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Who is the Armenian girl that our guys strive to marry.
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Re: Who is the Armenian girl that our guys strive to marry.
Originally posted by Sip View PostThere are many kinds of "western women". As much as some like to put down feminism, it has had good and bad effects: The good is that now there are independent women that have earning power and don't need a man to survive. The "bad" is that the traditional marriage thing that so many old-timers like to cling to just doesn't work anymore. People get together, go their separate ways, have a lot more freedom and less need to commit. This isn't necessarily bad unless there are kids involved.
But "western" girls are MUCH less dependent on their men's money than the traditional girls that depended on the man's money 100%.
Originally posted by levon View PostOk, let's just say you're full of sh!t and leave it at that.
P.S. Most of the goodies that women are used to came after the 1960s.
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Originally posted by Sip View PostYah! All of a sudden when women have all these goodies in the US he wants to call them "traditional"! 1960s is far from traditional. A lot of women in other "traditional" countries don't even have what women in US had in 1960s!!! (e.g. a lot of the arab/muslim countries today who seem to still be 300 years or so behind the rest of the western world)
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Re: Who is the Armenian girl that our guys strive to marry.
Originally posted by Sip View PostWhere did 1960 come from? Why are you so hung up on 1960s? What is the point of me "proving" these things? I am very very confused. The entire argument is over what "traditional" wife means. What do you mean by "traditional wife"?
P.S. Most of the goodies that women are used to came after the 1960s.
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Re: Who is the Armenian girl that our guys strive to marry.
Originally posted by Siggie View PostProbability says you're likely an ass-kissing wimp as well.
Originally posted by Siggie View PostWomen don't and haven't wanted to take away men's rights. They just want equal rights!
I mean, they want equal chance at being a fire-fighter so standards should be lowered to allow more women in.
They want, they want, they want. It's not about equality, it's about wants.
Do you know why you are a feminists? It's because your rhetoric, your reason and your conclusions are based on feelings.Last edited by levon; 06-02-2011, 04:20 PM.
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Re: Who is the Armenian girl that our guys strive to marry.
Originally posted by Siggie View PostYou can't just arbitrarily say that the feminist movement began in 1960. It's much older than that.
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Originally posted by levon View PostDon't be a smart-ass. Prove the points, or stay silent (and prove that you have no idea what you're talking about).
Prove for me please, the following. But first, lets define a few terms.
Traditional woman = any woman in the US prior to the hit of mainstream feminism. Meaning, any woman before 1960s
So, prove that
1) Women prior to 1960 couldn't vote
2) Women prior to 1960 couldn't hold property
3) Women prior to 1960 didn't have any freedoms
4) Women prior to 1960 couldn't pursue their interests
Now, be sure to be accurate in your conclusions. Make sure not to compare an average woman to a well off man. If you're making any assertions about a middle class woman, then they should be in comparison to a middle class man. Similarly, when discussing a lower class woman, it should be in comparison to a lower class male, and finally when discussing an upper class woman make sure it's in comparison to an upper class man.
Now, to make things even better, please make sure to discuss 1-4) for each of the following: lower class women, middle class women and upper class women.
....Go.
In 1860, New York passed a revised Married Women's Property Act which gave women shared ownership of their children, allowing them to have a say in their children's wills, wages, and granting them the right to inherit property.[Whereas first-wave feminism focused mainly on overturning legal obstacles to equality (i.e. voting rights, property rights), second-wave feminism addressed a wide range of issues: de facto inequalities, official legal inequalities, sexuality, family, the workplace, and, perhaps most controversially, reproductive rights.[1] It also tried and failed to add the Equal Rights Amendment to the United States Constitution. Many feminists view the second-wave feminist era as ending with the intra-feminism disputes of the Feminist Sex Wars, over issues such as sexuality and pornography
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Where did 1960 come from? Why are you so hung up on 1960s? What is the point of me "proving" these things? I am very very confused. The entire argument is over what "traditional" wife means. What do you mean by "traditional wife"?
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Re: Who is the Armenian girl that our guys strive to marry.
Originally posted by levon View PostNo, ass-kissing wimps are ass-kissing wimps, and they make up most of the western world. That is the reason western men have given up all the rights they used to have.
Probability says you're likely an ass-kissing wimp as well.
Women don't and haven't wanted to take away men's rights. They just want equal rights!
Originally posted by levon View Post
You know, though you claim otherwise, your responses scream feminist. Traditional families have rules that are meant to be followed by the husband and the wife. When a woman comes into a mans family through marriage, she is expected to follow the family's rules. That is what it means to behave as seen fit.
You accuse me of thinking in black and white, yet all you can see is "traditional woman = property=bad."
Originally posted by levon View PostHmm, that would imply that half the women in the US don't marry for the right reasons, and/or don't know their spouse well enough, especially since women initiate most divorces.
Originally posted by levon View Post
yep, two jobs, kids, stress, divorce
I guess all the happily wed people have no stress in their lives or children?
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Originally posted by Sip View PostWait I am confused? So you think women should be able to have property, should be able to vote, and should have freedoms? When you say "traditional" wife, are you thinking a wife that can vote, have property, and have a legal standing like any other person (man) in society? I guess I am not clear on what you mean by "traditional wife" then.
Prove for me please, the following. But first, lets define a few terms.
Traditional woman = any woman in the US prior to the hit of mainstream feminism. Meaning, any woman before 1960s
So, prove that
1) Women prior to 1960 couldn't vote
2) Women prior to 1960 couldn't hold property
3) Women prior to 1960 didn't have any freedoms
4) Women prior to 1960 couldn't pursue their interests
Now, be sure to be accurate in your conclusions. Make sure not to compare an average woman to a well off man. If you're making any assertions about a middle class woman, then they should be in comparison to a middle class man. Similarly, when discussing a lower class woman, it should be in comparison to a lower class male, and finally when discussing an upper class woman make sure it's in comparison to an upper class man.
Now, to make things even better, please make sure to discuss 1-4) for each of the following: lower class women, middle class women and upper class women.
....Go.
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