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Ok based on your replies here, I'll assume you liked her and want to go out again. If not, forget what I am saying here.
The good news is, she likes you! And I have no idea why you are trippin on what she told you at the end. That is probably the best thing she could have told you, given the circumstances.
#1: She is giving you a hint for a next time.
#2: She likes you and she thinks you can do better.
#3: She is hinting there might be something more (kiss)
#3 is by faaaaaaar the most important. If she didn't think it, she would NOT have said that. That is a very big deal to girls. I am not saying there is going to be anything serious ... it's too early to say that. But everything you have said tells me she did like you.
Now, the good news in addition to the above is that you have a VERY good and smooth way to proceed from here. The awekwardness is out of the way. You will ALWAYS be able to think back at this and laugh and joke about it to lighten the mood.
So you definitely tell her that you liked her (if you did), and that you have been thinking about her a lot, and that you would really like to ask her out for something more fun and under more relaxed settings (weekend idea is good ... give it some time for the anticipation to build up but keep talking to her!)
I would HIGHLY recommend a date around some sort of activity next time. A movie is really good early on because you don't have to talk! Pick a funny, light, romantic movie ...
Have a location for dinner in mind. Driving around trying to find a place or sitting around in cars WILL lead to awkwardness. Drive her to the beach for walking around if you don't know what else to do. But of course make sure it is ok with her and ask in advance if she has to be home by a certain time so you can plan accordingly.
... and NO friends.
Ok based on your replies here, I'll assume you liked her and want to go out again. If not, forget what I am saying here.
The good news is, she likes you! And I have no idea why you are trippin on what she told you at the end. That is probably the best thing she could have told you, given the circumstances.
#1: She is giving you a hint for a next time.
#2: She likes you and she thinks you can do better.
#3: She is hinting there might be something more (kiss)
#3 is by faaaaaaar the most important. If she didn't think it, she would NOT have said that. That is a very big deal to girls. I am not saying there is going to be anything serious ... it's too early to say that. But everything you have said tells me she did like you.
Now, the good news in addition to the above is that you have a VERY good and smooth way to proceed from here. The awekwardness is out of the way. You will ALWAYS be able to think back at this and laugh and joke about it to lighten the mood.
So you definitely tell her that you liked her (if you did), and that you have been thinking about her a lot, and that you would really like to ask her out for something more fun and under more relaxed settings (weekend idea is good ... give it some time for the anticipation to build up but keep talking to her!)
I would HIGHLY recommend a date around some sort of activity next time. A movie is really good early on because you don't have to talk! Pick a funny, light, romantic movie ...
Have a location for dinner in mind. Driving around trying to find a place or sitting around in cars WILL lead to awkwardness. Drive her to the beach for walking around if you don't know what else to do. But of course make sure it is ok with her and ask in advance if she has to be home by a certain time so you can plan accordingly.
... and NO friends.
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