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Ever lasting/Ever fading love!?

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  • Ever lasting/Ever fading love!?

    What drives you to make a relationship you are in last? What qualities (NOTHING PHYSICAL) can a woman/man possess in order to retain you from jumping on the nearest boat and sailing away from him or her?

  • #2
    Of course, a given woman will probably have a combination of all or a subset of the following - maybe incomplete - list of characteristics, each to a different degree:

    Kind
    Generous
    Playful
    Mischievous
    Feminine
    Open minded
    An edge
    A little shade of darkness
    A dose of eccentricity
    Close to the child in her
    Close to her body
    Independent minded
    Character - a bit stubborn or difficult is OK and may enhance her character
    Full of life
    Dreamer
    Curious
    Sincere in her emotions - she would sincerely love you or hate you
    A sense of humor
    Principled
    Honest
    Intellectual Integrity
    Imaginative
    Passionate
    Not pretentious
    Not arrogant
    Not career oriented
    A bit of a rebel
    A bit of a poet
    A bit of an artist
    A bit of a musician
    A bit of a charmer
    Knows how to use makeup with taste and moderation
    Knows how to use accessories with taste and moderation
    Personal/unique (fashion) style
    Personal/unique style
    Loves and respects children
    Loves and respects life - abortion is not a disrespect of life
    Loves and respects others
    Not submissive or obedient yet flexible
    Defends her rights
    Respects others' rights
    Not bossy or authoritarian
    Respects herself and does not let others boss her around
    Elegantly, but vehemently insolent with oppressive individuals
    A bit of a cat
    A bit of a wild horse
    A bit of a bohemian
    A bit of a "barefoot contessa"
    Proud
    Noble
    Not loud
    Caring
    Tender
    Aristocratic - as defined in Nietzsche i.e. believes in individual values
    Elegant
    Soulful - I don't care much about spiritual
    Trustworthy
    Not materialistic
    Distinguished
    An Angel, not a Goddess
    A Princess, not a Queen
    Not Rationalist
    Not feminist
    Neither a moralist nor an immoralist
    Can appreciate both traditions and new trends
    Joyful
    Warm and affectionate
    Not punitive
    Not vindictive
    Not belligerent
    Mentally refined and evolved enough to care less for primitive signs of "virility" such as atrophic musculature, uniforms and oppressive authority
    Funny
    Natural
    Real i.e. not phony or hypocrite
    Courageous
    Faithful



    To be updated!
    Last edited by Siamanto; 08-19-2005, 10:30 PM.
    What if I find someone else when looking for you? My soul shivers as the idea invades my mind.

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    • #3
      Good grief and the list goes on....

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      • #4
        Not very picky, are you?

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        • #5
          Originally posted by sad_eyes
          Not very picky, are you?
          This list is known as the 76 commandments (of Love) that the Gods have communicated to me.

          According to the Gods, a large number of commandments reduces the chances that women are viewed and appreciated through a small and narrow number of attributes that may oversimplify, impoverish and distort their heavenly essence!
          What if I find someone else when looking for you? My soul shivers as the idea invades my mind.

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          • #6
            Ya ok your still picky =)

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            • #7
              Originally posted by LadySilver
              Ya ok your still picky =)
              Because I'm not a sinner like you. I follow religiously the 76 Commandments!
              What if I find someone else when looking for you? My soul shivers as the idea invades my mind.

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              • #8
                Originally posted by Siamanto
                Because I'm not a sinner like you. I follow religiously the 76 Commandments!
                Ok whatever you say =)

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                • #9
                  Originally posted by Siamanto
                  Of course, a given woman will probably have a combination of all or a subset of the following - maybe incomplete - list of characteristics, each to a different degree:

                  Horny
                  Sexy
                  Rich
                  Mischievous
                  Feminine
                  Open minded
                  An edge
                  ...


                  To be updated!
                  I like the list, or more correctly, your model of a perfect match, but as the complexity of a model grows, it often becomes very hard to prove the validity of such model. In the simplest case this could be due to possible increase in disparities and inconsistancies of it. For example, "Not feminist" and "Defends her rights" could be seen as a bit contradicting. Another problem with blown out models is the repetition and duplication.

                  God, I'm such a nerd.

                  For myself, I'd rather feel than qualify. The perfect romantic match for me is a best friend [a person you'd never want to leave because you'd miss her presence too much] that you'd also like to get naked.

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                  • #10
                    hehehe, the above is the most realistic one yet.

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