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  • #21
    Bruin, I always wanted to question your anger towards men. I mean I haven't seen anyone hold such contempt for men in a loooong time. What triggers such emotions? Surely you know that there are wonderful men out there, just as there are really vicious, cold and aggravating women. It really isn't that bad. There are plenty of great people it's just that not all of them are right for us, and if you seem to always bump into negative men, perhaps you should change your radar and switch your direction towards the men you usually don't pay attention to.

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    • #22
      Originally posted by anileve
      Bruin, I always wanted to question your anger towards men. I mean I haven't seen anyone hold such contempt for men in a loooong time. What triggers such emotions? Surely you know that there are wonderful men out there, just as there are really vicious, cold and aggravating women. It really isn't that bad. There are plenty of great people it's just that not all of them are right for us, and if you seem to always bump into negative men, perhaps you should change your radar and switch your direction towards the men you usually don't pay attention to.
      I always say that it's like shopping (which I cannot stand; I love clothes, but I'd rather have someone else do the shopping for me, hehehe). Anyway, how searching for the right man is like shopping: you gotta search through all the crap to find what you need. So...most men = the crappy clothes you toss aside; right man = what you purchase to wear. Now now children, no cracks about sexual innunendo.

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      • #23
        Originally posted by sSsflamesSs
        I always say that it's like shopping (which I cannot stand; I love clothes, but I'd rather have someone else do the shopping for me, hehehe). Anyway, how searching for the right man is like shopping: you gotta search through all the crap to find what you need. So...most men = the crappy clothes you toss aside; right man = what you purchase to wear. Now now children, no cracks about sexual innunendo.
        Can we say the same about women, or would that be considered sexist?

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        • #24
          AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHAHAHHAHAHAHHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA AAAA!!!!!!!!!!! This is the first! Atorits tra! You are just full of innuendos tonight, and you place the blame on me? Such nerve! I would absolutely agree with that analogy, but may I alter it a bit. There are tons of wonderful clothes out there, but not all of them compliment me. The moment I find the one that does, well it's the right one. However there are quite a few that I can say compliment me, should I just settle for one dress? Hmmmm....

          Dude, this is about men and their choices, how did we turn it into our interests?

          Edit: This was a reply to Flames.

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          • #25
            Every time I'm certain about what I want in a guy, someone who is the complete opposite comes along and changes my mind. I always complain that there aren't any good guys but lately I realized that there are plenty of good guys. I just don't want them.

            Hey, I'm only 21...this will all just pass I'm sure.

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            • #26
              Originally posted by Baron Dants
              Can we say the same about women, or would that be considered sexist?
              No need to roll your eyes. Yes, of course the same can be said about women. We're all humans after all, aren't we?

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              • #27
                Flames, want to go shopping with me this weekend?

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                • #28
                  Originally posted by anileve
                  AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHAHAHHAHAHAHHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA AAAA!!!!!!!!!!! This is the first! Atorits tra! You are just full of innuendos tonight, and you place the blame on me? Such nerve! I would absolutely agree with that analogy, but may I alter it a bit. There are tons of wonderful clothes out there, but not all of them compliment me. The moment I find the one that does, well it's the right one. However there are quite a few that I can say compliment me, should I just settle for one dress? Hmmmm....

                  Dude, this is about men and their choices, how did we turn it into our interests?

                  Edit: This was a reply to Flames.
                  I didn't place any blame on you. You admitted to it yourself.

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                  • #29
                    Originally posted by sSsflamesSs
                    No need to roll your eyes. Yes, of course the same can be said about women. We're all humans after all, aren't we?
                    Ha ok then. I just thought SOME people here would disagree. And the eye rolling was only done to fill the void left by Dan (where is he, anyways?).

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                    • #30
                      I think someone should create a thread on "What women want", otherwise this is turning into a mixed thread. If you can notice there has been a deficiency in replies from men, I can safely conclude that they have no idea just what the heck they want. In fact it leads me to believe that they want everything, just as women do, except that we are much more vocal about it.
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                      What do Men want at 20, 30, 40.

                      It's a fact. If you walk past a group of guys, they are physically unable to resist the urge to ogle. Ever wonder why are men such boys? Do they ever grow up and notice the inner woman? After all, beauty is only skin deep, and we want a man to admire us for more than a seductive arrangement of body parts. As a public service, I conducted a poll asking men at different stages of their lives what attracts them to a woman. Their answers were very ... educational.

                      20: THE MORE THE MERRIER
                      "I'm a legs and butt man," says Andrew, a 23-year-old stockbroker. He explains, "My first thought when I see a woman is, 'Do I want to have sex with her?' That cuts out 70 percent right away. At this stage of my life I'm not particularly looking for anything long-lasting." That's probably because most male twenty-somethings have one burning desire: to build a successful career. In terms of women, well, the more the merrier. Men in their twenties want a pretty woman, an ornament on their arm to show their boss and the world: "Hey, I must be really cool to attract such a hot babe."

                      There's a hope at the end of this semi-shallow tunnel of youth: As men in their twenties age, they begin learning from experience. "You get knocked around a few times by women with big knockers and you realize a pretty face isn't everything," says 27-year-old Peter, a marketing consultant. "But I'm still initially attracted to someone's looks. So any busty blondes reading this can contact me through the Website. But I also want a woman who's sensitive because, hey, I got feelings."

                      30's

                      Jim, a comic, recalls, "When I was seven I wanted a girl who could make a good sand castle. At 17, she just had to be stacked. At 27, she couldn't want to be my wife. Now that I'm 30 I want somebody sane and stable. The bottom line: While a cute tush still makes my head turn, it's the gray matter that keeps me interested."

                      As he enters his thirties, a man's taste in women definitely changes. After the initial experimental stage where he dates a lot of people, he looks for a woman to fill certain roles, like wife and mother. Another way to put it: He's refining his taste. He knows he can't spend all his time in bed. The mid-to-late thirties are often the period when men give in to their urge to settle down. At 39, Paul, a computer consultant, is no longer looking to date, but to mate. "I want someone who looks like a good baby-maker, not an anorexic who's afraid to put a cookie in her mouth."

                      40's

                      Men in this age range still think a roll in the hay is nice, but now they're more eager for substance. They want to be nurtured. If you're up for the job, the 40s man may be yours for the taking. Many of them are burnt out, making tons of money and lonely as hell because they have no one to share their success. Still not convinced? Listen to 41-year-old Stuart, a computer systems VP. "Now that I'm in my wise forties, I'm more interested in the character of the person than the package it comes in. Is she caring? Is she as giving as she is taking? Those are the questions I ask myself about the women I meet."

                      The aphrodisiac for Stuart, as for many over-40 men, is compatibility. If there isn't a certain comfort level with a woman at this stage of a man's life, a relationship can be very frustrating. Bob, a 41-year-old advertising executive, knows this frustration. "It would be easier to meet someone if my primary interest was looks. But if I don't connect with someone in a cerebral way, I lose interest fast. I want to be with someone who laughs at my jokes, who'll take care of me when I'm sick, and let me take care of her. This seems like a mission impossible."

                      Yes, the 40s man is sensitive, but he's also prone to mid-life crises and heavy-duty alimony payments. Find this disheartening? Just keep in mind that some of the most compatible love matches are between older women and younger men. Why? These two age grooves are actually the most sexually in sync of any combo out there. Coo-coo-ca-choo, Mrs. Robinson.
                      Last edited by anileve; 05-22-2004, 08:15 PM.

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