Help! Dr. Monster needs some advice

[hyebruin]

i agree with the boys on this one! you shouldn't have even wished her a happy b-day! if she doesn't care about yours, find a girl who does and give her all the cool gifts you wanna share with someone

if someone doesn't care about you, *&%$ em! and trust me on this one! by you giving her stuff is NOT gonna make her appreciate you one bit! (if she's like most people)

good luck


here's a lil story for ya: i used to have a coworker (and JUST a co-worker) we never ever kissed...i was soooo not attracted to him...anyways, when i moved he still kept calling me to see how i'm doing (naive me! gave him my number just to keep in touch as FRIENDS!!! --little did i know he had other "hot" ideas....anyways, he called me all the way up here from l.a. just to wish me happy b-day and you know, it was nice, and i was nice...but a couple of days later i changed my number then he tried to contact me through e-mail and told me my number was disconnected...oh lord! --- now, take note of this: if i WAS into him, not only would i have kept my old number but would have also made the effort and called him and tried to keep in touch and maybe more...

all i'm saying is that all the effort is not gonna matter one bit if it's not a two-way thing...

[Siggie]

here's a lil story for ya: i used to have a coworker (and JUST a co-worker) we never ever kissed...i was soooo not attracted to him...anyways, when i moved he still kept calling me to see how i'm doing (naive me! gave him my number just to keep in touch as FRIENDS!!! --little did i know he had other "hot" ideas....anyways, he called me all the way up here from l.a. just to wish me happy b-day and you know, it was nice, and i was nice...but a couple of days later i changed my number then he tried to contact me through e-mail and told me my number was disconnected...oh lord! --- now, take note of this: if i WAS into him, not only would i have kept my old number but would have also made the effort and called him and tried to keep in touch and maybe more...

all i'm saying is that all the effort is not gonna matter one bit if it's not a two-way thing...

How about doing the right thing and just telling him that you're not interested in anything other than friendship? Hmm...

[Anonymouse]

i agree with the boys on this one! you shouldn't have even wished her a happy b-day! if she doesn't care about yours, find a girl who does and give her all the cool gifts you wanna share with someone

if someone doesn't care about you, *&%$ em! and trust me on this one! by you giving her stuff is NOT gonna make her appreciate you one bit! (if she's like most people)

good luck


here's a lil story for ya: i used to have a coworker (and JUST a co-worker) we never ever kissed...i was soooo not attracted to him...anyways, when i moved he still kept calling me to see how i'm doing (naive me! gave him my number just to keep in touch as FRIENDS!!! --little did i know he had other "hot" ideas....anyways, he called me all the way up here from l.a. just to wish me happy b-day and you know, it was nice, and i was nice...but a couple of days later i changed my number then he tried to contact me through e-mail and told me my number was disconnected...oh lord! --- now, take note of this: if i WAS into him, not only would i have kept my old number but would have also made the effort and called him and tried to keep in touch and maybe more...

all i'm saying is that all the effort is not gonna matter one bit if it's not a two-way thing...

Now if you wanted to, you could have taken advantage of his foolery and persuaded him to build a house for you.

[patlajan]

How about doing the right thing and just telling him that you're not interested in anything other than friendship? Hmm...

I like your attitude.

[Darorinag]

Now if you wanted to, you could have taken advantage of his foolery and persuaded him to build a house for you.

Actually, from what bruin said, I thought he just wanted the usual ( ) thing most guys want from girls...

[hyebruin]

How about doing the right thing and just telling him that you're not interested in anything other than friendship? Hmm...

that is not "the right thing" and i'll tell you why! it's cuz he was sneaky about it! kept saying 'he's too old for me' (he really was! ) and then turned around and in subtle ways gave me the impression that he wanted more...so why should i waste MY time and look stupid really, by "being honest?" he KNEW i was not interested in him! and that i had someone else in mind... just another pushy dude! i KNOW i did the right thing

oh yeah and this one time i was very straightforward and referred to rumors going around by other employees that we're going out...to which i responded with a "eeeeeuuuuuuu" and he found that amusing and repeated my "eeeeeuuuuuu"....now, WHAT ELSE DOES A GUY NEED TO GET THE HINT?

i DON'T like pushy guys..they push me right away!!

[hyebruin]

Actually, from what bruin said, I thought he just wanted the usual ( ) thing most guys want from girls...

you both are right! i could have gotten a house (if he had any $$) and that other thing....eeeeeeuuuuuuuu

guy's gotta be yummy

[fIReBuRntInHeLL]

Yes, the co-forumers are right, u didnt need to buy her gift since she didnt remember
ur own b-day. Dont be sensitive, be more violent towards her. She was cold hearted to u, so be the same with her. Go return the present, take ur credit or cash back (later on buy a gift card and send it to me; hahahhaahah, im kidding). Yeah return the present, and waste ur money for u. Not for her but for u.!!!!!!

[Darorinag]

Oh... I thought he had already given it to her.. lol... Umm, if you haven't, then yea, return it and get the refund..

Btw - Fire, is that you in your avatar?

[fIReBuRntInHeLL]

Oh... I thought he had already given it to her.. lol... Umm, if you haven't, then yea, return it and get the refund..

Btw - Fire, is that you in your avatar?

I assume ur kidding, right? B/c u should know that FIRE, mois!!! is a femme not homme!!!!!!

P.S. the guy in the avatar is Simon Rex!