Sex before marriage

[spectra]

Re: Sex before marriage

Originally posted by Artsakhtsi Hi people!

I wonder if u already have discussed this topic! I'm realy curious what u people think about it, it's kind of popular subject here ....
For example arevamothyer e they ussualy do not accept such a thing, same with hayastantsi.... but parskahyer e .... are more openmined ( the ones i know).
So tell me, what do u think, and what does people around u think?!

Thanks 8)



p.s. question to guys - which one do u prefer virgin or not ?

I think that virginity is a gift to the men you love. By losing your virginity shows how absent minded you were or are in you life. I personally prefere girls that are not absent minded. Therefore, I would like to give my advice to girls, please don't lose your virginity unless you really love the person and are willing to continue living with them. Guys usualy want to have intercourse in the begining, but then they kind of calm down. So if the guy begs you to have sex with them, please reject and continue having your relationship without sex for a while, then make a decision.
I don't think guys would need an advice on this one, but I think guys should calm down too and give the girl time to think.

[Artsakhtsi]

Re: Re: Sex before marriage

Originally posted by spectra I think that virginity is a gift to the men you love. By losing your virginity shows how absent minded you were or are in you life. I personally prefere girls that are not absent minded. Therefore, I would like to give my advice to girls, please don't lose your virginity unless you really love the person and are willing to continue living with them. Guys usualy want to have intercourse in the begining, but then they kind of calm down. So if the guy begs you to have sex with them, please reject and continue having your relationship without sex for a while, then make a decision.
I don't think guys would need an advice on this one, but I think guys should calm down too and give the girl time to think.

So to be a non-vergin is equal to be an absent minded?! Did i understand you right?

That is the most absurd comparison i've ever heard.

I agree though with the part about gift.

thank you

[loseyourname]

Sex is whatever you make it. It can intensely loving, even spiritual with the right person under the right circumstances. Other times, it can be purely fun, an opportunity to show off particular talents or try new things. Sometimes it is nothing more than stress medication. I say just get the first time out of the way, and a virgin should never lose his/her virginity to another virgin. I lost mine to a relatively experienced girl (for a 17 year-old) who was very good in the bedroom, and I'm glad I did. When you make such a big deal out of it, you set yourself up for disappointment, and you forget that it's only one of thousands of times. Don't get me wrong - your first is very special, and you should choose the person wisely: someone who is loving, tender, and patient. It does not, however, need to be THE person for you.

[Artsakhtsi]

Originally posted by loseyourname Don't get me wrong - your first is very special, and you should choose the person wisely: someone who is loving, tender, and patient. It does not, however, need to be THE person for you.

Exactly my point.

[loseyourname]

Originally posted by Artsakhtsi Exactly my point.

By the way, in response to your original question, I have no preference. Non-virgins are typically going to be more thrilling right away, but I don't mind waiting, and the enthusiasm of someone new to sex is infectious. Furthermore, it is really fun to watch a recently devirginized girl learn - the joy in her eyes is enough to make me cry inside. Ahhhh . . .

Well, I did it. I got to 100 posts by Christmas. Arvest, I think I may be close to your daily average now, but I'm probably not even in the same league as Mousy.

[Artsakhtsi]

Originally posted by loseyourname By the way, in response to your original question, I have no preference. Non-virgins are typically going to be more thrilling right away, but I don't mind waiting, and the enthusiasm of someone new to sex is infectious. Furthermore, it is really fun to watch a recently devirginized girl learn - the joy in her eyes is enough to make me cry inside. Ahhhh . . .

Well, I did it. I got to 100 posts by Christmas. Arvest, I think I may be close to your daily average now, but I'm probably not even in the same league as Mousy.

To hell with preferences, it's gotta be a natural choice.



This thing about posts, is it like a race or somth.

[loseyourname]

Originally posted by Artsakhtsi To hell with preferences, it's gotta be a natural choice.



This thing about posts, is it like a race or somth.

I don't choose a woman based on the status of her hymen. I guess I was trying to say that there are more important things.

There is no race that I'm aware of, but I ragged on Arvest earlier about posting so much. Now I'm outpacing him, so he shouldn't feel so bad.

[spectra]

Re: Re: Re: Sex before marriage

Originally posted by Artsakhtsi So to be a non-vergin is equal to be an absent minded?! Did i understand you right?

That is the most absurd comparison i've ever heard.

I agree though with the part about gift.

thank you

I just said my opinion about non-virgin girl is an absent-minded. Others, maybe majority of people, may prove me wrong but if you look closely to this issue you will also agree with me. Sex is a fun thing to do, but to get to that point is a little tough in normal people’s life. Unless you’re not Armenian and you don’t have feelings of being embarrassed in public for the steps that you are making. In normal Armenian families (Mostly Armenian families from Republic of Armenia) girls are very careful in marriage or sex issues. Since I’m from an Armenian family from Armenia I have very high respect towards girls who are more serious in their life and relationship with others.
Anyway, I know Armenians from Diaspora will bash me for this post… Please don’t take my post very personally; I am just saying my opinion.

[loseyourname]

I'm a native-born Californian and I take girls seriously based on who they are and the totality of their experiences and outlook, not on their sexual history. Furthermore, I do not equate waiting on something with taking it seriously.

[Artsakhtsi]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Sex before marriage

Originally posted by spectra I just said my opinion about non-virgin girl is an absent-minded. Others, maybe majority of people, may prove me wrong but if you look closely to this issue you will also agree with me. Sex is a fun thing to do, but to get to that point is a little tough in normal people’s life. Unless you’re not Armenian and you don’t have feelings of being embarrassed in public for the steps that you are making. In normal Armenian families (Mostly Armenian families from Republic of Armenia) girls are very careful in marriage or sex issues. Since I’m from an Armenian family from Armenia I have very high respect towards girls who are more serious in their life and relationship with others.
Anyway, I know Armenians from Diaspora will bash me for this post… Please don’t take my post very personally; I am just saying my opinion.

I hear you.

I am also an armenian girl from a decent armenian family.I just think that we look at this aspect of live with so much negativity.Sex is not bad!As long as you know what you are doing and are aware of consecvences.That's it!
cheers