Are there any Armenian girls that want a man and not his money?

[violette829]

Oh BOO HOO to the guy who can't find a good girl!!!! I think I'm going to be sick First of all, it's not just ARMENIAN girls who are gold-diggers. Women want stability. No, I'm not here to defend Knkush and Armineh who hound guys for their money, in fact, that goes against everything I believe in. I am a very independent woman, and when a man tries to do for me what I can CLEARLY do for myself, I take offense to that. HOWEVER, even in the animal kingdom, you see the male competing with other males to show "who is the strongest". Well, we all know that human survival has nothing to do with bloodshed (unless you're into that ), but in a sense, it all makes sense. In our culture, it is often the man who has to be the main breadwinner, which is also something I go against. You are blaming ARMENIANS because that's all you see. Granted, there are Sheryl-Lynn's in the world who would drool over your Hundai, but for the most part, every culture has its own share of gold-diggers. Go ask an Asian if another Asian girl would even DARE look at them if they drove anything OTHER than a fixed up Honda.

I went off didn't I? Well, what I'm trying to say if that it's not only Armenian girls who do this. DO not generalize and make us look like we're these sick animals who only go after guys who drive mercedes. I have said this before to my friends, and I shall share it with you too. I have basically taken care of myself my ENTIRE life. I have never depended on my parents, except maybe to change my diaper. I am where I am on my own will. Since I lost my dad, I understand how hard it is to survive without the "Head of the Household". Imagine where I would be if I didn't know how to do things for myself. OMG I would die! Every woman needs to be independent because it's sad to say, but there is death, divorce, and other problems in the world to deal with. How can I be a gold-digger, expect my man to pay for everything, and still have respect from him and for myself? It's just not possible.

I know you have encountered many women with the MS (Mercedes Syndrome) and I do feel sorry that you had to go through that, but at least they don't just look at you and think SEX. Imagine how hard it is RIGHT NOW to find a guy in his MID 20's who is not f*cking around and still in his teenage years. I mean, guys who are like 28-29 STILLLLLL go clubbing on a regular basis, get a*ss from left and right, and when it comes down to it, they're 35 and lonely as hell. It's so pathetic. I think those guys end up with the gold-diggers, and OH MY what a combO!!! HAHA I recently met a guy who I thought was PERFECT for me. He and I think, act, and feel the same. We have such an awesome connection. GUESS WHAT? He's 27 and STILL not ready to commit. It's just a shame. I guess with Armenians, it's a lose lose situation for both sexes.

[Anonymouse]

by Freidrich Nietzsche

"Why do you steal so cautiously through the twighlight, Zarathustra? And what do you conceal so carefully under your coat? Is it a treasure you have been given? or a child born to you? Or do you yourself now follow the ways of thieves. You friend of those who are evil?"

"Verily, my brother" said Zarathustra, "it is treasure I have been given: it is a little truth that I carry. But it is troublesome like a young child, and if I don't hold my hand over its mouth, it will cry overloudly."

"When I went on my way today, alone, at the hour when the sun goes down, I met a little old woman who spoke thus to my soul: 'Much has Zarathustra spoken to us women too; but never did he speak to us about woman'. And I answered her: 'About woman one should speak only to men'. Then she said: 'Speak to me too of woman; I am old enough to forget it immediately'. And I obliged the little old woman and I spoke to her thus:

"Everything about woman is a riddle, and everything about woman has one solution: that is pregnancy. Man is for woman a means: the end is always the child. But what is woman for man? A real man wants two things: danger and play. Therefore he wants woman as the most dangerous plaything. Man should be educated for war, and woman for the recreation of the warrior; all else is folly. The warrior does not like all-too-sweet fruit; therefore he likes woman: even the sweetest woman is bitter. Woman understands children better than man does, but man is more childlike than woman.

"In a real man a child is hidden - and wants to play. Go to it, women, discover the child in man! Let woman be a plaything, pure and fine, like a gem, irradiated by the virtues of a world that has not yet arrived. Let the radiance of a star shine through your love! Let your hope be: May I give birth to the overman!

"Let there be courage in your love! With your love you should proceed toward him who arouses fear in you. Let your honor be in your love! Little does woman understand of honor otherwise. But let this be your honor: always to love more than you are loved, and never to be second.

"Let man fear woman when she loves: then she makes any sacrifices, and everything else seems without value to her. Let man fear woman when she hates: for deep down in his soul man is merely evil, while woman is bad. Whom does woman hate most? Thus spoke the iron to the magnet: 'I hate you most because you attract, but are not strong enough to pull me to you'.

"The happiness of man is: I will. The happiness of woman is: he wills. 'Behold, just now the world became perfect!' - thus thinks every woman when she obeys out of entire love. And woman must obey and find a depth for her surface. Surface is the disposition of woman: a mobile, stormy film over shallow water. Man's disposition, however, is deep; his river roars in subterranean caves: woman feels his strength but does not comprehend it.

"Then the little old woman answered me: 'Many fine things has Zarathustra said, especially for those who are young enough for them. It is strange: Zarathustra knows women little, and yet he is right about them. Is this because n othing is impossible with woman? And now, as a token of gratitude, accept a little truth. After all, I am old enough for it. Wrap it up and hold your hand over its mouth: else it will cry overloudly this little truth'.

"Then I said: 'Woman, give me your little truth'. And thus spoke the little old woman:

"You are going to women? Do not forget the whip!'"

Thus spoke Zarathustra.

[thedebutante]

because girls...well...they are fickle and completely OPPOSIte of what you think they are.

Sorry, bro...having the same troubles as you...

This is why you don't have a girl. Now go stand in the corner on one foot.

[xBaron Dants]

It's an LA Armenian problem. You guys took the potential of a huge Armenian community and transformed into a nightmare!

Just come to Montreal...or go to Armenia..

[Hayq]

Ditto, and I am 16. Go read the quote by Nietszche that Annonymouse posted.

25 years old and you sound like me...damn...I am going to be 25 and in the same situation!

What can I say, from my little experience, I think you have to make the move first, because girls...well...they are fickle and completely OPPOSIte of what you think they are.

Sorry, bro...having the same troubles as you...

[omniscient]

I went to Pierce College (in Woodland Hills) so there weren't many Armenians there, let alone Armenian girls.....I tend to be a little shy also (unless I'm among people I know) so I'm not the type of a guy that'll go and hit up on girls. I might sound like a nerd, but that's the last thing I am. Plus, if you go to clubs and stuff in L.A., most of the Armo girls that go to places like that ARE actually the gold-diggers and to make it even worse, I'm tired of partying and going to clubs and I think I'm ready to settle down, yet (as you know already) there's no one to settle down with. I'm also kinda worried that if I get older (let's say I reach the thirties) it's gonna be that much harder to find a girl that'll be compatible with me.

JOIN THE CLUB .........

[thedebutante]

I went to Pierce College (in Woodland Hills) so there weren't many Armenians there, let alone Armenian girls.....I tend to be a little shy also (unless I'm among people I know) so I'm not the type of a guy that'll go and hit up on girls. I might sound like a nerd, but that's the last thing I am. Plus, if you go to clubs and stuff in L.A., most of the Armo girls that go to places like that ARE actually the gold-diggers and to make it even worse, I'm tired of partying and going to clubs and I think I'm ready to settle down, yet (as you know already) there's no one to settle down with. I'm also kinda worried that if I get older (let's say I reach the thirties) it's gonna be that much harder to find a girl that'll be compatible with me.

Well, let's just say there aren't too many Armenians at my school either. Believe it or not, Armenian girls like me have as much trouble finding someone decent. You are totally not alone. Why don't you try going to some of those armo college parties. I think that schools like UCLA and USC have them all the time. You might meet some peeps there. Other than that, good luck.

[thedebutante]

Wy dont you travel back to Armenia?

Totally not a good idea. Trust me!

[sad_eyes]

Wy dont you travel back to Armenia?

[EYYBABA23]

I went to Pierce College (in Woodland Hills) so there weren't many Armenians there, let alone Armenian girls.....I tend to be a little shy also (unless I'm among people I know) so I'm not the type of a guy that'll go and hit up on girls. I might sound like a nerd, but that's the last thing I am. Plus, if you go to clubs and stuff in L.A., most of the Armo girls that go to places like that ARE actually the gold-diggers and to make it even worse, I'm tired of partying and going to clubs and I think I'm ready to settle down, yet (as you know already) there's no one to settle down with. I'm also kinda worried that if I get older (let's say I reach the thirties) it's gonna be that much harder to find a girl that'll be compatible with me.