Haven't been this angry...ever

[clubbin714]

Wow. I am completely shocked.

I used to teach jiu-jitsu part time at a kickboxing school about 30 miles from my coach's school. A guy visiting from overseas joined my class and we quickly became friends. He planned to stay as long as he could, but was paying an outrageous price to stay in a hotel. I checked with some neighbors in my apartment complex and found a room for him to rent for 1/4 the price he was paying at the hotel. I drove him to train every day and did whatever I could to help him adjust to living here. After 6 months or so, I would have considered him one of my closest friends.

His visa ran out and he had to return to his country in Europe. Still wanting to train, but unable to come to the US, he moved to Rio de Janeiro. While I was down there about a month ago, he mentioned that he would be visiting Rio, to stay with our mutual friend and the sister of my ex. An ex I was with for a very long time and still close with. I didn’t say anything at the time because I wanted to see what would come of it. I can’t say I trusted him completely, but I did give him the benefit of the doubt.

Ugh...today I got the email from him telling me that they got together. I cant xxxxing believe it. In a nation of millions of available hotties, he went out of his way to hook up my ex. Not just any ex, but an ex I loved.

He plans to come back to LA soon. I told him I didn’t want to see his xxxxing face, but I’m actually hoping he makes it here….

[XxgoeyxX]

NO matter what I do I cant be selfish because people like this came into your life only thinking about themselves.

I'm sorry my dear. I hope all goes well. And dont you worry about it. You should'nt go down to his level. Things happen for a reason. Now you know who you can trust and not trust in your life and learn from this.

I hope you feel better

[clubbin714]

Thank you XxgoeyxX but I am really angry right now.

It wasnt even like they were both in Rio and met at a nightclub and coincidentally he xxxxed my ex. He went out of his way to do this, even by taking an hour and a half flight to get with her.

[HyeJinx1984]

I don't know if it's better or worse then what I got, which is "Armenian Idol"

"Armenian idol" is this one odar chick that has been through like four Armenian boyfriends already in a row, like we're all contestants. It's weird, cause once she breaks up with one, he exes all become friends even though they hated each other before, lol

[XxgoeyxX]

Thank you XxgoeyxX but I am really angry right now.

It wasnt even like they were both in Rio and met at a nightclub and coincidentally he xxxxed my ex. He went out of his way to do this, even by taking an hour and a half flight to get with her.

I understand. Like I said people like that came into your life just so they can help themselves. And lets not put all the blame on him. If your ex knew he was your friend then she should have respected you enough not to do that. Unless she wanted to get back at you.

As stupid as this sounds you shouldnt be angry at all. In a few days or in a month or two you well feel better. Because now you are the better person. First we must be human beings in life, but some people arnt even close to that.

[HyeJinx1984]

*Looks at clubbin's avatar* Has anyone ever told you you look like Joe Quesada, Editor in Chief of Marvel Comics? That's a compliment by the way.

[Anonymouse]

Wow. I am completely shocked.

I used to teach jiu-jitsu part time at a kickboxing school about 30 miles from my coach's school. A guy visiting from overseas joined my class and we quickly became friends. He planned to stay as long as he could, but was paying an outrageous price to stay in a hotel. I checked with some neighbors in my apartment complex and found a room for him to rent for 1/4 the price he was paying at the hotel. I drove him to train every day and did whatever I could to help him adjust to living here. After 6 months or so, I would have considered him one of my closest friends.

His visa ran out and he had to return to his country in Europe. Still wanting to train, but unable to come to the US, he moved to Rio de Janeiro. While I was down there about a month ago, he mentioned that he would be visiting Rio, to stay with our mutual friend and the sister of my ex. An ex I was with for a very long time and still close with. I didn’t say anything at the time because I wanted to see what would come of it. I can’t say I trusted him completely, but I did give him the benefit of the doubt.

Ugh...today I got the email from him telling me that they got together. I cant xxxxing believe it. In a nation of millions of available hotties, he went out of his way to hook up my ex. Not just any ex, but an ex I loved.

He plans to come back to LA soon. I told him I didn’t want to see his xxxxing face, but I’m actually hoping he makes it here….

Now, that's phucking stupid to be mad at him. I wouldn't even waste my time on a puke like this. The real culprit is that ho bag whom you loved. Ho bags are always ho bags, because only ho bags would willingly and knowingly do shyt like this. My friend once told me that if he were to break up with his chick, it would be okay if I dated her and the rest. I disagreed, and told him I'd never cross that line because it's not cool. As that crude thuggish saying goes "Bros before hoes". And obviously this girl is full of shyt, and be glad you're not even with her. The one positive thing Dr. Dre ever did was make that song "Can't make a ho into a housewife". Not to be taken literally, but you can't change a ho bag. And all too often I've seen situations like this where the guy involved is angry at the guy who betrayed him, instead putting the blame where it ought to be. But wait, you said shes an ex, so what's all the fuss about? Just let her go, and wish her a happy herpes.

[HyeJinx1984]

Life ain't nuthin but b*tches and money. Oh wait.. wrong thread.

[gevo]

Wow. I am completely shocked.

I used to teach jiu-jitsu part time at a kickboxing school about 30 miles from my coach's school. A guy visiting from overseas joined my class and we quickly became friends. He planned to stay as long as he could, but was paying an outrageous price to stay in a hotel. I checked with some neighbors in my apartment complex and found a room for him to rent for 1/4 the price he was paying at the hotel. I drove him to train every day and did whatever I could to help him adjust to living here. After 6 months or so, I would have considered him one of my closest friends.

His visa ran out and he had to return to his country in Europe. Still wanting to train, but unable to come to the US, he moved to Rio de Janeiro. While I was down there about a month ago, he mentioned that he would be visiting Rio, to stay with our mutual friend and the sister of my ex. An ex I was with for a very long time and still close with. I didn’t say anything at the time because I wanted to see what would come of it. I can’t say I trusted him completely, but I did give him the benefit of the doubt.

Ugh...today I got the email from him telling me that they got together. I cant xxxxing believe it. In a nation of millions of available hotties, he went out of his way to hook up my ex. Not just any ex, but an ex I loved.

He plans to come back to LA soon. I told him I didn’t want to see his xxxxing face, but I’m actually hoping he makes it here….

i dont think she is your ex if you are so mad.. either get over her.. or go marry her.. seriosuly.. u cant dwell on it like this...

[clubbin714]

guys, ...Im over her. I know it doesnt seem like it from my post, but its not that I feel betrayed by her. She disappointed me so profoundly when we were together that there is nothing she could do now that would surprise me. Im bugged that I was so close to him and he went out of his way to bang her. His quote from the email: "I'm a guy."

xxxx that. Ive made mistakes before. Ive REALLY xxxxed up, but I dont pass them off to being a guy and I dont go out of my way to make them.