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  • Hmm. Check out my situation.

    Alright, so basically here is my problem.

    A new girl came to school about a year or so and I had the pleasure in becomming her friend. So now we occasionaly talk about Europe, Chocolate, the Future and other stuff 16yr olds talk about. I got to know her as if I known her my entire life, and I gained her trust. Now here is the part that gets me pissed:

    She used to like another guy, but that dude was a jerk and pissed her off to the point where she cried and never talked to him. Preety serious teenage drama, so being close to her, she told me that she hated his guts. The other day, she gave him a present and they are friends again. The guy who made her cry, did not apologize, gets a present but the dude who talks to her gets nothing.

    Hmm...

    I thought I would share for the girls who thinks boys are just so bad. There are good guys, you just ignore them.

  • #2
    Originally posted by Hayq
    Alright, so basically here is my problem.

    A new girl came to school about a year or so and I had the pleasure in becomming her friend. So now we occasionaly talk about Europe, Chocolate, the Future and other stuff 16yr olds talk about. I got to know her as if I known her my entire life, and I gained her trust. Now here is the part that gets me pissed:

    She used to like another guy, but that dude was a jerk and pissed her off to the point where she cried and never talked to him. Preety serious teenage drama, so being close to her, she told me that she hated his guts. The other day, she gave him a present and they are friends again. The guy who made her cry, did not apologize, gets a present but the dude who talks to her gets nothing.

    Hmm...

    I thought I would share for the girls who thinks boys are just so bad. There are good guys, you just ignore them.

    Hahaha you are suffering from the "nice guy" dilemma. You have to be an a$s to her like that guy.
    Achkerov kute.

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    • #3
      I think you have to find a middle ground. Don't be to nice and don't be to much of an ass. If you combine being nice and being a sarcastic s.o.b., you'll be good.

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      • #4
        Originally posted by Emil
        I think you have to find a middle ground. Don't be to nice and don't be to much of an ass. If you combine being nice and being a sarcastic s.o.b., you'll be good.
        Yea, clearly what he said.
        Achkerov kute.

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        • #5
          First of all, aaaaaaaawwwwwww. Well, you know that there is a difference. She probably still has the hots for that guy, while you are just simply her friend.
          Originally posted by Emil
          I think you have to find a middle ground. Don't be to nice and don't be to much of an ass. If you combine being nice and being a sarcastic s.o.b., you'll be good.
          This is actually good advice.
          I see...

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          • #6
            First of all, aaaaaaaawwwwwww. Well, you know that there is a difference. She probably still has the hots for that guy, while you are just simply her friend.
            Originally posted by Emil
            I think you have to find a middle ground. Don't be to nice and don't be to much of an ass. If you combine being nice and being a sarcastic s.o.b., you'll be good.
            This is actually good advice.


            Gracias, mi amiga.

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            • #7
              I see...

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              • #8
                I try not to be nice, but I can't help it.

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                • #9
                  Originally posted by Thai-Samurai
                  I try not to be nice, but I can't help it.


                  Take my advice young samurai. Don't let them take your kidness as a weakness. Girls love it when you can be a sarcastic s.o.b. to them.

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                  • #10
                    Originally posted by Hayq
                    Alright, so basically here is my problem.

                    A new girl came to school about a year or so and I had the pleasure in becomming her friend. So now we occasionaly talk about Europe, Chocolate, the Future and other stuff 16yr olds talk about. I got to know her as if I known her my entire life, and I gained her trust. Now here is the part that gets me pissed:

                    She used to like another guy, but that dude was a jerk and pissed her off to the point where she cried and never talked to him. Preety serious teenage drama, so being close to her, she told me that she hated his guts. The other day, she gave him a present and they are friends again. The guy who made her cry, did not apologize, gets a present but the dude who talks to her gets nothing.

                    Hmm...

                    I thought I would share for the girls who thinks boys are just so bad. There are good guys, you just ignore them.
                    You're in danger of entering the "friend zone".

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