Question for the Women

[Anonymouse]

Wow, we so needed a thread about truth and honesty and all, I mean, 'cause like, in our modern day and stuff, we're like, kinda hardwired to like, not look at truth and honesty, and I think like they're important qualities to have, 'cause like, its good to be honest and stuff. We needed this thread BIG TIME!

[sad_eyes]

As someone once said...

It is better to tell the truth in the form of a joke.

[TheSwineherd]

Even when you tell a guy the truth, they don't seem to comprehend or hear what you've said. Sometimes you gotta just be brutally blunt.

[SagGal]

I say honesty also, but there is also harsh honesty that turns into an insult and I can't stand it when people do that. Be nice about it or let the truth have some humor that isn't really offensive. Have some respect for the person's feelings because you don't know how he/she will take it.

There's a limit to honesty.

:-)

[gevo]

gimme the truth or gimme death...
i love honesty in any form, id rather have honesty hurt me than have something sugarcoated...

someone whose honest is reliable, no matter how "bad" their honesty hurts, at least u know the person is straight forward

To add to this, when the honesty is coming form a true friend, that actually helps me alot, and when i am blunt and straight-froward even with touchy subjects with my friends.. they know i dont mean what i say with a mean heart.. as in.. i want the best for them.... but.. there are times when people are supid and blunt for there own egp-feeding purposes.. but anywho

[hyebruin]

this is a sad post!

[angelik22]

gimme the truth or gimme death...
i love honesty in any form, id rather have honesty hurt me than have something sugarcoated...

someone whose honest is reliable, no matter how "bad" their honesty hurts, at least u know the person is straight forward

[sad_eyes]

even so...

I appreciated it none the less. He was very hesitant about telling me that. But he has always been so honest, how can I not appreciate it? If I was doing something wrong and did not really recongnize it I would rather someone I care about and whom cares about me as well tell me it than a complete stranger. He didnt mean to upset me or hurt me. Levon has a big heart, he would never intentionally upset me.

[hyebruin]

ouch!

it's one thing for a mother or a sister to say that to a girl..but a guy?...hmmm... it's not his place..if he thinks it he should keep it to himself or perhaps express his feelings in a less blunt way...this reminds me of one of those reality dating shows i saw the other day..the guy liked the girl's kissing so he called her a 'kissing s*ut'...wtf??? just cuz someone kisses passionately and is a good kisser they should be labeled as something nasty? (i didn't actually see them kissing, nevertheless the guy's comment was quite vulgar and i did not appreciate it!!)

[anileve]

There is nothing I appreciate more than the truth. One time, my boyfriend told me that at the local bars I appeared to be easy, the way I danced with other guys and acted. I cried, I shouted, I told him I hated him for saying that to me, but in the end after thinking about it I realized he was right. That was the moment I realized I was in love with him. If someone who cares about me and I care about him opens up to me and can be that honest, he is a keeper. Now, Ive toned things down. I dont drink, I quit smokeing, and I am focusing more on my religion in the past 4 months. I found myself again all from his honest words. I love you, Levon JAN!!!!!!

When is he planning to get a leash?