Can guys and girls be friends?

[Hogg]

You find me a girl who wants to play/watch ball and video games and I won't even want sex from her. She still has to look good though.

[PASAMONSTER]

well then i don't know where you're mind is

i had nights when i was awakened by a phone call at 3:30 am and went to pick up my girl friend (notice the space between)
and she cried the whole night, but in the morning i was just a friend again and she went back to get more xxxx to cry about.

[jahannam]

Originally posted by PASAMONSTER sure they can be friends, but sometimes you have to look beyond frienship and when that nigt is over back to being friends

its called friends with benefits.

THAT's what you said.
and I dunno about YOU, but to me, "when the night is over back to being friends" purely suggests sex.
nice try though

[PASAMONSTER]

i wasn't talking about sex.

i was talking about when a girl gets hurt by her boyfriend or lover and she comes running to her guy friend and crys on his shoulder, thats more then a typical friendship.


i have friends that are girls, and i don't bang em. but sometimes they feel like more then friends like they're a part of you and you can't live without em.

[jahannam]

okay...
you guys just crossed some lines.
can you start THINKING before you post???
that's the whole point of this freakin thread.
can girls and guys be friends WITHOUT SEX???
otherwise the sentence "can girls and guys be friends?" would be nonsense.
hoggs and pasa. apparently you don't k now what "friends" means.
you know your buddies?? guys you hang out with, play ball and videogames and backgammon with???
those are called friends.
what this thread is suggesting is that, is it possible that a girl and a guy can be the type of friends I mentioned above without any sexual and/or romantic ties???
and the answer is NO, so deal with it.

P.S. and my favorite part is when she goes "ouh ouh , no maan we're not goin out ....he's my best friend"
dude just SHUSH.
aboosh people livin in full force denial.

[PASAMONSTER]

sure they can be friends, but sometimes you have to look beyond frienship and when that nigt is over back to being friends

its called friends with benefits.

[jahannam]

Originally posted by Hogg I was just saying having sex shouldn't change the status of a friendship.

huh?
wow
people ARE different...

[jahannam]

Originally posted by dstyle I didnt read it, sorry short attention span thing. but no guys and girls cant be friends unless the guy is someway attracted to the girl or one of her v. close friends. Sorry to say but true.

Amen...
wow dstyle, so you're not THAT immature after all!
lol

[whitelotus]

yes its possible to have friends you arent attracted to sexually, physically or mentally....in a more......deeper and .....serious way.

i have a few guy friends who are just my friends, i was never attracted to them, nothing pulled me towards them in that sort of way.

its takes a lot for me to like someone , if its instantly or....with time. Not everyone stands out to me, or pulls me toward them. When i see a special person, its a different feeling.....you automatically know....this person is sometihng you look for and want. And others dont give you a hot nor cold, they are just good friends and nothing more.

[xBaron Dants]

Sure they can be friends. I think people tend to exaggerate the whole thing.