Would you marry a person who isn't Armenian?

[loseyourname]

Originally posted by fIReBuRntInHeLL There is no excuse for armenians to marry odars, unless the odar is willing to learn armenian and agrees that his/her children have to go armenian school. For the ones who think there is no big deal to marry non armenian then he/she better not consider him/herself armenian beccause i will get MAD. our ancestors sacrifced themselves, died to keep their narioanlity at any price, and still we have some morons who say they dont care! if you dont care then get out of armenian society and live like odar. Since we dont live in our country we owe to marry armenians, we owe to raise our children fanatic armenians until the end!!!!

It is this very attitude that will cause the death of all of humanity, not just Armenians. You guys criticize the megolomania and jingoism of the United States, then you come back with this. Shame on you. This is the same way the English and the Irish feel, the same way the Arabs and the Jews feel, the same way Indians and Pakistanis feel, and this is why they kill each other.

[loseyourname]

Originally posted by Anonymouse This is my choice you culture less bastard. I don't impose my choices on anyone, this is my personal choice, what part of that don't you comprehend? There is no contradiction here. It is of my own volition. You keep dragging this issue of culture more than anyone since it bothers you so much that others choose to marry within their culture. What's your hang up with this?

I have no issue with people marrying in their own culture. Nor do I have any issue with you marrying in your own culture. What I take issue with is the spirit of divisiveness that causes people to see each other in terms of ethnicity. You might find a girl who shares your political views, has read all of the books you have read, and who even buys into your esoteric religious leanings. She would have more in common with you than any Armenian you are ever likely to find, and still you would not even allow yourself to get close to her. Not only is that close-minded, but it's sad. You'd be denying yourself a wonderful opportunity because of lack of blood relation. You say that blood runs deeper than water, and I say that brainwaves run deeper than all.

Furthermore, it is the spirit of ethnocentricity evidenced by many of you here that leads to cultural wars and even genocides. It is a falsehood and a vice to divide people and choose who you will love, who you will hate, and who you will be indifferent toward based on ethnicity.

[fIReBuRntInHeLL]

When it comes to my nationality i am extreme. I cant control it..

[Anonymouse]

That's a bit extreme. I mean I dont deny that love knows no boundaries. If my child loves an odar, I can't force him otherwise, but I'd prefer Armenian.

[fIReBuRntInHeLL]

I just have to write this There is no excuse for armenians to marry odars, unless the odar is willing to learn armenian and agrees that his/her children have to go armenian school. For the ones who think there is no big deal to marry non armenian then he/she better not consider him/herself armenian beccause i will get MAD. our ancestors sacrifced themselves, died to keep their narioanlity at any price, and still we have some morons who say they dont care! if you dont care then get out of armenian society and live like odar. Since we dont live in our country we owe to marry armenians, we owe to raise our children fanatic armenians until the end!!!!

So there is no excuse to marry odar! get over it! YOU ARE BORN ARMENIAN, YOU HAVE TO MARRY ARMENIAN, YOU HAVE TO LIVE LIKE ARMENIAN,YOU HAVE TO RAISE ARMENIAN CHILDREN LIKE ARMENIAN, AND finally you have to die like ARMENIAN, FOR ARMENIA AND BE PROUD TO BE ARMENIAN.!

CHEERS,
AND WHOEVER DISAGREES
$%^&....

[spiral]

Spiral didnt we agree that you were supposed to straighten out? HAHAHA


I am just kidding anyway:

You're toxic, I'm slipping under
Tasting the poison paradise
I'm additcted to you
Don't you know that you're toxic
And I love what you do
Don't you know that you're toxic

Straighten out?

what's that supposed to mean?

[patlajan]

This is too much tension to be having in the love and romance forum.

[Anonymouse]

Originally posted by loseyourname You're a hypocritical idiot. You won't accept democracy, but you'll allow the dictates of tradition, the decisions of men who died thousands of years ago and had nothing to do with you, to control your love life. The only reason you think color-blindness doesn't exist is because you've never met me.

Live in your box, die in your box. Pray that God is Armenian, otherwise you'll be xxxxed.

This is my choice you culture less bastard. I don't impose my choices on anyone, this is my personal choice, what part of that don't you comprehend? There is no contradiction here. It is of my own volition. You keep dragging this issue of culture more than anyone since it bothers you so much that others choose to marry within their culture. What's your hang up with this?

I am not attracted to Asians or blacks physically, therefore there's no possible chance of anything with them. It is simply the way it goes. Your insecurity with this topic, and your need to make others agree with you and try to force others to marry someone outside of their culture and make "all mix" is not becoming, especially coming to an Armenian forum, not taking into account that Armenians are a little people with a different history than most. Either get a grip or shut up, your whining is annoying.

[Nimrod]

Loseyourname needs to realize that that the ID of the culture vanishes and that is what essentially happens to the ethnicity. He needs to see the historical facts because this happened to many civilization just as "unique" as the Armenians e.g. Aztecs Mayas Incas and also the Assyrians whom still as of today are trying to find a culture to at least assimilate in and belong because they already are suffering the consequentials effects of their culture's pseudoness and lack of care to preseve. Hey you do not have to take my word for it just observe their history they technically cease to exist since they do not have their own land or soil or anything of theirs anymore, yet nations like England continue to pursue their goals and rise to the top while other places like France is soon to be overpopulated with non-French citizens which wil eventually result in an overthrow of the "French" ideals. Once a culture mixes they soon as the years progress, they forget and once they forget they no longer exist, hence Assyrians. The only ones that actually exist today as Assyrians are the mixes with either Armenian Persian Arab and even Italian or others. Therefore, I say to you all do what is RIGHT not what some mediocre minded unaware expects you to do out of his selfishness.

[Nimrod]

Originally posted by ILOVETATA I know an Armenian that married an American guy and I see how difficult it is for the couple. They both want to have a baby but they have no idea how to raise the child. Whether the child will be Armenian or raised in an American manner. The baby will have the American last name and it'll probably end up being American. That was exactly what I was referring to. It's incredibly difficult because you have two completely different cultures that you have to juggle and kind of have a mix of both.
I just feel that if we marry within our own race, it'll be easier and better for us because the Armenian population will spread. I always get excited when I see Armenian kids because they're our next generation. My philosophy is this: You can give birth to an Armenian child but you have to raise your child to be "Armenian." Some Armenians might prefer to raise their kids in American lifestyle, so in order to increase our community, all Armenian children should be raised as Armenians. That's just my opinion

Typed too fast.

IS it me or you are a too held back of a villager to see your lack of knowledge? WHAT THE HELL IS AN "AMERICAN?"


American for the last time= Anyone (yes even Armenians) who is a citizen of the U.S. you living walking talk single-celled imbecile.



Decency and class being taught to a kid has nothing to do with raising a child properly. See, now borrowing someone else s or culture s ideals, now that is a different thing but for the most part they are all generically the same except for a few exceptions. Eventually, the BLOOD of one always in the long-run speaks and ends up prevailing. Therefore since we cannot afford to get "mixed" all yet we just need to really understand how crucial it is to preserve.