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  • #21
    Originally posted by PASAMONSTER You see thats where you got it wrong....


    Attachment has nothing to do with love, you shouldn't be attached to someone in order to love them or the other way around.


    There should be no attachment, couples should be a whole, one unity.

    attachment hurts,

    Ahhhhh what the helll do i know....
    jenny pennyyyy :P..don't give out your power and never get attached to ppl..that's the most stupid thing to do ,because emotions,feelings,ppl come and go YOU stay...did you get my point????
    oh well...some girls are just drama gueens...embrace all emotions and feelings that comes to you,and let them go ,make enough space for something more powerfull and exciting...never get attached,,just enjoy the moment and let it go,be free and make enough room for ppl around you to be free...attachment is a cage.
    I'm a monstrous mass of vile, foul & corrupted matter.

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    • #22
      She's right you know....sleuth that is.


      Don't let yourself get caged, find the wind that will guide your wings.


      One escapes from home calling it a cage and yearning to be free. That same one crys to be in her cage, as she is raped by the same freedom she yearned for.

      jenny you're asking questions on the forum, yet deep inside you know what the answers are. If you require reassurance, don't bother, you know whats best for yourself. Any choice you make that you belive in, can't be wrong.
      Last edited by PASAMONSTER; 03-03-2004, 08:00 AM.

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      • #23
        Originally posted by PASAMONSTER She's right you know....sleuth that is.


        Don't let yourself get caged, find the wind that will guide your wings.


        One escapes from home calling it a cage and yearning to be free. That same one crys to be in her cage, as she is raped by the same freedom she yearned for.

        jenny you're asking questions on the forum, yet deep inside you know what the answers are. If you require reassurance, don't bother, you know whats best for yourself. Any choice you make that you belive in, can't be wrong.
        Are you sure you're not Wise?
        Achkerov kute.

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        • #24
          no i am not wise.

          i have a soft side yeah, but come on.

          I can slit a guys throat and gut him infront of his family and then go out to eat some spagetti with extra sauce.

          I doubt he can sstomach the sight of blood.

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          • #25
            Originally posted by PASAMONSTER no i am not wise.

            i have a soft side yeah, but come on.

            I can slit a guys throat and gut him infront of his family and then go out to eat some spagetti with extra sauce.

            I doubt he can sstomach the sight of blood.
            I bet I can slit your throat faster than you can say "OH MY MONSTER HE'S MISSING CHROMSOMES!" and I still wouldn't be emotionally attached.
            Achkerov kute.

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            • #26
              Ahhh you getting emotionally attched again

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              • #27
                How does one become emotionally attached?

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                • #28
                  Originally posted by spiral How does one become emotionally attached?
                  You start spending time with someone and caring about them a lot. You value their opinion and consider them a friend and like spending time with them. As time goes by you like them more and more and the time you spend together becomes more and more special and boom before you know it you're attached. Even if say what you have started as a no strings thing, all of a sudden you can't imagine what it would be like if they weren't there anymore. Like if you couldn't talk and see how they're doing. etc, etc...

                  Although, don't take my word for it, I tend to care too much about people, even if I'm not that emotionally attached I care about them and wish them well, etc.

                  This is why @$$holes are your best bet if you want a no strings relationship. They can give you the illusion of being in a caring 'relationship' and the comfort of having someone to spend time with but then the minute they say something jack@$$-ish you remember how much you don't actually like them (because being an @$$ is part of their personality). Voila. No problem.
                  The test of a first-rate intelligence is the ability to hold two opposing ideas in mind at the same time and still retain the ability to function. -- F. Scott Fitzgerald

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                  • #29
                    it took me a quick second one time when i met my girl, now my ex. i thought she was my soulmate, but i guess there is no such thing in life. if there is, please god send it my way, i'm gettin old and i need my wife already.

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                    • #30
                      Forget emotions, forget aobut it, by forget i mean yaaaa.

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