Would you marry a person who isn't Armenian?

[spiral]

Which two cultures?

[loseyourname]

Originally posted by chille I think in the very first steps of relationship it doesn't matter what nationality the person is, but when it comes to marriage it is important. You want your husband/wife to share the same culture with you. You want to raise your kids in the same culture as you were raised. When the parents come form different cultures it is very disturbing and very painful for the child's psychology. The child cannot identify himself with any of his parents. I would marry any Armenian, it doesnt matter where he is coming from. All that matters he is an Armenian and it means that we have something important in common.

You're talking to a kid whose parents came from two different cultures. Not only was it not the least bit hard on my psychology, it wasn't all that hard on them either. The only difficulty they had was imposed by their own oppressive parents who attempted to force them to marry within their own race. I don't identify with any one culture. I identify with small parts of all cultures. This does not in any way decrease my sense of identity. If anything, it increases it, as my identity is almost entirely of my own choosing. I do not identify with one particular culture because it is that of my parents, or because I grew up with it, but rather I identify with that which best suits me as an individual.

I'd appreciate it if you'd quit posting as if you knew what you were posting about. You, and I mean all of you, speculate, whereas I have been through all of this.

[chille]

I think in the very first steps of relationship it doesn't matter what nationality the person is, but when it comes to marriage it is important. You want your husband/wife to share the same culture with you. You want to raise your kids in the same culture as you were raised. When the parents come form different cultures it is very disturbing and very painful for the child's psychology. The child cannot identify himself with any of his parents. I would marry any Armenian, it doesnt matter where he is coming from. All that matters he is an Armenian and it means that we have something important in common.

[SLOWJAMZ22]

Originally posted by jahannam as we've all mentioned plenty of times, WE"RE NOT A RACE!!!!
that's right.
we're caucasian, and THAT's our race.
secondly, whether or not you're joking, that's not a nice way of talkin about other people.
something about your flat username told me not to like you from the beginning.
sorry, it's not you. it's your username

Jahanam yani ches aprel hayastan che? that's probably why you don't understand...it's okay lol

[jahannam]

Originally posted by SLOWJAMZ22 no i wouldnt marry out of my race #1 there isn't armenians like they are hamov hodov jigyarov #2 just would be to hard to communicate and yell at my husband if hes not armenian #3 armenian guys are sure hella fine then lobiz, sev shuns and spitak zibils lol

as we've all mentioned plenty of times, WE"RE NOT A RACE!!!!
that's right.
we're caucasian, and THAT's our race.
secondly, whether or not you're joking, that's not a nice way of talkin about other people.
something about your flat username told me not to like you from the beginning.
sorry, it's not you. it's your username

[SLOWJAMZ22]

no i wouldnt marry out of my race #1 there isn't armenians like they are hamov hodov jigyarov #2 just would be to hard to communicate and yell at my husband if hes not armenian #3 armenian guys are sure hella fine then lobiz, sev shuns and spitak zibils lol

[jilbagh]

Originally posted by jahannam and i guess it's the same way the president of the united states feels, for he decided to kill all those iraquis.

under false pretenses....basicaly he lied to us for the reasons that he went to war for...and its being testified before a senate hearing...IMPEACH BUSH!!!

[jahannam]

Originally posted by loseyourname It is this very attitude that will cause the death of all of humanity, not just Armenians. You guys criticize the megolomania and jingoism of the United States, then you come back with this. Shame on you. This is the same way the English and the Irish feel, the same way the Arabs and the Jews feel, the same way Indians and Pakistanis feel, and this is why they kill each other.

and i guess it's the same way the president of the united states feels, for he decided to kill all those iraquis.

[Emil]

Originally posted by Baron Dants I thought he was half-armenian....dn dn dnnnnnn

I guess we'll never know, as he will never post in this thread EVER AGAIN.

What a tragedy.

[xBaron Dants]

I thought he was half-armenian....dn dn dnnnnnn

I guess we'll never know, as he will never post in this thread EVER AGAIN.