dollar at some store, while the other store was selling them at 4 for a dollar... In Quebec, they call it "La petite vie", meaning "the small life", meaning routine, routine, routine and a night of bowling once a month to have fun.

                    Originally posted by SagGal
                    Well, this DREEEAAAAM job is definitely something that the couple will have to compromise on. Who said love is perfect. But I'm telling you, a lot of people who at their young age say that they would rather live the single life, sooner or later they feel what is called "love" and they prefer the married life or at least a commitment. Jelousy will get the best of them.
                    Eh, as I said, I haven't given up hope. *Turns flirt mode on* Say, you look like a pretty bright and interesting girl.

                    And commitment? What are the percentages of people who cheat? Isn't it better to not fake a commitment?
                    On TV last night, there was this advertisement for this agency who hooks up married people who want to cheat on their spouses. The whole infomercial was about how cheating is normal and part of our nature, yevayln...

                    And one question, what jealousy? I didn't get that part.

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                    • #40
                      It would be a waste of intelligent genes if Mr. Dants did not have a family and breed and pass on his genes, moreover erect a nice Armenian family. We are short of those indeed.
                      Achkerov kute.

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