my bf is leaving me

[patlajan]

Normally I would never say anything like this but my sympathies to your significant other. That is, if you have one or ever will. And if you do...than an escape is all they are thinking about.

What is your problem now? Lets see....

Loser #1 - Couldn't stand up to her parents and decided it wasn't worth the effort so he disappeared.

Loser #2 - Has a poster of osama bin laden in his room and only dates virgins.

Once again I'm clearly mistaken. She had some great choices and she let them get away. How dare she not be a virgin. They should make her wear a t-shirt that says "Not a Virgin".

I want her to stop being sad, forget about loser #1 and loser #2 and move on with her life. What's wrong with that?

[sad_eyes]

Sounds like both of your boyfriends were morons. You need to progress in your choices here.

Perhaps you should have worded it differently.

[patlajan]

Perhaps you should have worded it differently.

Perhaps......

[XxgoeyxX]

What I'm wondering is how old you are? Second, like Ms. ArmoBarbi said which I totally agree with...he didnt make you do anything...you let him have sex with you. It was your choice to. No one can make you do anythign you dont want to.

And finally a lot of people already said what I am going to say...he isnt worth it if he is treating you that way. Try to work things out but if he doesnt care about you and is being a hypocrite then its not worth it. You should be with someone who respect who you are. But there are peope in this world who dont want to be with someone who has slept with other person. Its a matter of opinion and belief. If he feels it was wrong then it is his belief. But if he goes around sleeping with other woman and tells you...you should not then he is a hypocrite and he isnt worth you love.

And finally I am assuming..correct me if im wrong that you slept with your ex bf when you were to young...bc you would not have listend to your parents and let him go.

Saddly it seems like your ex just used you by playing the "we will get married and I love you so much" card. And you bought it....my soorry my dear..I hope all works out with you..and I hope you find someone that loves you for you and nothing else.

[gevo]

Wow ... you figured all this out about her just like that?

Gev, stop judging people so much and let God sort it out later. You have no idea what kind of person she is and what kinds of relationships she can form. Just because she has had sex doesn't make she is some sort of relationship cripple for the rest of her life.

AND I QUOTE THE REST OF THAT< AND POINT YOUR BLIND SELF TO MY PREVIOUS POST!!!

and i do not say this to make her feel bad... she shouldnt..soo long as she has acepted her "mistake".. and yes. that is what it is.. a mistake.. now go chew on your carpet...

Now.. i think i made it clear im not judging her.. God forbid.. and i think i made it clear that whatever it was if she feels it be a mistake (atleast some) on her part to have had sex.. that does not mean by the standards of the Bible (which is where my view comes from) that she is not condemned.. u are blindly missing the whole point here... stop trying so hard to hate my opinion and you may read my point.. As long as you accept your mistake, it will be forgiven, so by this standard it would be my opinion that the guy has potential to realize this and return to her. now.. ofcourse if you dont believe the moral values hereby expressed by the Bible, then refer to the last 6 words of my quote. and stop saying i am judging her.

[Margi]

Everyone, i was only 16 when the whole thing happened with my ex. and i'm 19 now. he took me out yesterday, and he treated me like crap. He told me that the only people that will want to ever be in a relationship with me are gonna be either parskahays (Persian armenians ) or berutahays. I love him so much. i feel like i'm never gonna fall in love again. how shall i get over him. please someone tell me how i can get over him. he made it clear to me last night that he knows 99% that we're not gonna be together. and one more thing he gets so wierd when another guy looks at me. he feels like its my fault that they are looking at me. is he jealous or what? help me please someone what shall i do?

[sad_eyes]

I would say that he is jelouse, thus prooving that he does have emotions for you. A "claim" if you will, that you are his. And the 99% comment of you two being together was low of him to say however there is a 1% which also prooves that he has some form of emotion to you. Explain the situation to him again, and completely share your emotions and what you are feeling with him. And then, give him time, dont talk to him for a brief period so he has the opportunity and the choice to have to decide on weither or not he will keep you in his life. One thing I learned in relationships is that you cant always get what you want, its sad but true. Just give it time..............if its meant to be then he will accept you.

[XxgoeyxX]

Sweetheart you are so young, its going to be okay. You will find someone else. Now I am 110% sure of this. Dont stress yourself with it. And dont feel low because of it. If he doesnt want to be with you its his choice. Now you must make your own choices and move on and stay as far from him as possible.

Good Luck!

[Sip]

.... the only people that will want to ever be in a relationship with me are gonna be either parskahays (Persian armenians ) or berutahays.

Man this guy sounds like a riot ... so he meant this as a "bad" thing?

Don't worry at all. I know it doesn't seem like it but you will definitely love again and you will be over this idiot in a little time (just give it a little time). You are waaaaaay too young to be thinking too seriously about these things anyway.

[XxgoeyxX]

You are waaaaaay too young to be thinking too seriously about these things anyway.

Agree. Wayyy to young. At 19 you should be thinking about school and your friends, having fun, going to the movies, eating ice cream and pizza and all that good stuff. Not some guy you think you are in love with, thats treating you like this.