Can guys and girls be friends?

[hyebruin]

friendship involves no sexual attraction

the question is can men and women be friends, NOT act like friends!! big difference!!!

no matter how tightly the cork fits on the bottle, with enuff pressure it WILL pop!!!

[winoman]

friendship involves no sexual attraction

the question is can men and women be friends, NOT act like friends!! big difference!!!

no matter how tightly the cork fits on the bottle, with enuff pressure it WILL pop!!!

well you have answered your question then - by definition...so you could never be friends with someone of the opposite sex that you find attractive/are attracted to? (is that why we arn't friends? j/k

I disagree strongly with your definition. I have a great deal of sexual attraction with one of my very best friends - and she knows it - and we play with it all the time (verbally/non-verbally - etc) - but we are "just" friends - have been close friends for 20+ years - we do many things together (her spouse [also a good friend of mine & former college roomate] is a homebody - to put it mildly...and I am well - fun!) - we have never had sex together - ie with each other...(only perhaps in close proximity to each other - but each with others... ) - and we hug and kiss all the time (as [loving] friends)...anyway I think she is sexy as hell...and I'd even admit to her being an occasional fantasy of mine (even joke with her about this!)...but I couldn't ever imagine her and I ever doing it....and though I find her very attractive - even to the point of my sometimes getting aroused in her presence...I am not at all interested (in the reality) of the idea of actually doing her (if that maks sense)...so its a totally fun/cool sitution...

[ckBejug]

well you have answered your question then - by definition...so you could never be friends with someone of the opposite sex that you find attractive/are attracted to? (is that why we arn't friends? j/k

I disagree strongly with your definition. I have a great deal of sexual attraction with one of my very best friends - and she knows it - and we play with it all the time (verbally/non-verbally - etc) - but we are "just" friends - have been close friends for 20+ years - we do many things together (her spouse [also a good friend of mine & former college roomate] is a homebody - to put it mildly...and I am well - fun!) - we have never had sex together - ie with each other...(only perhaps in close proximity to each other - but each with others... ) - and we hug and kiss all the time (as [loving] friends)...anyway I think she is sexy as hell...and I'd even admit to her being an occasional fantasy of mine (even joke with her about this!)...but I couldn't ever imagine her and I ever doing it....and though I find her very attractive - even to the point of my sometimes getting aroused in her presence...I am not at all interested (in the reality) of the idea of actually doing her (if that maks sense)...so its a totally fun/cool sitution...

Ok, so from what I have gathered fromyour 2-3 posts is that you are what is called a man-wh0re. A girl-swapping, threesome-having man-wh0re. How old are you, like 40?? So in your world you can have friends and have sex with them and enjoy the company of their husbands. Woohoo. Hope you use protection. Don't spread the germies.

[winoman]

no - not true (your depiction)...anyway, yeah - all in a past life...in a universe long ago and far away...just an old guy now...true...

[ckBejug]

no - not true (your depiction)...anyway, yeah - all in a past life...in a universe long ago and far away...just an old guy now...true...

So old guy, are you married?

[winoman]

So old guy, are you married?

yes I am - 15 years w/2 boys!

[Tres Bien]

che dusken its not a felony it was meant as only praise. ajdpesi mi ban.

[ckBejug]

yes I am - 15 years w/2 boys!

Hey old guy, how come you go on the forum instead of playing catch with your two boys? Or taking them to the beach? Or fishing? Camping?

[winoman]

Hey old guy, how come you go on the forum instead of playing catch with your two boys? Or taking them to the beach? Or fishing? Camping?

Don't worry - we do plenty of all those things...right now I am sitting here paying some bills and checking various sites...kids are playing some games and are about to go to bed...We went camping last weekend BTW...and well Friday we'll be taking them to Europe for the better part of a month...and we are packing as well...so why aren't you out on a date or something?

[spiral]

Just for your information I'm too sexy for my shirt, so sexy it hurts

I'm sure you are.

On a side-note-I sometimes enjoy sparking arguments, or getting people a bit agitated, so don't take it to offense.

(as you initially may have )