Armenian Girlfriends!

[Vigilante]

Hey

Well, I'm 21. Single. Never had a gf.

I've been with women before, but never in a relationship.

Well, I wanna marry an Armenian woman, but before that, I have to be engaged, but before that, I have to have a girlfriend, but before that, I have to be able to find the right one.

So my question is. How can you know that she is the right one? Also, how would you approach her, or ask her to take the friendship to a new level?

There have been times with me, when I would tell a girl that I like her and stuff, and it ruins the friendship and we end up not talking.

So yeah, How would you approach her, how can you know she's the one, and how will you tell her that you wanna be more then just friends, you know?

[yerazhishda]

Re: Armenian Girlfriends!

First you gotta understand that most girls think that they're the xxxx and better than everyone else. American society brainwashes them (and us) to think that way. xxxx that. Treat her like the xxxxx she is.

[Anonymouse]

Re: Armenian Girlfriends!

Hey

Well, I'm 21. Single. Never had a gf.

I've been with women before, but never in a relationship.

Well, I wanna marry an Armenian woman, but before that, I have to be engaged, but before that, I have to have a girlfriend, but before that, I have to be able to find the right one.

So my question is. How can you know that she is the right one? Also, how would you approach her, or ask her to take the friendship to a new level?

There have been times with me, when I would tell a girl that I like her and stuff, and it ruins the friendship and we end up not talking.

So yeah, How would you approach her, how can you know she's the one, and how will you tell her that you wanna be more then just friends, you know?

Rule 1: Girls and guys cannot be friends. If she sees you as a friend, chances are she doesn't see you as anything else. Hence, when you tell her how you really feel, it ruins the friendship. While girls always think guys just want to be their friends, guys think differently. Hence, be weary of any girl who has alot of "guy friends."

Rule 2: Be yourself, no matter what. Show who you really are, your mannerisms, your quirks, your opinions, tastes, preferences. It is this confidence in thyself that attracts a woman because they see you are comfortable in your sense of self.

Rule 3: Follow the 5 golden rules of dating:

1. Never date a girl who has a myspace/facebook.
2. Never date a girl who has lots of "guy friends"
3. Never date a girl who is friends with her ex.
4. Never date a girl who comes from a divorced home/abusive father/ raped, etc.
5. Never date a girl who cannot handle her money.

This might seem counterintuitive, but trust me, this has been proven by painstaking trial and error over time. Even when I doubted these, I was proven wrong.

[Lucin]

Re: Armenian Girlfriends!

I agree with these 'golden rules' mentioned above but I would add the following as well;

Stay away from 'loud' women as far as you can. They are disgusting, unpredictable (in an unpleasant way) beings, incapable of loving the partner.

Also disregard girls who may reject you because of your body hair and stuff like that. The question regarding body hair you raised in the other thread is revealing of the little confidence you have in your self something which is not that attractive for women.

[yerazhishda]

Re: Armenian Girlfriends!

Rule 1: Girls and guys cannot be friends. If she sees you as a friend, chances are she doesn't see you as anything else. Hence, when you tell her how you really feel, it ruins the friendship. While girls always think guys just want to be their friends, guys think differently. Hence, be weary of any girl who has alot of "guy friends."

Truth. You never want to be in the "friend zone" with a girl, if you ever plan to date her - at least not explicitly. There should never be any talk of "being in a relationship" in the early stages of development outside of flirting. You should just let the relationship flow naturally.

Rule 2: Be yourself, no matter what. Show who you really are, your mannerisms, your quirks, your opinions, tastes, preferences. It is this confidence in thyself that attracts a woman because they see you are comfortable in your sense of self.

I agree that on fundamental issues (your thoughts, etc. etc.) you should always be who you are. However if your "preference" is not to take a shower before a date, I think you should reconsider. There are always little things like this that can improve our dating experience without compromising who we are.

Rule 3: Follow the 5 golden rules of dating:

1. Never date a girl who has a myspace/facebook.
2. Never date a girl who has lots of "guy friends"
3. Never date a girl who is friends with her ex.
4. Never date a girl who comes from a divorced home/abusive father/ raped, etc.
5. Never date a girl who cannot handle her money.

I agree with everything except not dating a girl who comes from a divorced home. Coming from one myself, I can't expect that of her. Also, I think coming from a divorced home - at least in America - has much less of an impact on children than it did in the past as it has unfortunately become a social norm. Other than that Anonymouse is proclaiming truth.

[Yedtarts]

Re: Armenian Girlfriends!

I will add one more thing to the golden rules:

Don’t date a girl that works but still lives with her parents, and Daddy buys her everything. (spoiled big time!)

[yerazhishda]

Re: Armenian Girlfriends!

Yea I would say don't put up with spoiled xxxxxes that always cry/ create drama just because they are attractive.

[Anonymouse]

Re: Armenian Girlfriends!

I agree that on fundamental issues (your thoughts, etc. etc.) you should always be who you are. However if your "preference" is not to take a shower before a date, I think you should reconsider. There are always little things like this that can improve our dating experience without compromising who we are.

Not taking a shower before a date has nothing to do with being yourself or not. It's a matter of hygiene. The former is a matter of character. While hygiene is a subset of character, character is a beast all unto itself.

I agree with everything except not dating a girl who comes from a divorced home. Coming from one myself, I can't expect that of her. Also, I think coming from a divorced home - at least in America - has much less of an impact on children than it did in the past as it has unfortunately become a social norm. Other than that Anonymouse is proclaiming truth.

This has nothing to do with you. Women are different. Girls who have father issues generally speaking have issues. Usually girls with father issues come from a divorced home and have grown up without a father figure that has been present, or if he has, it was for a short and abusive period. These women go on to develop problems in their relationships, by either ending up with a similar abusive man, or just are just never capable of establishing a stable relationship. This is so, because women base their romantic ideal on their father figure, whether they realize this consciously or unconsciously (or not). A woman's father is the first man in her life. A woman may learn how to be a woman from her mother, but a woman learns what it means to be a woman from her father.

[yerazhishda]

Re: Armenian Girlfriends!

This has nothing to do with you. Women are different. Girls who have father issues generally speaking have issues. Usually girls with father issues come from a divorced home and have grown up without a father figure that has been present, or if he has, it was for a short and abusive period. These women go on to develop problems in their relationships, by either ending up with a similar abusive man, or just are just never capable of establishing a stable relationship. This is so, because women base their romantic ideal on their father figure, whether they realize this consciously or unconsciously (or not). A woman's father is the first man in her life. A woman may learn how to be a woman from her mother, but a woman learns what it means to be a woman from her father.

Point taken. But is the opposite true for males/mothers?

[jgk3]

Re: Armenian Girlfriends!

Don't let worry for considerations that are supposed to enhance your chances of getting/keeping a girl, stop you from living and growing, exploring and finding out what you really want to do in life. And don't ever let a girl make you abandon something that you've found in your life that has brought you personal peace and sense of integrity. Abandon her instead.