Question for the Women

[whitelotus]

Originally posted by jahannam you guys are so bleh.
and you're pissing me off.
how can silence be the solution for a question like "did you sleep with her?"
you guys are selfish...
so selfish that you'd rather someone stay freakin silent, LOOKING IN YOUR EYES,(which translates into lying when it comes to me) instead of hurting your feelings??? what kind of a life are you guys conducting?
tell you what... your feelings will be more secure if you just keep people out of your life. just live on your own.
what is this? some kind of a joke?
"either tell me you love me so that I'm happy, or lie to me cuz I dont wanna be sad"???
start thinking damit.

err the silence part WASNT for xxxx like ' did you sleep with her '
like i said , the silence issue is for something else that we were talking about, it has NOTHING to do with the lieing issue.

keeping silence is for stupid things, so that a relationship doesnt go down the tubes because you tell her every stupid little thing wrong with her.

like when they piss you off and you are fighting, you choose not to continue it, or stab them with heart wrenching insults. You keep silent, in order not to hurt the other person big time with something petty that you feel at the moment. You choose not to make it a bigger thing that it is, because later people are both going to be hurt.

as for the lieing issue, i said we should all be honest, because we cannot live a lie.

as for the silence issue, dont think we are saying ' stay silent' when someone asks you if you are having an affair, for example.
we were talking about something entirely different, we arent talking about saying nothing to the person and lieing.

what we were talking about was off topic, and had nothing to do with the original question the thread asks about.

we are talking about a entirely different ' silence' , so please dont mix them up

uff i give up
no matter how many times i explain, someones going to misunderstand

[PASAMONSTER]

Ehhhhhhh the young ones have so much yet to learn, so much pain to feel.

but this subject can't be learned from a teacher, a book. etc., it comes with experience and for each person its different.

[jahannam]

Originally posted by whitelotus err the silence part WASNT for xxxx like ' did you sleep with her '
like i said , the silence issue is for something else that we were talking about, it has NOTHING to do with the lieing issue.

keeping silence is for stupid things, so that a relationship doesnt go down the tubes because you tell her every stupid little thing wrong with her.

like when they piss you off and you are fighting, you choose not to continue it, or stab them with heart wrenching insults. You keep silent, in order not to hurt the other person big time with something petty that you feel at the moment. You choose not to make it a bigger thing that it is, because later people are both going to be hurt.

as for the lieing issue, i said we should all be honest, because we cannot live a lie.

as for the silence issue, dont think we are saying ' stay silent' when someone asks you if you are having an affair, for example.
we were talking about something entirely different, we arent talking about saying nothing to the person and lieing.

what we were talking about was off topic, and had nothing to do with the original question the thread asks about.

we are talking about a entirely different ' silence' , so please dont mix them up

uff i give up
no matter how many times i explain, someones going to misunderstand

it doesn't matter.
you're still selfish and weak if you think people should shut up, if what they're gonna tell you might hurt you.
I feel like taking you guys skydiving or something. you guys are so uptight and boring. ahhhh.

[whitelotus]

in relationships people have to make sacrifices, it doesnt matter if its physical or mental.

you still have no understanding of what im saying.

if you lash out at someone for every dumb thing , you will pretty soon have no relationship at all

that was what i was talking about, not what you were thinking.

you are the poster child for why some people should have abortions jahnnam

[PASAMONSTER]

jahnammm i'll be happy to go skydiving!

[whitelotus]

i'll be happy stapling jahnnams hand to a sweaty , stinky and hairy armenian mans ass

[Anonymouse]

Originally posted by loseyourname Funny that you mention in the principles thread how important honesty is to you. This is exactly my point. People are so weak that they will compromise their own ethical stances to appease their fickle emotions.

I see you are from Planet X, or Niburu. People there don't like telling the truth.

[patlajan]

Originally posted by Anonymouse I see you are from Planet X, or Niburu. People there don't like telling the truth.

Haha Is that an SAT question reference or did you get lucky and make a funny by accident?

[jahannam]

Originally posted by whitelotus in relationships people have to make sacrifices, it doesnt matter if its physical or mental.

you still have no understanding of what im saying.

if you lash out at someone for every dumb thing , you will pretty soon have no relationship at all

that was what i was talking about, not what you were thinking.

you are the poster child for why some people should have abortions jahnnam

someone's tryin to get BACK at me ever since I called her u-g-l-y

you'll get over it. I'm patient.

[Anonymouse]

Originally posted by patlajan Haha Is that an SAT question reference or did you get lucky and make a funny by accident?

It was in accordance with the prophecy.