Question for the Women

[sad_eyes]

Truth!

There is nothing I appreciate more than the truth. One time, my boyfriend told me that at the local bars I appeared to be easy, the way I danced with other guys and acted. I cried, I shouted, I told him I hated him for saying that to me, but in the end after thinking about it I realized he was right. That was the moment I realized I was in love with him. If someone who cares about me and I care about him opens up to me and can be that honest, he is a keeper. Now, Ive toned things down. I dont drink, I quit smokeing, and I am focusing more on my religion in the past 4 months. I found myself again all from his honest words. I love you, Levon JAN!!!!!!

[Siggie]

The truth is definitely better. You can tell when someone sugarcoats something anyway.

I'm pretty straightforward and I appreciate others being the same.

[hyebruin]

by some graceful force we are spared through ignorance at times....at a time when we are not ready to know! when we cannot handle and deal with the truth regardless of how badly we want to know 'reality'...but there comes a time when the universe sees us fit to face that which we have been yearning to know! watch what you wish for!!! and what you wonder about!!! you just might manifest it into reality and find out! and only in hindsight do we realize that there are these protective mechanisms that we are not aware of all embedded around us which keep us safe and protect us... ultimately from ourselves...

[anileve]

I used to do a very dangerous thing. Ask questions I didn't want to know answers to. As soon as the guy would honestly respond I would become angry and dwell on it, knowing very well that answer was to be expected.

Now I don't bother, and encourage everyone else to be careful as well. If he doesn't tell the truth, he's a liar, if he tells the truth he's a jerk.

Why do women do that? And why can't men learn to answer diplomatically. If the zone seems to be dangerous, try to be as tactful as possible. I mean you can feel the earth shaking in the tone of her voice, you see the storm coming, and you just spit out more than you should of. Why do you do it?

[sSsflamesSs]

Originally posted by loseyourname I referred only to my own experience. Unless I am mistaken, I have never experienced you.

No, you haven't had the pleasure.

[SexyAries]

Honesty is important and i respect it, but sometimes i would rather just not know. I've always been the one to say tell me the truth no matter what and everytime they have i've gotten hurt badly! So reading this, i remembered those days and remembered how much i just wished he never told me. Other than that honesty is my number one policy.

[whitelotus]

Originally posted by jahannam someone's tryin to get BACK at me ever since I called her u-g-l-y

you'll get over it. I'm patient.

it has nothing to do with it,
i think im ugly anyway, so it didnt hurt me a bit

anyway...why would you think your opinion would matter to me ? haha i dont even take you seriously

[loseyourname]

Originally posted by jahannam it doesn't matter.
you're still selfish and weak if you think people should shut up, if what they're gonna tell you might hurt you.
I feel like taking you guys skydiving or something. you guys are so uptight and boring. ahhhh.

You honestly think you're different? I agree with you wholeheartedly. Most people are weaklings that would rather not hear it. Ignorance is bliss. I can't live that way. There are more important things in life than bliss.

[loseyourname]

Originally posted by Anonymouse I see you are from Planet X, or Niburu. People there don't like telling the truth.

Planet X is a mythical tenth planet. Nibiru, if it exists, is the twelfth planet. Get your references straight.

[PASAMONSTER]

eyyyyyyyyyyyy prophet give me next weeks lottery numbers he he he i can sell em and make a couple of thousand he he he he