Arranged Marriages

[choban]

I think my parents would make a better pick then i would. It's just not my pick, it just wouldn't sit right with me. Ya know what i mean jelly bean?

[chille]

well i think when we say arranged marriage we mean a marriage between two people who have no feelings for each other. however, sometimes marriage can be arranged and 2 future spouses will meet each other, get to know each other and realize that they actually like each other and develop deeper feelings. in this case there is nothing wrong with the fact that you were introduced to a person by your family. the problem arises when even one of the future spouses is not intrested! then it really sucks cuz this marriage is not going to be a happy one.

[garegin]

i basicly agree with u.
some arranged marriages are doomes because they are not built on mutual feelings.

[choban]

Now you guys need to be clear.

Are you talking about your family setting you up with someone?

Or your parents picking who your gonna marry?

[garegin]

well techniqly we are talking about "parents picking who your gonna marry".

[chille]

i am kinda confused as well though. i thought we were talking about family introducing you to someone not necessarily picking someone for you. if that's the case then i do not want my family to be like: hey, he's a nice guy, makes a lot of money, his family is great and all that BS. i know my parents wouldnt do that. but i would trust my mom if she told me that the guy was worth looking at. i would take a look, why not? it doesnt mean i have to marry him the very next day, right?

[HyeJinx1984]

but i would trust my mom if she told me that the guy was worth looking at. i would take a look, why not? it doesnt mean i have to marry him the very next day, right?

Nope, not at all. Two days from wednesday though. Sorry... thems the breaks.

[sad_eyes]

hehehe, ode to the sarcasim.

[chille]

Nope, not at all. Two days from wednesday though. Sorry... thems the breaks.

u are so harsh and sarcastic. i wonder if u are like that only in the forum...

[HyeJinx1984]

Probably, this is where my didactic side comes out. In reality I'm usually the biggest joker, randomly biting people and spontaneously bursting out into Disney songs...


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