I'm So Angry/Sad/Annoyed Right Now

[TomServo]

Hey, the Soviet Union had some great composers, like Aram Khachaturian!

[Crissy]

Ughhhhhhhhhhhh.

Last night, I was talking to my ex-gf online, and she told me she might stop by around 11:30. She called me and said she can't because she had to go home. Today, I talked to her online again, and she asked if she really asked to come over.. She said she was a little "messed up" and she doesn't remember. I asked her if she drank and she said no. 'Cause whatever she "did" - she was driving, so that's already being stupid. Then I remembered a couple months ago, she kept telling me how she wanted to try weed. I kept telling her not to and I would always get mad when she brought it up. So I asked. I asked if she smoked, and she said, "I ono". What a fucking idiot. Honestly. When people tell you left and right not to do it, and the way I told her, she should show some respect and say, "You know what? Thanks for trying to help me out." But no, she had to go and try it, then tell her friends she's only tried it to see how it's like. Fuck, I hate people like that. And now she's one of them.

I swear, we've been broken up for like two years and we didn't talk for about a year, because I was so mad at her. I ended up apologizing her for something SHE did. I just apologized because I had missed her and wanted to talk to her. Then we started talking and I started hanging out with her, and I swear, that feeling - I was waiting for it for like two years. I can never get her out of mind, only because of how much she impacted me. But now, damn. I don't even know..

Sometimes you have to let people make their own mistakes. She is only young, and she is around people who encourage her to try it. The more you tell someone not to do something, the more they are going to want to do it.
As the saying goes, when you love someone you must set them free. Well something like that

[1womanARMY]

i get sick for 1 weekend...and this is what happens

ok, where should i start? Lets be strong and serious...you can't keep this GIRL as only a friend...obvious, yes...but obviously not OBVIOUS to you! 2ndly, if she chose to defy you and try what she wanted...it was obviously more important than anything you had to say...thus, it was more important than YOU...it seems as though she is either trying to move on, or catch some attention from you...either way, it doesn't seem HEALTHY to me...ya know? I've been in similar situations and the only REAL thing i can tell you is: cut it off, and move on, DONT LIVE IN THE PAST, or your future will pass you by....while you wait for your ex to come catch up to you, u could be closing yourself off to the world...and in doing so closing any open doors of oppurtunity that could be otherwise waiting for you! I know u want to keep her in your life, but...it won't work. you can kid me, and the rest of us here...but you can't kid yourself! Look deep within YOURself and you will find that the answer was already there...you already knew what to do!

[One-Way]

^ Yeah, you're right.

But you know, it's hard to let someone like her go, and completely block her out, again - for the second time. She keeps IMing me, trying to start a conversation, but I don't talk back. I don't know what else to do. I just found out my cousin, who would always tell me to not smoke, has been doing it himself. That's someone I would never expect to try, and he did. I can't block him out of my life, because after all, he's my cousin. But, I told this girl not to do it, and I guess she wouldn't listen. I just gotta let her go..

[One-Way]

And I hope you're feeling better.

[Lamb Boy]

I remembered a couple months ago, she kept telling me how she wanted to try weed. I kept telling her not to and I would always get mad when she brought it up. So I asked. I asked if she smoked, and she said, "I ono". What a fucking idiot. Honestly. When people tell you left and right not to do it, and the way I told her, she should show some respect and say, "You know what? Thanks for trying to help me out." But no, she had to go and try it, then tell her friends she's only tried it to see how it's like. Fuck, I hate people like that. And now she's one of them.

I can't believe you're serious with this post ...

What can I say other than are you her keeper? Just because you give someone your advice doesn’t mean they have to follow it. If she decides not to follow your advice it doesn’t make her as bad of a person as your making her out to be especially in this circumstance. Guess what she is not obligated to follow your opinions or advice. Driving under the influence is never a smart thing to do but smoking mj is nothing to get this bent out of shape about. She’s an adult and she’s old enough to make her own descisions.

Here's some advice ... quit being so "Puritanical", especially for someone living in CA. I'm like

Then if that's not enough you respond to karoapers post when he is giving you some advice like this ...

You're acting like you're my dad or something, lol

ROFLMAO!!!!! If that's not the pot calling the kettle black I don't know what is!! lol I imagine she might be well inclined to tell you the same thing, don't you?

Anon you regret it? I'm surprised you'd ever concede a "weaker" moment on your part ... if I were you I wouldn't have "Bill Clinton'ed" the issue ...

[Siggie]

What's the big deal? Is she really young?
I used to think weed was evil and swore I'd never try it. The more I learned about it, the more I saw it wasn't a bid deal. Tried it, didn't screw up anything. *shrug* I think when you do these things is sort of important. I was 22.

[Anonymouse]

Anon you regret it? I'm surprised you'd ever concede a "weaker" moment on your part ... if I were you I wouldn't have "Bill Clinton'ed" the issue ...

What's weak about expressing regret over something that I feel I shouldn't have done? I'd say it takes more strength acknowledging what one views as a mistake. I still regret it.

What do you mean by Bill Clintoned the issue?

[TJ]

Its all a game man, she's just trying to get your attention. And dont expect her to listen to you. Ive never tried any hard drugs or anything and my parents obviously didnt even ever have to tell me to stay away from drugs but we humans are curious beings and dont realize something until we try it and see for ourselves because we are stupid. Ive tried weed and its nothing worth all the hype, Id much rather drink and i do. Ill smoke maybe 3 times a year and i have a straight pothead roomate who smokes at least twice a day. Anyway dont worry too much, see how she views what happened and whether she plans on smoking in the future or not. and explain to her why you care so much about her staying away from xxxx like that, and if she persists in being an immature little attention grabber cut the xxxxx out and get on with your life. make a rap about it while youre at it.

[One-Way]

^ At least someone understands what I'm trying to say. Thanks.

What do you mean by Bill Clintoned the issue?

Not inhaling, as the president claimed.



Lamb Boy, I understand that just because I gave someone advice, they should follow it. But if you had half a brain, you would understand what I'm trying to say. I'm just disappointed how she didn't listen to me - someone who is more than a friend. By the way, she is not an adult, as you say.

And stop "ROFLS" at what I said to karoaper. It seems like you're a little paranoid yourself because you're the druggie out of us.

And Siggie, she's 17. Not that young, but still.