Somebody Give Me Some Adivce..

[hyerebel]

I honestly don't wanna mess up the friendship, so what should I do? Keep it in and wait for it to be over- somehow? Or just tell her?

Why don’t you start being more of a non-joking guy for a little bit and let her take you seriously? You need to make her like you just like way you started liking her al of the sudden! Figure out what she likes, what makes her to go “ wow I want to date that guy”.

you need to know what she feels for you, I had a friend and he told me once how much he loved me and that wanted to be more than my friend, but I just couldn’t look at him that way at all!

Can you kind a feel what she is feeling for you? or does she like someone else?

[Anonymouse]

Why don’t you start being more of a non-joking guy for a little bit and let her take you seriously? You need to make her like you just like way you started liking her al of the sudden! Figure out what she likes, what makes her to go “ wow I want to date that guy”.

you need to know what she feels for you, I had a friend and he told me once how much he loved me and that wanted to be more than my friend, but I just couldn’t look at him that way at all!

Can you kind a feel what she is feeling for you? or does she like someone else?

Why are you telling him to engage in something when you yourself just acknowledged that a 'friend' of yours did and it failed on you? Furthermore, you can't "make" someone like you.

[One-Way]

Mhm..

[hyerebel]

Why are you telling him to engage in something when you yourself just acknowledged that a 'friend' of yours did and it failed on you? Furthermore, you can't "make" someone like you.

I have been in to both situations:

1) One of my friends told me that he likes me but I couldn’t see him as my b/f. B/C I didn’t have any feelings for him and the reason is because I loved my friend in number 2)


2) Another friend of mine that was very funny, ( he would joke around a lot and I couldn't tell if he was being serious or not!) and I loved him but didn’t want to say anything to him. He came to my place one night and took me out for dinner and in a very nice serious way told me " ok, you need to know how I feel about you and it's more than just a friend " , then that's how we ended up dating because I had feelings for him also. That's why I am asking if he knows how she feels about him and if she does have feelings for him then yes, he should go for it!

[hyerebel]

I don’t know how much this will help, but the way I found out he has feelings for me was when he gave me Marc Anthony’s CD. That CD had songs that explained everything I needed to know about his heart I’ll never forget that day

[hosep]

well man i dont know what to say to u but lestin to this just dont tell her that once ok try to tell her in partsu know what i mean i think i was in the same staution befor 5 years but at that time i was young what ever just i think u'll have to do as i said
and dont lose her OK?!?!........

[One-Way]

I appreciate your first post being useful and helpful to me.

I've grown to lose some of my feelings for her, but that might only be because I haven't seen her since then. I'm fine for now- we'll see what happens in the future.

[1womanARMY]

ok...i finally get to give you my 2 cents...i am going to be brutally honest my love...here we go:

I think that if she had feelings for you...you wouldnt even have to ask...you would know...I think deep in our hearts we know the answers to all of our questions...So in short i will say...my dear boy...maybe she doesnt like you, maybe she does...but i think in your heart you already know the answer.

[sad_eyes]

I think any girl can appreciate honesty, friends, girlfriends, it makes no difference. I think you should tell her how you feel, chances are she may feel the same for you and is in your same situation. You will never know until you ask her. I dont think she would reject you for sharing your feelings, even if she doesnt feel the same way as you. Friends are rare, good friends are rarer. Friends wont bail on you in any situation. I think you should go for it. Tell her. And good luck!

[Mafia Man]

I dont even know how to talk to girls HELP