Armenians and sex: what's your opinion?

[RareChik]

I don't usually go on forums or anything cuz i don't have time, but now I do so I wanna bring up some issues in our community.

There are many armenians that are freaked out about sex. what i mean by this is that especially girls are taught from young age that this is something bad and horrible. what parents don't realize is that this affects females psychologically and causes many problems in their life later on. I think that the num 1 reason y there are so many unhappy armenian couples is because of sex issues. im not saying that armenians should be xxxxs like others but they should have an open mind and an education about sex. It seems like armenian guys are on the wagon with the rest of the world with the knowledge and experience of sex but the girls shut out of that world. opinions?

[One-Way]

Re: Armenians and sex: what's your opinion?

What do you mean when you say it "affects females psychologically and causes many problems in their life later on?"

It's not only in the Armenian community where parents speak to their children about premarital sex; it mainly has to do with religion. I think most girls, especially Armenian girls, think they know what they want as far as their relationship goes and make horrible decisions. When they are finally mature, they probably regret their decision.

I think this personal decision should be left up to the individual but in my opinion if any guy or girl has morals, they should wait until they are married.

[RareChik]

Re: Armenians and sex: what's your opinion?

what i mean is that when the girls think that it's something so horrible, and that's embedded in their mind, later on in life even if they are married, they don't enjoy sex or in a relationship(not married), they don't openly talk about it with their partners because theyre embarrassed. Also, you don't see armenian guys wait until marriage but it's mandatory for the girl to wait. There's conflict there because if ur in a relationship for a long time then it's unnatural to not have sex for years, especially if the guy is not a virgin, i dont think hes gna wanna wait that long. Here comes the problem where they go and cheat in the relationship. And wat do you mean wen you say they make horrible decisions and regret it? Also, if youve been in a long term relationship and have no plans to get married soon then its hard not to have sex...and this creates another problem of armenian couples rushing into marriage for sex

[jgk3]

Re: Armenians and sex: what's your opinion?

maybe it's up to us Armenians of the new generation to please our women sexually for a change :P I've noticed the lack of satisfaction the women in my family seemed to have gotten out of sex with their husbands. Most of them probably never bothered to last over 2 minutes, let alone engage in foreplay.

[RareChik]

Re: Armenians and sex: what's your opinion?

I like your answer...Also we need to change the mindset of Armenian guys...the mindset that a girl HAS to be a virgin or else she's not worth being serious with or marrying...NONSENSE

[jgk3]

Re: Armenians and sex: what's your opinion?

well, it is out of context with the reality of the times now, that's for sure.

[Azad]

Re: Armenians and sex: what's your opinion?

Do you people think threesome sex will solve the issues in question?

[Inthemood]

Re: Armenians and sex: what's your opinion?

what i mean is that when the girls think that it's something so horrible, and that's embedded in their mind, later on in life even if they are married, they don't enjoy sex or in a relationship(not married), they don't openly talk about it with their partners because theyre embarrassed. Also, you don't see armenian guys wait until marriage but it's mandatory for the girl to wait. There's conflict there because if ur in a relationship for a long time then it's unnatural to not have sex for years, especially if the guy is not a virgin, i dont think hes gna wanna wait that long. Here comes the problem where they go and cheat in the relationship. And wat do you mean wen you say they make horrible decisions and regret it? Also, if youve been in a long term relationship and have no plans to get married soon then its hard not to have sex...and this creates another problem of armenian couples rushing into marriage for sex

I think what you speak of are outdated traditions. This was paramount with older generation, for "times they are a-changin." We live a contemporary and open society with new perspectives and different values. If anything, it seems like it hit the other extreme. Now everyone openly talks about sex with their friends and therapists, has sex left and right and goes on talk shows. I don't live in a concentrated Armenian community, but from what I hear many young Armenians have abandoned that foolish "ideology."

[RareChik]

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I live in Glendale and as u no it's a heavily populated armenian community...Even here if a gir has slept with a guy, nobody would take her seriously...this is most common amongst armenians from armenia even if they have been here forever....I mean I have done research and asked so many people...Most armenian guys still have that mentality....i mean it was embedded into them as they grew up....I have asked many ppl if they talk about it and most said no...wen i say talk about i mean really talk about it....the girls dont sit down and say u no wat we've been together for a month or two or 5 and i wana let u no that im gna b a virgin til we get married so im not gna accept tha fact that u go out and get it from other ppl...or say u no wat i think sex b4 marriage is ok...wat do u think...do u think thats wrong? i mean they just dont talk about it and at the end wen the guy sleeps with another girl ...the relationship is over...would any guys on this forum be ina serious relationship with someone who was not a virgin?

[RareChik]

Re: Armenians and sex: what's your opinion?

Do you people think threesome sex will solve the issues in question?

No. LOL. I just think ur horny.