Hmm. Check out my situation.

[xBaron Dants]

You're in the friend zone already. Been there a couple of times. Rather irritating.

But there is hope if you act, and act quickly. Trust me, I was just met with success two weeks ago.

But if you're already at the stage where she talks to you about her periods...I'd say you missed your chance.

[SagGal]

But if you're already at the stage where she talks to you about her periods...I'd say you missed your chance.

Please, what girl talks to guys about her periods?

[GSTracer05]

You're in the friend zone already. Been there a couple of times. Rather irritating.

But there is hope if you act, and act quickly. Trust me, I was just met with success two weeks ago.

But if you're already at the stage where she talks to you about her periods...I'd say you missed your chance.

LoL. There's no stage like that as far as I'm concerned. You dont want some chick you like to be telling you about her boy problems. That shoulder to lean on thing doesnt work out well. Trust me. I've done that in my younger days. Even if you end up landing her, you're going to be her safety guy till she finds someone more exciting in the long run. Girls want that fire and mystery about a guy.

[GSTracer05]

Please, what girl talks to guys about her periods?

Yes! That's what I'm saying. Even my g/fs wouldnt talk to me about it. They'd just be like "it's that time" and that was the end of it.

[xBaron Dants]

Oh get my point already people. And FYI, I know girls who talk about their periods to guys.....Ok, I don't...but eh...GET MY POINT ALREADY!

As for me being the safety guy, thank you for the nice words, lol. No seriously, I'm not the sensitive type so I'm not offended or anything. But I must say that I was not the "shoulder to lean on" type of friend, just a friend, and was able to take it to the next level before the shoulder to lean on "phase" came in.

Which is why I fear it is too late for Hayq.

[GSTracer05]

Oh get my point already people. And FYI, I know girls who talk about their periods to guys.....Ok, I don't...but eh...GET MY POINT ALREADY!

As for me being the safety guy, thank you for the nice words, lol. No seriously, I'm not the sensitive type so I'm not offended or anything. But I must say that I was not the "shoulder to lean on" type of friend, just a friend, and was able to take it to the next level before the shoulder to lean on "phase" came in.

Which is why I fear it is too late for Hayq.

Good man. You dodged the "shoulder to lean on zone". See there's a difference, you can be friends, but not give the shoulder to lean on and you're still in the race.



Hayq needs to lay his cards down on the table asap. She goes for it, good. She doesnt, move on.

P.S. I didnt mean to offend you. Just come across as blunt sometimes.

[xBaron Dants]

Yes, I was very proud myself.

But, it wasn't just me dodging it. It was pretty mutual (which is why she couldn't lean on my shoulder, cause she would need to lean on somebody else's shoulder to talk about me! HA! i WIIIIIIIIIN! I WIIIIIIIIIN).

As for Hayq, I agree. Just lay out your cards ASAP. And if it doesn't work out...well, at least you can lean on her shoulder!

[SagGal]

...the "shoulder to lean on" type of friend...

That's one of the best though, isn't it? When she's heartbroken, you can pick up the pieces.

[xBaron Dants]

And don't worry about bluntness racer dude guy. I appreciate it a lot more than fake nice comments.

Which is why I'm not saying "oh hayq, you're in the perfect situation, she really loves you"...

[xBaron Dants]

That's one of the best though, isn't it? When she's heartbroken, you can pick up the pieces.

No...you then become the rebound or "safety" person..