Originally posted by jahannam you guys are so bleh.
and you're pissing me off.
how can silence be the solution for a question like "did you sleep with her?"
you guys are selfish...
so selfish that you'd rather someone stay freakin silent, LOOKING IN YOUR EYES,(which translates into lying when it comes to me) instead of hurting your feelings??? what kind of a life are you guys conducting?
tell you what... your feelings will be more secure if you just keep people out of your life. just live on your own.
what is this? some kind of a joke?
"either tell me you love me so that I'm happy, or lie to me cuz I dont wanna be sad"???
start thinking damit.
and you're pissing me off.
how can silence be the solution for a question like "did you sleep with her?"
you guys are selfish...
so selfish that you'd rather someone stay freakin silent, LOOKING IN YOUR EYES,(which translates into lying when it comes to me) instead of hurting your feelings??? what kind of a life are you guys conducting?
tell you what... your feelings will be more secure if you just keep people out of your life. just live on your own.
what is this? some kind of a joke?
"either tell me you love me so that I'm happy, or lie to me cuz I dont wanna be sad"???
start thinking damit.
like i said , the silence issue is for something else that we were talking about, it has NOTHING to do with the lieing issue.
keeping silence is for stupid things, so that a relationship doesnt go down the tubes because you tell her every stupid little thing wrong with her.
like when they piss you off and you are fighting, you choose not to continue it, or stab them with heart wrenching insults. You keep silent, in order not to hurt the other person big time with something petty that you feel at the moment. You choose not to make it a bigger thing that it is, because later people are both going to be hurt.
as for the lieing issue, i said we should all be honest, because we cannot live a lie.
as for the silence issue, dont think we are saying ' stay silent' when someone asks you if you are having an affair, for example.
we were talking about something entirely different, we arent talking about saying nothing to the person and lieing.
what we were talking about was off topic, and had nothing to do with the original question the thread asks about.
we are talking about a entirely different ' silence' , so please dont mix them up
uff i give up
no matter how many times i explain, someones going to misunderstand
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