Soul Mates?

[omniscient]

So many of us look for love, wanting our absolute soulmate.

Some go from relationship to relationship searching endlessly.
But how do we really know who our soul mate is?, how long do we need to know this person before it hits us in the face and you think "this is it, this is my true love"? Does this person have everything in common or just several things, and why is this person so hard to find for so many?

Is it physical appearance that attracts us to this person, their morals, their whole outlook on everything in life or is it a combination of everything?

I have my own views on this which I will reveal later, but i want you guys to give your opinions on this subject.

[violette829]

Soulmates is just a term used to describe a couple who are basically on the same level. If i met someone who wants almost the same things i want in life, who I have things in common with, and who is willing to share his life with me, then yea I would tell myself that this is my soulmate. I think people who are friends first become soulmates because when u build a bond with someone, it's hard not to fall for eachother (opposite sex). I have a lot of male friends, and with one of them, i actually tried the whole dating thing, but it didn't work because we were so different. I don't even consider us as friends anymore. But, that doesn't mean that I can't find someone else who will share my outlook on life. Physical attraction is a must. I have noticed, and not to be mean, but I have chosen a reallllly good looking group of friends. I think we tend to want to be around people who are pleasing to our eye. ;) Anywho, back to the whole soulmate thing...I don't think that there is only 1 person out there for everyone...it's more of finding the 1 who fits u best. Dating is the only way one can do that. U have to test the waters first, or else u'll just end up getting a cramp in ur leg and drowning.......nice analogy? probably not, but hey, i said what i said and that's all i'm gonna say...............


This post looks like a bunch of jibber jabber.....

[jahannam]

Originally posted by omniscient
But how do we really know who our soul mate is?, how long do we need to know this person before it hits us in the face and you think "this is it, this is my true love"? Does this person have everything in common or just several things, and why is this person so hard to find for so many?


If we had answers to those questions, love wouldn't have the value it has.
It wouldn't be hard to attain.
you see,
when you fall in love with someone, you just know.
If you're questioning whether or not it's love, then it's not.

and for those of you who are actually "looking" for love, don't.
people don't FIND love. Love comes to them whenever it's the right time. Just ask anyone who's in love. They'll most likely tell you "looking for a serious relationship" was the last thing on their minds when they met.
of course, exceptions are always there!

[fIReBuRntInHeLL]

Well its very hard to find your "soulmate" but what if you are the soulmate for someone else, and ur not sure if he is yours?
now thats the Question which bugs me these last week
:( :( :(

[Arvestaked]

Originally posted by fIReBuRntInHeLL Well its very hard to find your "soulmate" but what if you are the soulmate for someone else, and ur not sure if he is yours?

Until about a month and a half ago, I could not imagine someone keeping me happy for the rest of my life; someone who would mean so much that I would not care to sexually wander. Then I met her. And she could not care any less.

[fIReBuRntInHeLL]

Its not that I dont care, but Im not sure if he is the one for me!:(

[jahannam]

then she's not your soulmate.
then your soulmate is someone with HER kinda qualities, with one difference.
who feels the same way!

[fstkhnan]

I think the more you look for love, your chances in finding one decrease, cuz at one point you're going to give up....that's why the best "love stories" in books and movies always happen in coincidences!!! Of course those are just written stories, but they're also, related to the real world!

[fstkhnan]

also, the physical appearance, is only our first impression about someone, but an important one too....cuz it's the first!

[Arvestaked]

Originally posted by jahannam then she's not your soulmate.
then your soulmate is someone with HER kinda qualities, with one difference.
who feels the same way!

You can look at it that way. But I hurt because I want her to be.

[jahannem]

you hurt or you GET hurt?

[Anonymouse]

I'm surprised omniscient, you have been churning out A quality threads as of late, too bad I don't have popcorn with me otherwise I'd pop those bloody kernels and read this with a theatre like hypnosis. Very impressive as this is putting us on the road toward quality and quantity, not just simply quantity.

As far as soul mates, or what I think should have been your topic "Love", its such a relative issue, and so subjective, varying from person to person, and that is what is unique about "love", is that it transcends all sorts of boundaries that we know, class, cultural, religious, racial, political, and if you notice all the above are based on collectiveness and man made, whereas "love" is an emotion which only the individual feels.

There are many types of "love", love of family, love of friends, love of a hobby or art, love for a sport, etc., etc., but then there is that one specific type of love that simply defines you for it reflects you, and that is the love between two individuals bound together by whatever spark that their presence ignited and are willing to endure this or that blah blah. Of course it's so subjective that one can say that "love" is only the initial stage of that lubby dubby feeling one has about the other person, or one can say it's long lasting and lasts for who knows how long.

Eventually it all fades, like everything else. I however don't believe in the concept of "soul mates". I used to, since it really is a transition or battle one has within between how one sees himself in the world, and how one sees the world. Either way, I think the "soul mate" label to me at least is non-existent. However I do believe there are certain individuals who form bonds with one another, and that comes from similarities not differences, on similar outlooks, basically simlar vibes and energies that connect. You can't "define" love, for it transcends the material world and hence one will never know whether one has "true love" or "soul mate" since those things cannot be quantified, but expressions of "love" are quantified in our everyday lives.

It's a big complex thing, but basically, if you want to get into a "relationship" it is 4 syllables too long, and indicative of something chore-like. I use "relationship" to describe my dealings with fellow students or a boss, not someone I "love" but this is how our expressions of love are quantified. Eventually we quantify it in terms of a dozen red roses, a box of chocolates, a diamond ring. And of course, by implication, quantification of love leads to further degradation of love. 2 dozen roses means more love than one dozen. A diamond ring is a much more loving expression than roses or chocolates. And needless to say, the bigger the diamond the bigger the love. One can also quantify "love" in terms of penis size or tits or ass since quantification doesn't end in a material world.

I guess what I am trying to say is during childhood when our mother watches us attentively, or shows care and thought, or holds our hand, simply smiles at us, our little eyes are filled with elation and we are sufficient for the moment. But as adults we learn to quantify these expressions of love. A dozen roses, a box of chocolates, or a diamond ring are all acceptable and valid. Yet an attentive look, a playful smile, or simply putting away the dishes without a second thought, are simply facts of life, not gestures of love. Exactly at what point did we lose our innocence? When did we start quantifying love? At what age did we lose sight of the value of the ordinary?

In any event, personally, I wouldn't recommend marriages or long term committed relationships since you're only delaying the inevitable and asking for it, for sooner or later one of the two will quantify in a different way. I see every marriage around me and I simply can't see anything "lovely" about it, since both husband and wife are miserable from the expressions, tired of eating the same soup for 20 years. Just stick to more casual things such as casual dating, or friends with privelages, and if you do fall in "love", make sure you're the one that exits that relationship first before having the other person exit on you hehe.

[Arvestaked]

Originally posted by jahannem you hurt or you GET hurt?

Yes I meant that I am getting hurt. "Hurt" in the intransitive sense.

....

.....Denise

....God damn it....

[Anonymouse]

By any chance have you gotten Denise a box of chocolates?

[Arvestaked]

Unfortunately it is not that simple. For many reasons. A couple being she is 9 years older than I am and she no longer lives in this country.

I did something better than chocolate though. I wrote a poem for her. Now, I know that sounds extremely corny but I assure you it is not. I do not do corny no matter what. Some of the best words I have ever written. I am going to try and get it published and I think I have a good chance. I do not think I will send it to her. And, again, that is for several reasons.

I am probably just going to marinate in this feeling of loss for a few months....years....eh.

!%#$&

[Anonymouse]

Wow a poem, and not a box of chocolates. Apparently you are the exception to the general rule of quantification.

[Arvestaked]

How so? I can not tell if you are being sarcastic.

[SexyAries]

I've always believed in that one person out there that is here especially for me and im here especially for him. But as time went by and i got my heart broken guy after guy after guy i stoped believing. i've cried lonely nights and i've wanted to just die everytime i wanted someone i couldnt have. I prayed and wished and dreamed about that day my soulmate will find me and take me away on a beautiful white horse. blah blah blah. Now, i think people just either get along or they dont, some seem to clik with their personalities and some dont some enjoy spending time with that person and some dont. i think its all about compromise if you learn to compromise it would be easier and as far as i go, thats my problem!!! i want a guy im attracted to someone i love to have sex with someone i like kissing someone who will sit by a firplace and read a book with me all night, someone that is as smart or even smarter than me (i love it when a man has intelect) someone who likes movies and not just the crapy movies im talking about the good ones, someone i want to take care of cook for and just be with and not have any reasons why or why not. and im not willing to compromise any of those, because i believe that type of man will never cheat one me he will never beat me nor control me and im so tired of that kind of relationship. I'm prepared to spend the rest of my life alone.

[Anonymouse]

Originally posted by Arvestaked How so? I can not tell if you are being sarcastic.

I was serious in a sarcastic way....


If that makes any sense.

[sSsflamesSs]

Originally posted by SexyAries I've always believed in that one person out there that is here especially for me and im here especially for him. But as time went by and i got my heart broken guy after guy after guy i stoped believing. i've cried lonely nights and i've wanted to just die everytime i wanted someone i couldnt have. I prayed and wished and dreamed about that day my soulmate will find me and take me away on a beautiful white horse. blah blah blah. Now, i think people just either get along or they dont, some seem to clik with their personalities and some dont some enjoy spending time with that person and some dont. i think its all about compromise if you learn to compromise it would be easier and as far as i go, thats my problem!!! i want a guy im attracted to someone i love to have sex with someone i like kissing someone who will sit by a firplace and read a book with me all night, someone that is as smart or even smarter than me (i love it when a man has intelect) someone who likes movies and not just the crapy movies im talking about the good ones, someone i want to take care of cook for and just be with and not have any reasons why or why not. and im not willing to compromise any of those, because i believe that type of man will never cheat one me he will never beat me nor control me and im so tired of that kind of relationship. I'm prepared to spend the rest of my life alone.

Amen.

My problem is also refusing to compromise. If I see his flaws NOW, how the hell am I going to spend the rest of my life with him, right?

[Anonymouse]

Originally posted by sSsflamesSs Amen.

My problem is also refusing to compromise. If I see his flaws NOW, how the hell am I going to spend the rest of my life with him, right?

So you date in terms of future prospects? You wouldn't date for the here and now. Instead the one you date you have future plans in mind eh? Is that how I am to interpret it?

[violette829]

Dating has become such a chore for me. I just want to find someone cool to hang out with instead of wasting my time with these low life bastards who come my way every minute...R THERE ANYYYY NORMAL GUYS OUT THERE? I mean cmon men! The one thing that gets on my last nerve is when guys say that women are headaches and that we are nothing but drama...UGHHHHHHHHHH i think someone should be saying that about them! Dang, i'm so angry and it's only 1 in the afternoon...HOW SAD!

[Anonymouse]

Originally posted by violette829 Dating has become such a chore for me. I just want to find someone cool to hang out with instead of wasting my time with these low life bastards who come my way every minute...R THERE ANYYYY NORMAL GUYS OUT THERE? I mean cmon men! The one thing that gets on my last nerve is when guys say that women are headaches and that we are nothing but drama...UGHHHHHHHHHH i think someone should be saying that about them! Dang, i'm so angry and it's only 1 in the afternoon...HOW SAD!

I am the guy that would say women are headaches and nothing but drama. I am far too adapted to my 'free' lifestyle of not being tied down to anyone, especially with the school now. The quality of most girls now is something that is simply a pandemic.

[surferarmo]

Originally posted by omniscient So many of us look for love, wanting our absolute soulmate.

Some go from relationship to relationship searching endlessly.
But how do we really know who our soul mate is?, how long do we need to know this person before it hits us in the face and you think "this is it, this is my true love"? Does this person have everything in common or just several things, and why is this person so hard to find for so many?

Is it physical appearance that attracts us to this person, their morals, their whole outlook on everything in life or is it a combination of everything?

I have my own views on this which I will reveal later, but i want you guys to give your opinions on this subject.

When people use the term soul mates, they are implying that fate has an unseen power in guiding the two towards attraction. I think its bull. Fate has become an excuse for girls to put in limited amounts of effort in a relationship. When it doesnt work, they blame it on fate rather than their performance.

I say forget fate, forget rules. Just have fun, date, meet people. If you go well together, than that is your love.

For now, all I have is the random spontaneous relations with strangers...and when that doesnt work...I am right handed!

[Anonymouse]

Is this your way of telling us you're a chronic masturbator?

[anileve]

It’s interesting how quality women always complain that there are no quality men out there, and quality men complain that there are no quality women. So I ask why is it that the two types never meet? My conclusion? Well I believe that there are plenty of quality people out there it’s just that very few are right for us. And besides many fear finding that quality person, because they are afraid they might get attached and hurt later.

True love is like ghosts, which many talk of, but few have seen.

[Anonymouse]

Yea, you can hyphenate it as 'fear', or 'lazyiness', or 'not wanting to be committed', either way, right now, I really don't care about that.

In the end, everyone dies alone.

[anileve]

Woe to the man whose heart has not learned while young to hope, to love - and to put its trust in life.
Joseph Conrad

Everything dies alone yes, but we are not living for death are we? I guess cynicism is romanticism on its own.

[Arvestaked]

Screw women and screw men. This thread makes me want to swallow a buck shot.

It feels like all the people who have found love do not actually exist and they are there just to piss me off.

Sure there are quality women out there but they are all behind a foot of glass with a "Look But Don't Touch" sign.

I can rant forever.

[patlajan]

I guess this is a bad time to bring up how happy I am and how my girlfriend changed my life. I hear a lot of bitterness. :(

[surferarmo]

Originally posted by Anonymouse Is this your way of telling us you're a chronic masturbator?

Yes, and I get off on your posts.

[surferarmo]

Originally posted by sSsflamesSs Amen.

My problem is also refusing to compromise. If I see his flaws NOW, how the hell am I going to spend the rest of my life with him, right?

Comprimise is essential.

See the problem is that everyone thinks they are "quality" or perfect. Everyone thinks that their partner should be working hard for them. However, when both people do this, they both give off the impression they are not interested in eachother. Then both parties put up defenses, and appear distant. All it needs is one person to start this "i will not comprimise" game. I suggest you just have fun, and look at things one step at a time. Dont try to look so far in the future because those goals look so distant and impossiblel. Just relax, chill out, have fun.

I figure this: If I was a girl, I would date guys all the time! Free meals at good restaurants!!!

[surferarmo]

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All natural, soothing aloe vaseline!

I suggest you use this for your anal practices Anon.

[Anonymouse]

Originally posted by surferarmo Yes, and I get off on your posts.

Your attempts at sarcasm really get off this user.

[SexyAries]

You are extremely right Flames.

[surferarmo]

Originally posted by Anonymouse Your attempts at sarcasm really get off this user.

As long as I get a response from you, I know I hit some note worth acknowledgment.

Why do I bother you so much? Did I take away your forum glory?

[sSsflamesSs]

Originally posted by Anonymouse So you date in terms of future prospects? You wouldn't date for the here and now. Instead the one you date you have future plans in mind eh? Is that how I am to interpret it?

To me, dating is not a game, for when one party views it as a game, then the other party (assuming that s/he doesn't hold this view) suffers heartache. Call me selfish, but I don't want to be the other party. Why waste his and my time if nothing good will come of it? When I like someone, someone that I click with on every level, it is very difficult for me to forget about that person and not care. If I continue dating that person for the "here and now", even though he has no future plans, then I'm simply asking for repeated emotional trauma. Makes sense?

For me, casual dating (meaning continued dating despite the fact that you both see that there's no future together) is pointless.

[sSsflamesSs]

Originally posted by surferarmo Comprimise is essential.

See the problem is that everyone thinks they are "quality" or perfect. Everyone thinks that their partner should be working hard for them. However, when both people do this, they both give off the impression they are not interested in eachother. Then both parties put up defenses, and appear distant. All it needs is one person to start this "i will not comprimise" game. I suggest you just have fun, and look at things one step at a time. Dont try to look so far in the future because those goals look so distant and impossiblel. Just relax, chill out, have fun.

I figure this: If I was a girl, I would date guys all the time! Free meals at good restaurants!!!

Maybe I should have been more specific. I refuse to compromise those characteristics that I feel are essential for happiness and harmony between two people (for me...everyone has different things that make them happy). There are certain things that I cannot live with, no matter how hard I try. On the other hand, there are certain things that I'd rather not have, but could be more tolerant of, so OF COURSE compromise is crucial. I don't expect to find the "perfect" guy, because frankly, he doesn't exist. I never implied that I think I'm perfect...in fact, I'm far from it, as is everyone else. As I said in another thread, perfection is a form of imperfection in its own way.

I figure this: surfer, do you have a subconscious desire to be a girl? :D ;)

[Anonymouse]

I figure this: surfer, do you have a subconscious desire to be a girl? :D ;) [/B]

I think you hit the name on the head.

[ckBejug]

Originally posted by sSsflamesSs To me, dating is not a game, for when one party views it as a game, then the other party (assuming that s/he doesn't hold this view) suffers heartache. Call me selfish, but I don't want to be the other party. Why waste his and my time if nothing good will come of it? When I like someone, someone that I click with on every level, it is very difficult for me to forget about that person and not care. If I continue dating that person for the "here and now", even though he has no future plans, then I'm simply asking for repeated emotional trauma. Makes sense?

For me, casual dating (meaning continued dating despite the fact that you both see that there's no future together) is pointless.


I agree 10 billion times with exactly what you said in the first paragraph flames.

However, I have seen people casually date several people at the same time and they're all good with it, no problem. I couldn't see myself doing something like that (I prefer to just be friends with guys I like being around/ spending time with who I know are not looking for any kind of a relationship, same as myself) because I think it's just weird to try to get on that other level with two or three different guy at the same time. Plus I don't know that I would be able to keep them straight after a while... Wait! Which one were you? Yeah...

As for soul mates... I don't know anymore. I used to think it was true... but not so much anymore. There are guys out there that I find interesting/ fun to be around/ great to talk to and not conversationally challenged/ attractive/ dateable/ etc... So I guess if there was only one guy for me I wouldn't be attracted to these guys, but I am.... Make sense? I thought, as did a lot of peopl who knew me, that i had found that perfect other half for me, but obviously I was wrong. So maybe when people say there isn;t just one person for you out there, they are speaking volumes of truth. Although that's a sad thought to have after you're with someone because then what if you meet one of the other people out there who is good for you? Drama rama.
:rolleyes:

[ckBejug]

Originally posted by ckBejug I prefer to just be friends with guys I like being around/ spending time with who I know are not looking for any kind of a relationship, same as myself.

Soooooo... What do you guys think? Is there any truth to 'guys and girls can never be just friends' or CAN they??

[SexyAries]

As for dating several people at the same time, i guess i never found the one that i can just be happy with only him so i date around and im not secretive about it. As for friends, CK, i have had many good guy friends most of which i still keep in contact with, but i guess eventually you have to give them up or they have to give you up. Or something always has to happen that will make the both of you give up.

[surferarmo]

Originally posted by Anonymouse I think you hit the name on the head.

What name? Go feed yourself to a snake.

[surferarmo]

Originally posted by sSsflamesSs Maybe I should have been more specific. I refuse to compromise those characteristics that I feel are essential for happiness and harmony between two people (for me...everyone has different things that make them happy). There are certain things that I cannot live with, no matter how hard I try. On the other hand, there are certain things that I'd rather not have, but could be more tolerant of, so OF COURSE compromise is crucial. I don't expect to find the "perfect" guy, because frankly, he doesn't exist. I never implied that I think I'm perfect...in fact, I'm far from it, as is everyone else. As I said in another thread, perfection is a form of imperfection in its own way.

I figure this: surfer, do you have a subconscious desire to be a girl? :D ;)

Very noble indeed. Staying true to your character.

I figured this: You have a subconsious desire for a guy to even ask you out on a date.

(I would offer, but pity is not a good start to a relationship :D )

(Where is the evil smiley when you need it)

[Anonymouse]

You want me to go feed myself a snake? What makes you think I am going to do what you just told me to do surfer? You call that an insult?

Face it, you're just bummed that I always left you tongued tied in discussions. You only lost as badly as the poor misfortunate who had the atomic bomb land on his house in Nagasaki.

[Anonymouse]

Originally posted by surferarmo Very noble indeed. Staying true to your character.

I figured this: You have a subconsious desire for a guy to even ask you out on a date.

(I would offer, but pity is not a good start to a relationship :D )

(Where is the evil smiley when you need it)

I would fear for the girl that is on a date with you from your infamous first question, "So do you vote Republican?".

[surferarmo]

Originally posted by Anonymouse You want me to go feed myself a snake? What makes you think I am going to do what you just told me to do surfer? You call that an insult?

Face it, you're just bummed that I always left you tongued tied in discussions. You only lost as badly as the poor misfortunate who had the atomic bomb land on his house in Nagasaki.

Justifying is little low voice again. Anon, the toungue tyer. I presented facts, and you could only come up with theories that you tried to back by logic. If arguements are won by lying, then I guess you took the cake.

[surferarmo]

Originally posted by Anonymouse I would fear for the girl that is on a date with you from your infamous first question, "So do you vote Republican?".

And your first question would be: "I am ever going to be able to ask a girl out?"

[Anonymouse]

Ahh yes the "I present facts, you present lies". That's just a common tactic politicians use.

Well you are now complete on your way to Republican office. Then you can brag about how much you did for the community, this and that, blah blah blah, you were a surfing Armenian, and you managed to defeat someone on a forum.

[surferarmo]

Originally posted by Anonymouse Ahh yes the "I present facts, you present lies". That's just a common tactic politicians use.

Well you are now complete on your way to Republican office. Then you can brag about how much you did for the community, this and that, blah blah blah, you were a surfing Armenian, and you managed to defeat someone on a forum.

And I will win, just on that platform, its probably more than you have ever done. You know my life pretty well, damn, I could swear you follow me around or something. Now crawl back in the sewers where you came from you festering rat.

[Anonymouse]

Originally posted by surferarmo And I will win, just on that platform, its probably more than you have ever done. You know my life pretty well, damn, I could swear you follow me around or something. Now crawl back in the sewers where you came from you festering rat.

Uhhh, didn't you know that I'm a mouse who just happens to love rats? Apparently you aren't the brightest mind and aren't too keen on observation. A bad sign for a politician to be.

[surferarmo]

Originally posted by Anonymouse Uhhh, didn't you know that I'm a mouse who just happens to love rats? Apparently you aren't the brightest mind and aren't too keen on observation. A bad sign for a politician to be.

A mouse is just a smaller rat. Either way, you are a dirty rodent that no one wants. Go play in traffic.

[Anonymouse]

Originally posted by surferarmo A mouse is just a smaller rat. Either way, you are a dirty rodent that no one wants. Go play in traffic.

Well, apparently the labs want me surfer so your statement is thus rendered invalid. Unlike you ( a lying egotistical Republican politician to be ), I give my life in the lab for the greater good of humanity.

What do you do? You just want votes to validate to yourself that 'you are the right man for the job of Interior Secretary of Ego Committeee.'

[surferarmo]

Originally posted by Anonymouse Well, apparently the labs want me surfer so your statement is thus rendered invalid. Unlike you ( a lying egotistical Republican politician to be ), I give my life in the lab for the greater good of humanity.

What do you do? You just want votes to validate to yourself that 'you are the right man for the job of Interior Secretary of Ego Committeee.'

The ego committe! Only a drug infested mouse could have come up with something so silly. Such big words for a small mouse, must have been that new drug...

[Anonymouse]

Your insults scare me surfer. I don't want to die of boredom. Really.

[surferarmo]

Originally posted by Anonymouse Your insults scare me surfer. I don't want to die of boredom. Really.

As long as you die.

[Anonymouse]

Originally posted by surferarmo As long as you die.

Thank you for admitting that I am a threat to your existence. You fear me, and youre jealous that you're inferior to a mouse. How dare an ambitious Republican bow before a forum rodent. Something must be wrong.

Of course, everyone else here is sueprior to me, except for you.

[surferarmo]

Originally posted by Anonymouse Thank you for admitting that I am a threat to your existence. You fear me, and youre jealous that you're inferior to a mouse. How dare an ambitious Republican bow before a forum rodent. Something must be wrong.

Of course, everyone else here is sueprior to me, except for you.

Ohh Anon is jealous, how cute. Do I threaten your seat on the royal forum throne, is that why try to idolize me as inferior? Its not working Anon. Mice are a hazard to health, not intelligence.

[Anonymouse]

Originally posted by surferarmo Ohh Anon is jealous, how cute. Do I threaten your seat on the royal forum throne, is that why try to idolize me as inferior? Its not working Anon. Mice are a hazard to health, not intelligence.

Did George Burn's grandfather write that joke?

[surferarmo]

Originally posted by Anonymouse Did George Burn's grandfather write that joke?

Was that a joke?

[Anonymouse]

Originally posted by surferarmo Was that a joke?

http://www.photovault.com/Link/People/Domestic/Bedrooms/PDBVolume01/PDBV01P02_09.jpg

[anileve]

Originally posted by patlajan I guess this is a bad time to bring up how happy I am and how my girlfriend changed my life. I hear a lot of bitterness. :(

Amen, thus the xxxxfights arise. I tell ya, they weren’t kidding when they said that all fights between men are on account of women or lack of them in their lives.

[sSsflamesSs]

Originally posted by surferarmo Very noble indeed. Staying true to your character.

I figured this: You have a subconsious desire for a guy to even ask you out on a date.

(I would offer, but pity is not a good start to a relationship :D )

(Where is the evil smiley when you need it) \

Awwww, did I threaten your masculinity, surfer? Hahahahah :D

(I also miss the evil smiley. :D :D :D )

[Arvestaked]

Originally posted by anileve Amen, thus the xxxxfights arise. I tell ya, they weren’t kidding when they said that all fights between men are on account of women or lack of them in their lives.

I do not disagree. I cannot help but feel that if I had what I desired, which is, at this moment, a particular individual, that I will be very socially content.

[anileve]

Originally posted by Arvestaked I do not disagree. I cannot help but feel that if I had what I desired, which is, at this moment, a particular individual, that I will be very socially content.

Thus the conditioning of the society and it's theory that one must be with a partner to be complete is in effect.

[Sev21]

I don't think i'd have to use the word "soulmate" because its a very very powerful word.....

A soulmate....to me doesn't really exist....maybe I haven't been impressed very well yet...In this busy and sad world, people are too busy to even care about what a real soulmate is and if they actually exist. I am probably one of those busy people... lol such a sad thing to say.

[Anonymouse]

Soul mates are crap.

I want a spirit maid, you know to clean my spirit occasionally. You'd be surprised how much dust builds up in the course of a lifetime.

[loseyourname]

I'd humiliate and ruin myself for someone who even approached being a soulmate. I've done it before and I'm no worse for the experience. You can have your money, your sex, your power, your God - I'd trade it all for the absolute freedom and abandon that can exist in a single moment simply standing beside the right person. Not in the coming months, however . . .