I'm So Angry/Sad/Annoyed Right Now

[One-Way]

But seriously, One, bad or self-destructive behaviour can usually only be stopped thanks to the person's own realization/soul-searching/awakening. Sometimes it takes a really bad incident that burns them. People don't even listen to their parents, much less to their love interests. She probably knew that what you were saying is noteworthy and right, but as I said, unless she knows deep inside that something is bad or unhealthy, her friends'/lovers'/parents' opinions will do very little.

True. Guess there's nothing I could do/say.

[Anonymouse]

Silence you insolent child. jk lol

But seriously, One, bad or self-destructive behaviour can usually only be stopped thanks to the person's own realization/soul-searching/awakening. Sometimes it takes a really bad incident that burns them. People don't even listen to their parents, much less to their love interests. She probably knew that what you were saying is noteworthy and right, but as I said, unless she knows deep inside that something is bad or unhealthy, her friends'/lovers'/parents' opinions will do very little.

What the affable karo here is saying is that you cannot change other people, and people rare change for other people. To change they have to want to change.

[ddd]

True. Guess there's nothing I could do/say.

Wrong, if she wants to do it you can't force her not to, but you can stop yourself from treating her the way you do.

[One-Way]

^ What do you mean treating her the way I do?

[TomServo]

Me too.

[ddd]

^ What do you mean treating her the way I do?

She seems high up there on your priorities list.

[Կարմիր Բ]

Who is that chick in One Way's Avatar ?

An R&B singer i assume.

[One-Way]

^ She's an actress. Her name is Jessica Alba.

Why would you assume it's an R&B singer?

[TomServo]

Red only listens to Elena Paparizou.

[Anonymouse]

Red only listens to Elena Paparizou.

I thought he didn't listen to music period since it's somehow permeated by conspiratorial bourgeois interests.