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  • #1

    Engaged and now stuck

    This doesn't really involve love and romance so I posted it here unless the moderators don't think so.

    I have a problem that I wanted to see what your opinions on this matter is. My best friend since I was 4 got engaged a few weeks ago and I'm really cool with the fiancee and we are also real good friends, I like her a lot.

    The problem is me and my friend want to go to Vegas for 2 days and she isn't cool with us going since they are engaged now. She says she wants to experience everything he experiences and doesn't want him to go without her. She also says it's going to look bad if my fiancee is going to Vegas with his friend and we just got engaged. This is really frustrating, we are still going but she is still upset and I don't know how it will be in the future. We are really going to just hang out, gamble , and relax. She and I both know that he will never cheat on her so that's not even a problem. She just thinks it looks bad to everyone else and also wants to experience everything with him. We want to go to Europe also this upcoming Summer and I don't know how we are going to deal with that. She is Hayastansi, so I think a lot of it comes from that, since she is engaged now things are different to her.

    I don't know what to do? Who is right and who is wrong? What can we do about this or say to explain to her that things like this shouldn't be a big deal.
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    i thought that ish changes when you're hitched not engaged?

    tell her to relax and screw what everyone else thinks. if people are gonna be so concerned about disecting her life's every detail, including her fiance going to vegas (where most armo men go ALONE) then she should swing the bat right back at 'em and knock some common sense into them...it's 2005 for God's sake...lets freakin grow up

    thats my word and i'm stickin' to it

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    • #3
      Originally posted by omniscient
      This doesn't really involve love and romance so I posted it here unless the moderators don't think so.

      I have a problem that I wanted to see what your opinions on this matter is. My best friend since I was 4 got engaged a few weeks ago and I'm really cool with the fiancee and we are also real good friends, I like her a lot.

      The problem is me and my friend want to go to Vegas for 2 days and she isn't cool with us going since they are engaged now. She says she wants to experience everything he experiences and doesn't want him to go without her. She also says it's going to look bad if my fiancee is going to Vegas with his friend and we just got engaged. This is really frustrating, we are still going but she is still upset and I don't know how it will be in the future. We are really going to just hang out, gamble , and relax. She and I both know that he will never cheat on her so that's not even a problem. She just thinks it looks bad to everyone else and also wants to experience everything with him. We want to go to Europe also this upcoming Summer and I don't know how we are going to deal with that. She is Hayastansi, so I think a lot of it comes from that, since she is engaged now things are different to her.

      I don't know what to do? Who is right and who is wrong? What can we do about this or say to explain to her that things like this shouldn't be a big deal.
      You should tell her that if he wins the jackpot he'll leave her.
      Achkerov kute.

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      • #4
        Sounds to me like it's something for those two to figure out. It's better to figure that stuff out now before gettin hitched.
        this post = teh win.

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        • #5
          She's being very unreasonable here. As long as it's cool with him if she were to do the same thing, I don't see a problem.

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          • #6
            I need a few reasonable points to make her realize she is wrong. If any of the ladies in here feel that she is right in the matter give me your reasoning.

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            • #7
              First of all, no matter what anyone says, she will still feel that way. I know it's hard for you to have a friend who is engaged, while you're still single. I'm sorry to tell you this, but you have to let them deal with their issues. If she is such a cool girl and everything is going well with them, why can't he take her with him? Vegas is KNOWN for sinners..cmon now...Omni jan, DO NOT tell me that he's not gonna be lettin it loose out on the town As far as Europe, OMG, WHYYYY would he NOT want to share that experience with her? It doesn't make sense to me. I understand people need their fun with their friends. Hell, I need it all the time. Even IF I get married, I'm still going to want to spend quality time with my friends. However, I don't think I would go on trips without him. What's the fun in that?

              There's also another issue. If her parents are not cool with letting her go out of town, then I completely understand and you 2 should go, even if it makes her a little tiffed. Just tell her that you would take her along, if her parents were okay with it. Also, it's not fair for your friend to pay for her parents' ignorance. (ok maybe not ignorace..but you get the point).....


              I hope this helped.

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              • #8
                Originally posted by thedebutante
                She's being very unreasonable here. As long as it's cool with him if she were to do the same thing, I don't see a problem.
                I agree.

                But I also wonder why he wants to go to Europe without her.
                The test of a first-rate intelligence is the ability to hold two opposing ideas in mind at the same time and still retain the ability to function. -- F. Scott Fitzgerald

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                • #9
                  They should come up with some sort of compromise....like if he goes with you to Vegas, than she can go somewhere with her friend[s] so that way it doesn't seem like he left her behind and went off on his own...

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                  • #10
                    Originally posted by ckBejug
                    I agree.

                    Is this possible!?!?!!!!!!???????!

                    OMg, someone agrees with me.

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