Virgin or Non-Virgin

[Azad]

Re: Virgin or Non-Virgin

however he also spoke directly to me that eventually my child will and so will I.

For the last time Anoush ... you assumed it was directed to you. Think about it for a second, how could I have insulted your child if I don't even know you have one.

[Anoush]

Re: Virgin or Non-Virgin

For the last time Anoush ... you assumed it was directed to you. Think about it for a second, how could I have insulted your child if I don't even know you have one.

OK Azad; let's just forget about this. It looks as though it was an unfortunate misunderstanding. Disregard completely what I said about your kins as I thought that you meant about mine. "Sireli mayrigit al Asdvads hokin lousavore". I will continue to be friends with you if you will.

[Yedtarts]

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Virginity in a symbolic context. What if the person is still virgin in one spot and the rest of her is plowed? "Soul" is the cleanness of the person from inside, the flesh is irrelevant since there could be reasons for it. You can't have reasons for your soul not to be clean.

Exactly! Someone can be physically virgin but it’s the Soul that counts.

[Dice]

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virgin for marriage...dont care what they are for casual stuff

[sad_eyes]

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Well, I know that a lot of Armenian guys out there want to marry a Virgin wife.

Me, personally, I want a virgin wife also. But I am still undecided if I will be ok with her if i knew that she has engaged in sexual acts with other men. It might not necessarily be coitus, but it might involve fellatio and other sexual acts.

I used to be chill and not care as much about those, if she experienced it before knowing me, but lately, I am just undecided because of this one incident.

Anyway, again, since I know that Armenian Guys want the girl to be a Virgin. Ladies, how do you feel about your guy?

Do you want your husband to be a virgin or not?

Or do you not mind if he has been with a few girls, but still marry him?

What are your thoughts on this?

Do you want him dirty or clean?

This may not really apply to me as I am not Armenian however, if I happen to meet a man who is loving by nature, honest with me and someone I could see as being a good husband and an even better father than his sexual experience is of no matter to me.

[LadySilver]

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This may not really apply to me as I am not Armenian however, if I happen to meet a man who is loving by nature, honest with me and someone I could see as being a good husband and an even better father than his sexual experience is of no matter to me.

I completely agree.

[jgk3]

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I think we'd all like to find that in our significant other, but the most important is to uphold strong values and be of good heart in our daily lives, regardless of whether we find this ideal match or not, and regardless of the let downs. In the end, at least we have found ourselves and thus, are not lost and miserable.

[yerazhishda]

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virgin for marriage...dont care what they are for casual stuff

Don't get it. You require your future wife to be a virgin, but you don't have to be?

[Vrtanes]

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im not attacking anybody, i just think its funny that at one point in our history we were all ready to fight and die for our christian beliefs. 1700 years later we are still devoted christians until recently it seems.

for whatever reasons weve adapted western views on sex, and completely thrown our christian heritage and beliefs away. there was a time when sex was not just a moral issue but a spiritual one as well.

i used to think i was a good christian too at one point...that was until i actually bothered to read the bible. i then realized much (most) of my behaviour was in direct contradiction to my 'beliefs', ive since tried to apply christianity much more to my life. so now ive taken an oath of celibacy until marriage.

its not just about the physical impurities, its about the spiritual impurities as well, not to mention damaging your relationship with God.

[jgk3]

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its not just about the physical impurities, its about the spiritual impurities as well, not to mention damaging your relationship with God.

Perhaps adhering strictly to the rules in the bible to construct your world view was something of the times way back when. Obviously, since the 4th century, we've gained access to a lot more literature (both in content and variety) and have been through kinds of events in history that had never occurred before that point.

It's important to adhere to the underlying traditions that lead our ancestors do great things, but one mustn't isolate themselves from the current times either and so don't be too hard on yourself about why your beliefs and what you had naturally used to construct your world view are contradicted by the bible.

I take note of the good things in the bible that I think could lead people to success in finding happiness but I certainly do not restrict myself to one book help me understand this God.

I think you can agree that the day to day cycle itself, whether we read the Bible, or any scripture, or just anything that tries to explain the nature of things, provokes us to see what we think we know in new ways of perspective and of scale, each time. This is just human nature, we evolve with every experience, however small or large and they affect how we think about the laws we live by. Certainly, our understanding of our relationship with God can evolve. It is probably one tried and tested example that all theists go through.