To impress a woman, a man.

[SagGal]

Being independant/career woman is great and to some it's a must. What if one day lets say, the husband leaves the woman or the couple gets a divorce. If the woman is used to her husband being the provider and just making all the serious decisions, well, she'll be in trouble especially if she has kids. Taking care of the family, as some would say, does not stop her from being a career woman. She can do both. :-)

[sSsflamesSs]

Wouldn't it be painfully boring to have a wife who doesn't have a career, and has nothing to talk about except how much dust she gathered under the sofa today?

Of course mothers should be nurturing...they're mothers. But the whole idea of mothers always being in the kitchen and the father only providing sounds painfully outdated, and boring. Why should I not spend any time with my kids?

This is definitely not to say that I would marry a woman who is not ready to make ANY sacrifices careerwise for the family. But why must the man not need to make any sacrifices also?

Baron, let's get married. Hahahaaha. Yes! That's what I've been trying to say - that marriage IS about sacrifices and compromise, for BOTH the man and the woman.

[patlajan]

What truly saddens me is this. As I've said before, my ideal mate would be Armenian. This is due to many factors, one of which is that I relate to an Armenian like no other. Then we have our education. We women work our asses off to get higher education, and for who? For what? Heck, I have not met a single Armenian guy (except you Dusken, from what you said, and I greatly respect you for that) that does not carry this same exact mentality that Anon has - that the woman's place is in the house and her career has little to no relevance in the long run. Well excuse me for trying to make myself a better human being by educating myself. This whole ordeal is just phucked up.

A marriage should not be a competition of who is dominant and who is not. It should be a spiritual friendship.

Relax, Anon won't be touching a woman any time soon. You can be as edumacated as you wanna be, but I don't want my kids raised by the tv and a babysitter either. He imagines the educated woman to be b!tchy and demanding which is false. B!tchy and demandedness is a mood disorder that women of all education levels suffer from. Even the prettiest rose has thorns.

[xBaron Dants]

Even the prettiest rose has thorns.

aaaaaaaaaaawwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww. Well aren't you adorable today?

[xBaron Dants]

Baron, let's get married.

Uh....ok.



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[ExtraHye]

Actually, they would each be one pea in a pod.

Could you elaborate on this please.

[loseyourname]

So I apologize I obviously have severe manhood problems and missing the picture for I am a loser and inconfident and I need to make up for the insecurities by somehow going for "submissive" brainless robots.

My god, this is your first ever coherent post.

[Anonymouse]

My god, this is your first ever coherent post.

And no thread is complete without the village losers response. That's right unclench your asscheeks and release the bitterness my son.

[loseyourname]

At least you have a sense of humor about it. Puts you one-up on dusken in my book. Cheers.

[Inna]

any woman that goes into a marriage asking herself "what if?" (i.e. what if the marriage doesnt work out and we get a divorce how will I be able to provide myself?) then the relationship is doomed from the start