Approaching Armenian girls.

[GSTracer05]

If a guy came up to me when my friends were around, I would have more respect for him. That shows how much guts he has. Plus, he just doesnt care about what your friends will say or anyone else will say because he are interested in you. I find that even more attractive. And if the girl acts like a jerk then she wasnt worth it anyway.

You're stating the obvious but not all guys can bring themselves to do that. Would you be comfortable at approaching a group of like six guys and asking to steal one of them away for a few minutes? Or should this only be done by guys?

[XxgoeyxX]

You're stating the obvious but not all guys can bring themselves to do that. Would you be comfortable at approaching a group of like six guys and asking to steal one of them away for a few minutes? Or should this only be done by guys?

I wouldnt be able to do that, because of the type of person I am. I'm usually shy about everything. It has nothing to do with girls or guys, its just me. And no guys shouldnt be the only ones who do it. There are a lot of girls who have done that. Its just has to do with the person and if they are brave enough..


So am I'm stating the obvious again?......

[GSTracer05]

I wouldnt be able to do that, because of the type of person I am. I'm usually shy about everything. It has nothing to do with girls or guys, its just me. And no guys shouldnt be the only ones who do it. There are a lot of girls who have done that. Its just has to do with the person and if they are brave enough..


So am I'm stating the obvious again?......

Nope not obvious. (Takes notes for future reference).

[gevo]

Hey
I guess you don't have a sister... I wander how would you feel, if someone tell that words about your sister... next time if you decide to write any that kind of things, just remember that in this forum there are Armenian girls... and if you do not like it… what are you doing here, just go to other forum, where you can find "nice" girls...

AMAN SISTER!!!!

[sad_eyes]

Hahahaha. I agree with you on the whole hanging with the posse deal with Armenian girls. It is harder to approach someone in the middle of a crowd because now you have to be judged by her and a half dozen of her friends. And its kind of cheesy catching her on the way to the bathroom. The best bet is meeting chicks like that at school/work or something and not at the hang outs.

One thing that you could try is this. (It helps minimize the conversation with the friends nearby...walk up to someone you like or whatever, and be like Hi, how are you? (most likely she'll be like fine). The second question should be, "Are you single?" (She is still in that shock moment of being approached and most likely will answer truthfully). Your third move is to grab her hand gently, put a piece of paper with your name and phone # it) and just say "I'd like to change that".) and you walk away without giving her or her friends a chance to blabber too much. If you get the call you're golden.

And if you're a smooth talker type, then you just gotta suck in the pride, walk up to her and ask to speak to her privately for a few minutes. The thing with these group of chicks is you gotta get the others to like you too, so you have to use stupid lines like, "would you lovely ladies mind if i spoke to your friend alone for a few minutes?" I dont like doing it either but sometimes you just gotta shelf the pride and be ready to take some rejections.

Pretty much what I told him as well.

[HyeJinx1984]

Ironically enough, last night an Armenian girl approached me.

It's always been the opposite for me, up to this point it's been a mutual "leave me alone, I'll leave you alone".... now I'm trying to reverse 20 years of mental training.

this is the most foreign thing i've ever read! where do you get this from? i'm curious now!

Well, I think I may have found a quick, concise way to answer this. I guess simply put, I’m an Armenian Odar™. What the hell is that, you ask yourself? It’s basically someone who is genetically and culturally an Armenian, but for whatever reason is not accepted into the greater Armenian community/environment around them, be it family, school or a work place. Since I’ve been something of an outcast by our lovely people for most of my life, I’ve created a much stronger bond with Odars than I have with Armenians. Hence, I can go up to and make friends with pretty much anyone I meet… except Armenians. Does that sate your curiosity?

[XxgoeyxX]

Well, I think I may have found a quick, concise way to answer this. I guess simply put, I’m an Armenian Odar™. What the hell is that, you ask yourself? It’s basically someone who is genetically and culturally an Armenian, but for whatever reason is not accepted into the greater Armenian community/environment around them, be it family, school or a work place. Since I’ve been something of an outcast by our lovely people for most of my life, I’ve created a much stronger bond with Odars than I have with Armenians. Hence, I can go up to and make friends with pretty much anyone I meet… except Armenians. Does that sate your curiosity?

Now I have a question for you. Why do you feel you were or have been an outcast in your life? You said you go up to and meet anyone except Armenians..doesnt that mean your excluding yourself from them and not the other way away?

[HyeJinx1984]

For no reason I can think of, I was "ex-communicated" by all the Armenians around me growing up, and any attempt at wanting to get to know them or hang out with them ended up in me being made fun of, getting my ass kicked, and just an over all "get the xxxx away from us" attitude. I know that's not necessarily the reactions I'd get now in college, but you know what they say about a dog that's been beaten with a stick... if they just SEE a stick again, they go the other way.

[Anushik]

I can not get it... Arneians are usual people, there is nothing strange about us, and you know that, you are Armenian... Armenian girls are usualy shiy (at least Armenian girls who live in Armenia )... maybe that is the reasone why it's not easy for you to talk to them... that is how we differ from American girls... and I do not think that you need to give your phone number to her, I don't think that she'll call you... talk to her, and ask her phone number, if she gives you, that is GREAT...

[XxgoeyxX]

Well, now its your chance to turn that around. From what I have read in some of your posts, you are doing a good job at trying to make friends and understand the Armenian culture.

We have all been pushed aside at some points of our lives. But when its close to home it hurts more then ever.