Interracial Relationships.

[GSTracer05]

Oh wow, you're one of those "Omg I'm so cool and unique and white washed I choose to live with 'whites' [ as if Armenians aren't white ] and like I'm so unique and special and no one understands me. I am in love with myself and Armenians can't understand me, that is why I will pretend to be cool and not hang around them because I want to show that I am unique and distant and wanting to be understood".

Seriously. Stop thinking you're some unique gift to the world that no one can solve like a rubics cube, that has to distance himself from Armenians just to show your uniqueness. I used to think like this but that was highschool, and this is now.

At first, I replied to this message. Then I realized who the poster was.

[Anonymouse]

At first, I replied to this message. Then I realized who the poster was.

Yes, of course you will be intimidated.

[chille]

Okay, we've had the marrying an "odar" convo before so I wont bother to get into that. You know my views.
As for Armenians as a whole...My views still don't change. I really do not concern myself with the affairs of Armenians. I educate myself about present news and what not, but unlike the "chille" poster, I do not believe that I have to take some stand to fight the wrongs done to, and by, armenians. .

You know from my posts you draw some conclusions, which are not true! I did not say that Armenians should unite and I will spend my whole life trying to persuade them to do that. I am not even trying to. The only thing I wish Armenians would do is repsect each other and others.

I was just not raised that way as a child living in the San Fernando Valley. Outside of my family/relatives, I did not know a single Armenian till I was in college. Why would I want to live away from Armenians? because I feel more comfortable living among whites. (Not white trash, the middle to upper class whites, conservatives). You've spoken to me enough times to judge me personally Miss Goey and I would be as bold to say that you do not consider me a "bad" person. We just have different views of our lives/futures etc

On this I must agree with you. I did not know any Armenians outside of my family and family friends till I was like 17. And you know, it did not bother me at all. Then I met some... I am not really excited about it though. The ones that I met and still come across are from Hayastan and they have their issues about who is a real true Armenian, who is not. I feel more comfortable interacting with people from other cultures sometimes rather than Armenians. I also met some Arrmenians from other parts of the world who never lived in Armenia and I like those better. They seem to be less judgmental and more open-minded.

[HyeJinx1984]

All I can say is you guys so sound like me from like a year ago. I can only hope you guys will turn around as I have.

[chille]

All I can say is you guys so sound like me from like a year ago. I can only hope you guys will turn around as I have.

could u elaborate a lil more on that?

[killuncle]

Bunch of BS

So no one answer the question marrying someone from Iraq that is Armenian
and being from Armenia am I tainting the bloodline?
as everyone probably on this board are not full blooded and mixed with some other race. Isn't that consider inter racial?

[killuncle]

Majority of the people on this board sound like a plot on the Harry Potter series. Half breeds passing judgement on not mixing the bloodline. As if you all study your history you are all 2 late as majority of you already are mixed. So my point is what more can it hurt marrying another race. People are people.............. Being from Armenia myself but arriving in the states at age of 2. All of my life I was told to marry into our culture but don't trust the armenians from that other country.....LOL BS

[HyeJinx1984]

could u elaborate a lil more on that?

I've done so so many times on this board, it's become tedious. Let's put it this way, let me list everything Armenians are responsible in my life up to this point:

-An Armenian caused my family to go bankrupt and scrimp and save to make a living
-An Armenian threatened to kill my mother an dthrow me off a balcony when I was still an infant
-Armenians would constantly call and harass my mother for things my father had done even AFTER they'd gotten a divorce.
-An Armenian killed my cousin
-My mom's best friend, an Armenian, desserted her in her time of need.
-The first time I ever got beat up in elementary school was by two armenians.
-The first girl to shoot me down was an Armenian (You xxxxx!!! *shakes fist*)
-Once in highschool Armenians "disowned" me from their social circle.
-A.P. ("Armenian Pride" a Los Angeles street Gang) threatened to kill me for a stupid reason (I was 14)
-Armenians would regularly harrass and beat me up all through 4 years of highschool.
-An Armenian and I got into a fender bender and she decided to fake injuries to screw me out of more money. Neither car had more than paint damage done to it. Knowing I was Armenian she still filed claims in an effort to screw me out of money.
-An Armenian killed my other cousin.
-An Armenian cheated on my cousin, then spread rumors about HER being a xxxx.

Hmm.. what else am I missing? Probably something, but those are most memorable experiences with Armenians growing up and to the present. I hated Armenians growing up. I literally said "I wish the turks were more thorough, God I hate these people"

That was then... and today? You'd be hard pressed to find ANYONE ALIVE with more pride in their hearts and more drive to do anything and everything necessary to make sure we're last. All I've been through, there's NOTHING I wouldn't do for my people. Cliche as it may sound, I'd die for my people.

Then... some chick who has beef with a comment some Armenian made comes along and says "I dunno, I don't like Armenian men much, I think I'll date outside my race cause they're no good" and I don't know whether to get angry or laugh. Simply put, you've been through nothing. You have NO reason to look down upon Armenians... and even if you did, if I could forgive them and learn the true essense of being what we are and learn to love my people, you could to. At the end of the day, what I'm saying is there is NO excuse to not want to date other Armenians... and even if there was one, you're no where near it, at least no where near as close as I was.

[killuncle]

well said so your saying a Nig#er is still a Nig$er? But if he has white blood in him is he a wigger? LOL

[GSTracer05]

I've done so so many times on this board, it's become tedious. Let's put it this way, let me list everything Armenians are responsible in my life up to this point:

-An Armenian caused my family to go bankrupt and scrimp and save to make a living
-An Armenian threatened to kill my mother an dthrow me off a balcony when I was still an infant
-Armenians would constantly call and harass my mother for things my father had done even AFTER they'd gotten a divorce.
-An Armenian killed my cousin
-My mom's best friend, an Armenian, desserted her in her time of need.
-The first time I ever got beat up in elementary school was by two armenians.
-The first girl to shoot me down was an Armenian (You xxxxx!!! *shakes fist*)
-Once in highschool Armenians "disowned" me from their social circle.
-A.P. ("Armenian Pride" a Los Angeles street Gang) threatened to kill me for a stupid reason (I was 14)
-Armenians would regularly harrass and beat me up all through 4 years of highschool.
-An Armenian and I got into a fender bender and she decided to fake injuries to screw me out of more money. Neither car had more than paint damage done to it. Knowing I was Armenian she still filed claims in an effort to screw me out of money.
-An Armenian killed my other cousin.
-An Armenian cheated on my cousin, then spread rumors about HER being a xxxx.

Hmm.. what else am I missing? Probably something, but those are most memorable experiences with Armenians growing up and to the present. I hated Armenians growing up. I literally said "I wish the turks were more thorough, God I hate these people"

That was then... and today? You'd be hard pressed to find ANYONE ALIVE with more pride in their hearts and more drive to do anything and everything necessary to make sure we're last. All I've been through, there's NOTHING I wouldn't do for my people. Cliche as it may sound, I'd die for my people.

Then... some chick who has beef with a comment some Armenian made comes along and says "I dunno, I don't like Armenian men much, I think I'll date outside my race cause they're no good" and I don't know whether to get angry or laugh. Simply put, you've been through nothing. You have NO reason to look down upon Armenians... and even if you did, if I could forgive them and learn the true essense of being what we are and learn to love my people, you could to. At the end of the day, what I'm saying is there is NO excuse to not want to date other Armenians... and even if there was one, you're no where near it, at least no where near as close as I was.

First of all, you've dealt with alot of hardships and I commend you for overcoming them.

But, all of your history has nothing to do with how those of us who havent been raised near armenian influence choose to date or marry. You seem like we've turned to the darkside and need to turn back. I mostly dated white girls because thats who I was raised next to. My classmates and friends were white...so I dated white. I didnt date white girls because I looked down on armenian girls and thought that they werent good enough. I'm sure there are many wonderful Armenian girls out there. I have no preference about dating an Armenian vs dating a white girl.

AND your life experiences only goes to reinforce my reasons for not wanting to live near the armenian masses. I have not dealt with the hardships you have and neither I, my family members, or my future children should have to deal with things of that nature.

P.S. And I think thats what Chille meant as well.