Are there any Armenian girls that want a man and not his money?

[xBaron Dants]

It's an LA Armenian problem. You guys took the potential of a huge Armenian community and transformed into a nightmare!

Just come to Montreal...or go to Armenia..

[thedebutante]

because girls...well...they are fickle and completely OPPOSIte of what you think they are.

Sorry, bro...having the same troubles as you...

This is why you don't have a girl. Now go stand in the corner on one foot.

[Anonymouse]

by Freidrich Nietzsche

"Why do you steal so cautiously through the twighlight, Zarathustra? And what do you conceal so carefully under your coat? Is it a treasure you have been given? or a child born to you? Or do you yourself now follow the ways of thieves. You friend of those who are evil?"

"Verily, my brother" said Zarathustra, "it is treasure I have been given: it is a little truth that I carry. But it is troublesome like a young child, and if I don't hold my hand over its mouth, it will cry overloudly."

"When I went on my way today, alone, at the hour when the sun goes down, I met a little old woman who spoke thus to my soul: 'Much has Zarathustra spoken to us women too; but never did he speak to us about woman'. And I answered her: 'About woman one should speak only to men'. Then she said: 'Speak to me too of woman; I am old enough to forget it immediately'. And I obliged the little old woman and I spoke to her thus:

"Everything about woman is a riddle, and everything about woman has one solution: that is pregnancy. Man is for woman a means: the end is always the child. But what is woman for man? A real man wants two things: danger and play. Therefore he wants woman as the most dangerous plaything. Man should be educated for war, and woman for the recreation of the warrior; all else is folly. The warrior does not like all-too-sweet fruit; therefore he likes woman: even the sweetest woman is bitter. Woman understands children better than man does, but man is more childlike than woman.

"In a real man a child is hidden - and wants to play. Go to it, women, discover the child in man! Let woman be a plaything, pure and fine, like a gem, irradiated by the virtues of a world that has not yet arrived. Let the radiance of a star shine through your love! Let your hope be: May I give birth to the overman!

"Let there be courage in your love! With your love you should proceed toward him who arouses fear in you. Let your honor be in your love! Little does woman understand of honor otherwise. But let this be your honor: always to love more than you are loved, and never to be second.

"Let man fear woman when she loves: then she makes any sacrifices, and everything else seems without value to her. Let man fear woman when she hates: for deep down in his soul man is merely evil, while woman is bad. Whom does woman hate most? Thus spoke the iron to the magnet: 'I hate you most because you attract, but are not strong enough to pull me to you'.

"The happiness of man is: I will. The happiness of woman is: he wills. 'Behold, just now the world became perfect!' - thus thinks every woman when she obeys out of entire love. And woman must obey and find a depth for her surface. Surface is the disposition of woman: a mobile, stormy film over shallow water. Man's disposition, however, is deep; his river roars in subterranean caves: woman feels his strength but does not comprehend it.

"Then the little old woman answered me: 'Many fine things has Zarathustra said, especially for those who are young enough for them. It is strange: Zarathustra knows women little, and yet he is right about them. Is this because n othing is impossible with woman? And now, as a token of gratitude, accept a little truth. After all, I am old enough for it. Wrap it up and hold your hand over its mouth: else it will cry overloudly this little truth'.

"Then I said: 'Woman, give me your little truth'. And thus spoke the little old woman:

"You are going to women? Do not forget the whip!'"

Thus spoke Zarathustra.

[violette829]

Oh BOO HOO to the guy who can't find a good girl!!!! I think I'm going to be sick First of all, it's not just ARMENIAN girls who are gold-diggers. Women want stability. No, I'm not here to defend Knkush and Armineh who hound guys for their money, in fact, that goes against everything I believe in. I am a very independent woman, and when a man tries to do for me what I can CLEARLY do for myself, I take offense to that. HOWEVER, even in the animal kingdom, you see the male competing with other males to show "who is the strongest". Well, we all know that human survival has nothing to do with bloodshed (unless you're into that ), but in a sense, it all makes sense. In our culture, it is often the man who has to be the main breadwinner, which is also something I go against. You are blaming ARMENIANS because that's all you see. Granted, there are Sheryl-Lynn's in the world who would drool over your Hundai, but for the most part, every culture has its own share of gold-diggers. Go ask an Asian if another Asian girl would even DARE look at them if they drove anything OTHER than a fixed up Honda.

I went off didn't I? Well, what I'm trying to say if that it's not only Armenian girls who do this. DO not generalize and make us look like we're these sick animals who only go after guys who drive mercedes. I have said this before to my friends, and I shall share it with you too. I have basically taken care of myself my ENTIRE life. I have never depended on my parents, except maybe to change my diaper. I am where I am on my own will. Since I lost my dad, I understand how hard it is to survive without the "Head of the Household". Imagine where I would be if I didn't know how to do things for myself. OMG I would die! Every woman needs to be independent because it's sad to say, but there is death, divorce, and other problems in the world to deal with. How can I be a gold-digger, expect my man to pay for everything, and still have respect from him and for myself? It's just not possible.

I know you have encountered many women with the MS (Mercedes Syndrome) and I do feel sorry that you had to go through that, but at least they don't just look at you and think SEX. Imagine how hard it is RIGHT NOW to find a guy in his MID 20's who is not f*cking around and still in his teenage years. I mean, guys who are like 28-29 STILLLLLL go clubbing on a regular basis, get a*ss from left and right, and when it comes down to it, they're 35 and lonely as hell. It's so pathetic. I think those guys end up with the gold-diggers, and OH MY what a combO!!! HAHA I recently met a guy who I thought was PERFECT for me. He and I think, act, and feel the same. We have such an awesome connection. GUESS WHAT? He's 27 and STILL not ready to commit. It's just a shame. I guess with Armenians, it's a lose lose situation for both sexes.

[Anushik]

Anon, where did you read that? It's written so great.
You know, I started to change my opinion about you...

[violette829]

Anon, where did you read that? It's written so great.
You know, I started to change my opinion about you...

Why? That's the biggest piece of sh*t I've ever seen. LOL Anon jan, you crack me up.

[CatWoman]

I think this Armenian girls only want our money thing is getting kinda old and annoying! Is it like the thing nowadays to call us gold diggers? lol… Ofcourse some girls are after the guy’s money, but many aren’t. Same with guys, I know some guys who are with their girlfriends mainly because the girl’s family is rich.

Someone called ME a gold digger hahaha, and I know myself well enough to know that I’m so not a gold digger… the guy… well where can I start, didn’t have a car (any kind), wasn’t that hot, on our 3rd date or so suggested we go to the park and 'chill' cause he didn’t have money LOL, and after 2 months (yes, I dated him for 2mnts) when I asked him to just be friends cause I wasn’t attracted to him (it had nothing to do with his money), what did he do? He told everyone I was a gold digger, and I was after his money… I was like WHAT MONEY? lolllll So don't believe guys when they say we're after their money, find out on your own

You said you don’t really approach girls and are shy…. Listen, you can't just sit there and wait for the perfect girl to come around and approach you herself! Next time try making the first move, start with an eye contact, then a smile, and wait a little before approching her… You said you aren't bad lookin, so there shouldn't be a problem. Trust me, there are many nice, pretty, intelligent Armenian girls out there who aren't after the guy's money.

Originally Posted by sad_eyes
Wy dont you travel back to Armenia?

LOL, this was a joke right? If he can't find one HERE and thinks girls HERE are gold diggers, what makes you think girls in Armenia are any different specially when it comes to a US citizen and a green card?

[EYYBABA23]

Violette jan, I feel you. I was in no way trying to bash ALL ARMENIAN WOMEN. I said most of them (70 percent would define "most of them"). And plus, I'm sure gold-digger women do exist in every nationality, however since I'm an Armenian man, I have the one option of marrying an Armenian woman, therefore I didn't include all the women from other nationalities in my comments, and that's why they were pointed towards Armenian women.

Now don't get me wrong, at 25 I do have a beautiful female friend (with benefits) who is Hawaiian. I don't call her my girlfriend because she's not. She doesn't call to ask me where I'm at or what I'm doing, rather if I can make it to her house to watch a movie, drink some wine or Congac and talk and ****. Now I'm not the type that'll have 2-3 girls at once, but I can't stay without the presence of a woman in my life either, and the last part is true for any straight man. That said, she also knows that there's no future for me and her (meaning I'm not going to marry her or anything) and I've told her that the first second I find the Armenian girl that I think she could be the one, our benefits plan would end and we'd just become friends, period! And she's ok with that.

And I think it's too early for me to get married now, but I'd like to meet the girl I'd like to marry right now so maybe in 3-4 years we can get married and still be under 30 when that happens!

I don't know about attending University parties because I really can't connect with 18-19 year olds and believe you me, MOST of the 21-22 year-olds either are involved with someone or they still want to party since they just turned 21.

Going back to Armenia is what my mom says, but I seriously doubt there's a 1% chance I'll do that. It just won't happen. The worst thing I fear is for my mom or an aunt or some family member to try to hook me up with a girl they know and think would be a fine mate for me

Anyways I'm thankful to all of you who took the time to share your opinions about this matter and I'm gonna go read Anonymouse's post now.

[EYYBABA23]

After reading Anonymouse's post, I'm getting ready to go to a FETISH store or something to buy a whip , but hold on, I was raised learning that you should NEVER hit (or Whip) a lady. I don't know if I wanna change my approach on that.

But jokes aside, I agree with CatWoman that I need to be more aggressive (and trust me CatWoman, I know how to approach women [via eye contact, smile, etc.], but I want to know where I should go to find a nice, sweet, cool and down to earth Armenian girl to be able to have eye contact, to begin with. This last sentence just felt so weird when I was writing it considering I live in Glendale and it's filled with Armenians, but hey I don't like to drive on Glenoaks and try to talk to girls who are cruising on Glenoaks (I'm not 17 anymore). And is it me or there aren't any Armenian dances and stuff going on anymore? (ahh shoot, they're usually filled with youngsters too anyways, even if it's 21 and over. You all know how easy it is to fake being 21!)

[Anushik]

LOL, this was a joke right? If he can't find one HERE and thinks girls HERE are gold diggers, what makes you think girls in Armenia are any different specially when it comes to a US citizen and a green card? [/FONT]

And that is your opinion about Armenian girls? Don't generalize! It’s true there are girls who want to find American guy, come to the US and get green card. But you can not say that everyone in Armenia is like that. I know many-many girls who rejected American guys because they didn’t love them, and they didn’t want to connect their whole life with the guys who thought that if they are Americans, any Armenian girl will be more than happy to get married with them … Where are the respect, love etc? I really hate when people think that everything in this world is related with money. Money is just a piece of paper (really powerful but piece of paper…), today you have it, but tomorrow you can wake up with nothing. So please, don’t say that money (or green card or whatever) can buy love… I believe that this is impossible…