Soul Mates?

[Anonymouse]

Originally posted by sSsflamesSs Amen.

My problem is also refusing to compromise. If I see his flaws NOW, how the hell am I going to spend the rest of my life with him, right?

So you date in terms of future prospects? You wouldn't date for the here and now. Instead the one you date you have future plans in mind eh? Is that how I am to interpret it?

[violette829]

Dating has become such a chore for me. I just want to find someone cool to hang out with instead of wasting my time with these low life bastards who come my way every minute...R THERE ANYYYY NORMAL GUYS OUT THERE? I mean cmon men! The one thing that gets on my last nerve is when guys say that women are headaches and that we are nothing but drama...UGHHHHHHHHHH i think someone should be saying that about them! Dang, i'm so angry and it's only 1 in the afternoon...HOW SAD!

[Anonymouse]

Originally posted by violette829 Dating has become such a chore for me. I just want to find someone cool to hang out with instead of wasting my time with these low life bastards who come my way every minute...R THERE ANYYYY NORMAL GUYS OUT THERE? I mean cmon men! The one thing that gets on my last nerve is when guys say that women are headaches and that we are nothing but drama...UGHHHHHHHHHH i think someone should be saying that about them! Dang, i'm so angry and it's only 1 in the afternoon...HOW SAD!

I am the guy that would say women are headaches and nothing but drama. I am far too adapted to my 'free' lifestyle of not being tied down to anyone, especially with the school now. The quality of most girls now is something that is simply a pandemic.

[surferarmo]

Re: Soul Mates?

Originally posted by omniscient So many of us look for love, wanting our absolute soulmate.

Some go from relationship to relationship searching endlessly.
But how do we really know who our soul mate is?, how long do we need to know this person before it hits us in the face and you think "this is it, this is my true love"? Does this person have everything in common or just several things, and why is this person so hard to find for so many?

Is it physical appearance that attracts us to this person, their morals, their whole outlook on everything in life or is it a combination of everything?

I have my own views on this which I will reveal later, but i want you guys to give your opinions on this subject.

When people use the term soul mates, they are implying that fate has an unseen power in guiding the two towards attraction. I think its bull. Fate has become an excuse for girls to put in limited amounts of effort in a relationship. When it doesnt work, they blame it on fate rather than their performance.

I say forget fate, forget rules. Just have fun, date, meet people. If you go well together, than that is your love.

For now, all I have is the random spontaneous relations with strangers...and when that doesnt work...I am right handed!

[Anonymouse]

Is this your way of telling us you're a chronic masturbator?

[anileve]

It’s interesting how quality women always complain that there are no quality men out there, and quality men complain that there are no quality women. So I ask why is it that the two types never meet? My conclusion? Well I believe that there are plenty of quality people out there it’s just that very few are right for us. And besides many fear finding that quality person, because they are afraid they might get attached and hurt later.

True love is like ghosts, which many talk of, but few have seen.

[Anonymouse]

Yea, you can hyphenate it as 'fear', or 'lazyiness', or 'not wanting to be committed', either way, right now, I really don't care about that.

In the end, everyone dies alone.

[anileve]

Woe to the man whose heart has not learned while young to hope, to love - and to put its trust in life.
Joseph Conrad

Everything dies alone yes, but we are not living for death are we? I guess cynicism is romanticism on its own.

[Arvestaked]

Screw women and screw men. This thread makes me want to swallow a buck shot.

It feels like all the people who have found love do not actually exist and they are there just to piss me off.

Sure there are quality women out there but they are all behind a foot of glass with a "Look But Don't Touch" sign.

I can rant forever.

[patlajan]

I guess this is a bad time to bring up how happy I am and how my girlfriend changed my life. I hear a lot of bitterness.