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Originally posted by SeapahnIn Bruin's defense, statistical techniques are used all the time to extrapolate from a "random sampling" of a population to arrive at a conclusion about the entire population with certain confidence intervals.
However, I doubt bruin has been going around dating random guys.
Very good... her conclusions are based on a sample of convenience which is biased.[COLOR=#4b0082][B][SIZE=4][FONT=trebuchet ms]“If you think you can, or you can’t, you’re right.”
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Originally posted by Baron DantsAkh, you're reminding me of my quantitative methods courses. Please stop.
No, there are no researches behind hyebruin's statistics....she's just a bitter bitter little lady.
I LOVE quant methods... lets talk about it more![COLOR=#4b0082][B][SIZE=4][FONT=trebuchet ms]“If you think you can, or you can’t, you’re right.”
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Originally posted by hyebruinbut then again i don't understand how ,according to mouse, a woman can have time to raise a family and still be FORMALLY educated unless it happens later in life... i don't know? unless she stays home and reads books...that's another way to go?![COLOR=#4b0082][B][SIZE=4][FONT=trebuchet ms]“If you think you can, or you can’t, you’re right.”
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What if we try and fit this to Bruin's views...
Actor-Observer effect (a bias we all have)
We make external attributions to explain our behaviors and internal attributions to explain those of other.
Ex: If Sally trips and drops all her books it's because she's clumsy.
If I trip and drop my books it's because the sidewalk was uneven.
She doesn't want to recognize that there was probably more to why a date or relationship was a failure... it's easier on our egos to blame the other person. Couple that with unwarranted generalization and VIOLA![COLOR=#4b0082][B][SIZE=4][FONT=trebuchet ms]“If you think you can, or you can’t, you’re right.”
-Henry Ford[/FONT][/SIZE][/B][/COLOR]
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Originally posted by SiggieWhat if we try and fit this to Bruin's views...
Actor-Observer effect (a bias we all have)
We make external attributions to explain our behaviors and internal attributions to explain those of other.
Ex: If Sally trips and drops all her books it's because she's clumsy.
If I trip and drop my books it's because the sidewalk was uneven.
She doesn't want to recognize that there was probably more to why a date or relationship was a failure... it's easier on our egos to blame the other person. Couple that with unwarranted generalization and VIOLA!
ah ha!! i see it now! i do remember reading about that theory in an undergrad psych class...yeah, but i'm not arrogant to believe that i am flawless and that it's "all them"(the guys)...we are ALL imperfect creatures; rather i have come to the conclusion that there might be a subconscious element involved here on my part which seeks out this type (WITHOUT ME REALIZING OR UNDERSTANDING WHY??) or?? a case of "opposites attracting" where the selfish guy seeks the caring girl (hate to use adjectives to describe mysefl) ~~ it might very well be a combination of the two
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Originally posted by hyebruinah ha!! i see it now! i do remember reading about that theory in an undergrad psych class...yeah, but i'm not arrogant to believe that i am flawless and that it's "all them"(the guys)...we are ALL imperfect creatures; rather i have come to the conclusion that there might be a subconscious element involved here on my part which seeks out this type (WITHOUT ME REALIZING OR UNDERSTANDING WHY??) or?? a case of "opposites attracting" where the selfish guy seeks the caring girl (hate to use adjectives to describe mysefl) ~~ it might very well be a combination of the two
It's also hard not to be skeptical when you've been hurt. I used to look for a reason not to like someone i met or want to be friends even because I didn't want to get hurt again. You miss out on so much when you do that.
I'm not saying not to be cautious or to turn a blind eye, but don't dismiss a guy without giving him a chance because of someone else's mistakes.[COLOR=#4b0082][B][SIZE=4][FONT=trebuchet ms]“If you think you can, or you can’t, you’re right.”
-Henry Ford[/FONT][/SIZE][/B][/COLOR]
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