Lets get married!!! Lets wait.

[hyebruin]

I hate how some Armenians live their lives and make their decisions dependant on what their relatives and neighbors will think.

So annoying. Everyone's so self-conscious.

yesss!!! couldn't agree more!! whatever happend to mind your own biz? i think marrying into an educated, openminded white family will at least get rid of the self-consciousness (to SOME degree)..they too get paranoid about the neighbors and everyone and their mother but not to the degree that armenians do... just look at the way they grieve and celebrate and look at us! we take EVERYTING to the limit/over the limit...

[gevo]

Marrying odars is the solution..??? WHAT> im confused??? lol

[Siggie]

Marrying odars is the solution..??? WHAT> im confused??? lol

odars? They're not animals... are they not fellow people?

That's simply the solution she sees for herself... rather than trying to change other people, she's choosing to remove herself from the situation.
Not agreeing - just clarifying.

[gevo]

odars? They're not animals... are they not fellow people?

That's simply the solution she sees for herself... rather than trying to change other people, she's choosing to remove herself from the situation.
Not agreeing - just clarifying.

i dont think marrying odars is a problem, but i rather not see it... now does that make any sense?? lol

[Genuine_Stud]

i dont think marrying odars is a problem, but i rather not see it... now does that make any sense?? lol

Yea i agree with you man. I'd rather not see it either, but oh well....it's ok if it happens.

[violette829]

I don't want to be married until I live my single life to the fullest. Yes, this includes my Violette Empire, and all the other Empires that I've built throughout the years. I don't have an age that I can say I definitely want to be married by, just as long as it's before 40 and after 25. LOL I guess it's not really up to us.

As far as how long you should date before marriage, I don't think you should wait years and years...I have 2 best friends who have been together for 8 years!!!! OH MY GOSH! I can't believe it. He's not ready, but she's dying to get married. LOL I think they've spent WAY too much time together. Arten zuzvelen!

[Tres Bien]

Irenk Zvelen?? te do?

[gevo]

wow.. 8 years dating with same prson???... americatsineri dzev nah!! hahaha.. lol.. that is kinda reciduclouse

[Tres Bien]

id say, the opposite? the armenian way rather than the american. but anyway what do I know...i am fed up with hollywood films, and documentaries with singel life in USA. haha..its hillerious that they show this on swedish national television!!?

[hyebruin]

wow.. 8 years dating with same prson???... americatsineri dzev nah!! hahaha.. lol.. that is kinda reciduclouse

haha you'd be surprised! armos too are quick learners and can drag a relationship out

as far as marrying odars or dating them, it really depends on the person; statistically speaking one is bound to encounter "better luck"/better quality of guys with a bigger pool of candidates than just sticking with one group, armenians or otherwise...

haha, haven't dated an odar yet! when the opportunity comes, we'll see.