Announcement

Collapse

Forum Rules (Everyone Must Read!!!)

1] What you CAN NOT post.

You agree, through your use of this service, that you will not use this forum to post any material which is:
- abusive
- vulgar
- hateful
- harassing
- personal attacks
- obscene

You also may not:
- post images that are too large (max is 500*500px)
- post any copyrighted material unless the copyright is owned by you or cited properly.
- post in UPPER CASE, which is considered yelling
- post messages which insult the Armenians, Armenian culture, traditions, etc
- post racist or other intentionally insensitive material that insults or attacks another culture (including Turks)

The Ankap thread is excluded from the strict rules because that place is more relaxed and you can vent and engage in light insults and humor. Notice it's not a blank ticket, but just a place to vent. If you go into the Ankap thread, you enter at your own risk of being clowned on.
What you PROBABLY SHOULD NOT post...
Do not post information that you will regret putting out in public. This site comes up on Google, is cached, and all of that, so be aware of that as you post. Do not ask the staff to go through and delete things that you regret making available on the web for all to see because we will not do it. Think before you post!


2] Use descriptive subject lines & research your post. This means use the SEARCH.

This reduces the chances of double-posting and it also makes it easier for people to see what they do/don't want to read. Using the search function will identify existing threads on the topic so we do not have multiple threads on the same topic.

3] Keep the focus.

Each forum has a focus on a certain topic. Questions outside the scope of a certain forum will either be moved to the appropriate forum, closed, or simply be deleted. Please post your topic in the most appropriate forum. Users that keep doing this will be warned, then banned.

4] Behave as you would in a public location.

This forum is no different than a public place. Behave yourself and act like a decent human being (i.e. be respectful). If you're unable to do so, you're not welcome here and will be made to leave.

5] Respect the authority of moderators/admins.

Public discussions of moderator/admin actions are not allowed on the forum. It is also prohibited to protest moderator actions in titles, avatars, and signatures. If you don't like something that a moderator did, PM or email the moderator and try your best to resolve the problem or difference in private.

6] Promotion of sites or products is not permitted.

Advertisements are not allowed in this venue. No blatant advertising or solicitations of or for business is prohibited.
This includes, but not limited to, personal resumes and links to products or
services with which the poster is affiliated, whether or not a fee is charged
for the product or service. Spamming, in which a user posts the same message repeatedly, is also prohibited.

7] We retain the right to remove any posts and/or Members for any reason, without prior notice.


- PLEASE READ -

Members are welcome to read posts and though we encourage your active participation in the forum, it is not required. If you do participate by posting, however, we expect that on the whole you contribute something to the forum. This means that the bulk of your posts should not be in "fun" threads (e.g. Ankap, Keep & Kill, This or That, etc.). Further, while occasionally it is appropriate to simply voice your agreement or approval, not all of your posts should be of this variety: "LOL Member213!" "I agree."
If it is evident that a member is simply posting for the sake of posting, they will be removed.


8] These Rules & Guidelines may be amended at any time. (last update September 17, 2009)

If you believe an individual is repeatedly breaking the rules, please report to admin/moderator.
See more
See less

Engaged and now stuck

Collapse
X
Collapse
 
  • Page of 7
  • Filter
  • Time
  • Show
Clear All
new posts
Previous 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 template Next
  • #11
    Originally posted by thedebutante
    Is this possible!?!?!!!!!!???????!

    OMg, someone agrees with me.
    I don't know what you're talking about.














    The test of a first-rate intelligence is the ability to hold two opposing ideas in mind at the same time and still retain the ability to function. -- F. Scott Fitzgerald

    Comment

    • #12
      Originally posted by violette829
      First of all, no matter what anyone says, she will still feel that way. I know it's hard for you to have a friend who is engaged, while you're still single. I'm sorry to tell you this, but you have to let them deal with their issues. If she is such a cool girl and everything is going well with them, why can't he take her with him? Vegas is KNOWN for sinners..cmon now...Omni jan, DO NOT tell me that he's not gonna be lettin it loose out on the town As far as Europe, OMG, WHYYYY would he NOT want to share that experience with her? It doesn't make sense to me. I understand people need their fun with their friends. Hell, I need it all the time. Even IF I get married, I'm still going to want to spend quality time with my friends. However, I don't think I would go on trips without him. What's the fun in that?

      There's also another issue. If her parents are not cool with letting her go out of town, then I completely understand and you 2 should go, even if it makes her a little tiffed. Just tell her that you would take her along, if her parents were okay with it. Also, it's not fair for your friend to pay for her parents' ignorance. (ok maybe not ignorace..but you get the point).....


      I hope this helped.
      You're telling me to go to Vegas with my best friend and bring along the girlfriend have you lost your mind Violette. I'll be a third wheel in the room and everywhere that just won't work. I proposed we go to Vegas and I kept saying how fun it will be let's just go so he agreed and is coming with me. Her parents are not cool with her going to Vegas either but that is beside the point even if they were I still wouldn't want it to be us three like I said before. The whole Europe thing is my idea, I keep telling him how we have only 1-2 more good years before he gets married and we should go to Europe together and see Europe together, and I can tell when I tell him that he thinks about the girl getting mad at him for coming with me.

      Comment

      • #13
        Originally posted by ckBejug
        I agree.

        But I also wonder why he wants to go to Europe without her.
        He doesn't want to go without her, he just want to go with me also and I keep telling him we have to go this Summer before you get married and we never have the chance.

        Comment

        • #14
          Originally posted by violette829
          Vegas is KNOWN for sinners..cmon now...Omni jan, DO NOT tell me that he's not gonna be lettin it loose out on the town

          I forgot about this one. There is no way in hell he would let loose like you are thinking it's just not in him. He has never been the partying type nor does he care about "getting some" from other girls. The girl even knows that part for sure, we all do, that is just how he is.
          Last edited by omniscient; 01-13-2005, 03:27 PM.

          Comment

          • #15
            I guess no more trips with my good friend

            Comment

            • #16
              Originally posted by omniscient
              He doesn't want to go without her, he just want to go with me also and I keep telling him we have to go this Summer before you get married and we never have the chance.
              Umm, why didn't you do this last year? Seems to me that you're trying to get your friend's attention. haha

              Comment

              • #17
                Originally posted by omniscient
                I guess no more trips with my good friend

                Umm..Why don't you take someone with you? That way, you can do your thing, and still be there with your best bud. Janaaa I think you either need to get serious with someone, or get new friends. JK. If you want a Vegas partner, I'm always there!!! I DO HAVE TO WARN YOU-I AM NOT MYSELF IN VEGAS!!

                Comment

                • #18
                  Originally posted by omniscient
                  This doesn't really involve love and romance so I posted it here unless the moderators don't think so.

                  I have a problem that I wanted to see what your opinions on this matter is. My best friend since I was 4 got engaged a few weeks ago and I'm really cool with the fiancee and we are also real good friends, I like her a lot.

                  The problem is me and my friend want to go to Vegas for 2 days and she isn't cool with us going since they are engaged now. She says she wants to experience everything he experiences and doesn't want him to go without her. She also says it's going to look bad if my fiancee is going to Vegas with his friend and we just got engaged. This is really frustrating, we are still going but she is still upset and I don't know how it will be in the future. We are really going to just hang out, gamble , and relax. She and I both know that he will never cheat on her so that's not even a problem. She just thinks it looks bad to everyone else and also wants to experience everything with him. We want to go to Europe also this upcoming Summer and I don't know how we are going to deal with that. She is Hayastansi, so I think a lot of it comes from that, since she is engaged now things are different to her.

                  I don't know what to do? Who is right and who is wrong? What can we do about this or say to explain to her that things like this shouldn't be a big deal.
                  They just became a couple, and offcourse it's going to look bad if she doesn't go with him. What's that saying? If you're so into this Vegas trip with just you and your friend, organize it at a later time. For now, she should come along, or else people may start talking about it; how she didn't go to vegas with her fiancee, and there could already be problems.

                  See what I'm getting at? Stop being so selfish. Looks like the only problem for their marriage is you! You must be giving them the eye.

                  Love and Relationship councilor,

                  Yuriy.
                  Last edited by Yuro; 01-13-2005, 04:31 PM.

                  Comment

                  • #19
                    Originally posted by thedebutante
                    Umm, why didn't you do this last year? Seems to me that you're trying to get your friend's attention. haha
                    We have done this before, it's not like it's the first time. I am not trying to get his attention I am trying to spend the last 2 years having fun before he gets married.

                    Comment

                    • #20
                      Originally posted by omniscient
                      I forgot about this one. There is no way in hell he would let loose like you are thinking it's just not in him. He has never been the partying type nor does he care about "getting some" from other girls. The girl even knows that part for sure, we all do, that is just how he is.
                      So it really sounds like she is being pissy about being left out of something. I mean, if she knooows he is not 'that type of guy' and if she trusts him, etc and knows he would never do anything to hurt her (which obviously she should by now considering the fact that they are engaged) then she is just being very unfair to him by being so disagreeable about his going somewhere without her. I think she needs to be a tad more understanding of his feelings about being able to spend time with a good friend before he gets married.


                      Originally posted by omniscient
                      He doesn't want to go without her, he just want to go with me also and I keep telling him we have to go this Summer before you get married and we never have the chance.
                      I think you should have suggested Europe before he got engaged but obviously monetary and time concerns are important so maybe you couldn't... still, Europe being such an amazing place to go with someone you are with it is probably a good idea for you to start looking for a Europe buddy, so you can go with his fiancee too and not feel like a third wheel. It's not like Europe is Vegas where you can go whenever you feel like it without very much prior planning.

                      This you only mentioned in passing but I had to comment, she is engaged but is still not allowed by her parents to go to Vegas?? How does that make sense?
                      The test of a first-rate intelligence is the ability to hold two opposing ideas in mind at the same time and still retain the ability to function. -- F. Scott Fitzgerald

                      Comment

                      Previous 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 template Next
                      Working...
                      X